Best way to handle a stubborn wife (Page 16)

Date: 11-08-2010 2:31 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 10:46 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 10:40 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 14-08-2010 07:10 AM
Quote from: JAZZLYNN on 14-08-2010 03:18 AM
A wife will not b stubborn 4 no reason. If u want 2 see stubborn try controlling a woman that does not like 2 b controll and u will see stubborn.     

Nope! some people are just naturally difficult without reason. Sometimes tho, it's what would keep the relationship going cos the other person would keep trying to better the stubborn one's character, "trying to change him/her."

Anyway, a stubborn wife aint the wife for the husband I'd like to be. We can always do it the conventional way sha. No hard feelings.


He shouldn't try to change her,because it's not gonna work!
Yes,some persons are naturally difficult, but some really become so when they are feeling constrained!
I fit in the both categories,but if he reasons well, I can be very reasonable!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago)
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U didnt get me... He is deluded trying to change her... chances are one of them will die before the change comes, The point is some people are naturally stubborn and sometimes it is beneficial in their relationships, however in a very superficial way.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 10:53 AM
U didnt get me... He is deluded trying to change her... chances are one of them will die before the change comes, The point is some people are naturally stubborn and sometimes it is beneficial in their relationships, however in a very superficial way.

Superficial?
Come on!I'm everything but superficial!
It seems you weren't with any stubborn girl before, huh? Smiley

Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago)
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I didnt say u are superficial o. U want us to talk about U we can do it elsewhere. I'm talking generally.

Ps: I have been with a stubborn girl. She just never struck me as someone who knew what she wanted and in my opinion her reality is a sad one but she sure does cover it up perfectly with a lively looking exterior.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 11:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 10:58 AM
I didnt say u are superficial o. U want us to talk about U we can do it elsewhere. I'm talking generally.

Ps: I have been with a stubborn girl. She just never struck me as someone who knew what she wanted and in my opinion her reality is a sad one but she sure does cover it up perfectly with a lively looking exterior.

Hmmm!Too bad!
We should know what we want, but,well, that's another story!
Lively looking exterior,huh?Guuuuuuuuuuuuuys!
See shallow!  Smiley
Kidding!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Nah.. that's not what i meant. I meant she appears bubbly and like everythng is ok on the surface but n the inside she's all messed up and stubbornly avoiding confronting her dark sides.

She does have a nice body sha. :p
Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:09 AM
Nah.. that's not what i meant. I meant she appears bubbly and like everythng is ok on the surface but n the inside she's all messed up and stubbornly avoiding confronting her dark sides.

She does have a nice body sha. :p

Aha!
Hm!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 14-08-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago)
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reading! Grin Grin

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 14-08-2010 11:15 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:09 AM
Nah.. that's not what i meant. I meant she appears bubbly and like everythng is ok on the surface but n the inside she's all messed up and stubbornly avoiding confronting her dark sides.

She does have a nice body sha. :p

Aha!
Hm!

Ehen na. U think I'd date a girl i didnt think looked good? Cheesy
Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:23 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 14-08-2010 11:15 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:09 AM
Nah.. that's not what i meant. I meant she appears bubbly and like everythng is ok on the surface but n the inside she's all messed up and stubbornly avoiding confronting her dark sides.

She does have a nice body sha. :p

Aha!
Hm!

Ehen na. U think I'd date a girl i didnt think looked good? Cheesy

I don't know what you want, but I suppose you wouldn't date a girl whose main characteristic is her body, but her
head is empty!
Anyway, of course that there must be attraction, but only with that, u'll not do anything for long term!
You know that!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Not all girls want long term. i was shocked when i discovered that along the line. Some girls want terms so short they leave guys like me shocked, but hey, it's a balanced world afterall.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 11:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:36 AM
Not all girls want long term. i was shocked when i discovered that along the line. Some girls want terms so short they leave guys like me shocked, but hey, it's a balanced world afterall.

This world is everything, but balanced!
Be prepared for more shocks along!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago)
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Well prepared. but the world is balanced... not everyone sees the balance sha and sometimes our perceptions are more convincing than reality. Life is kinda like the water cycle. There is always a balance
Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-08-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 14-08-2010 11:45 AM
Well prepared. but the world is balanced... not everyone sees the balance sha and sometimes our perceptions are more convincing than reality. Life is kinda like the water cycle. There is always a balance

I'm not convinced!
It's a total mess!
But,hey,maybe it's just me,more pessimist!

Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 14-08-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago)
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takes a long time to break it down. Maybe some other time we can have that discussion. It's like all men are equal but it's not all men that know that. Wink
Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chela at 15-08-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago)
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bring in another woman,she will kill both of u.i believe if u luv a woman n treat her like a woman even without money,she can  never be sturbbon.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 15-08-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Hmmm

Posted: at 15-08-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Ceasarism at 15-08-2010 11:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Tell her 'IT'S OVER' or in an african setting, you stop eating her food.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 11:20 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- shaoyang at 16-08-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago)
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always call her syubborn she-goat whenever u notice some syubborn behavior in her if that no do go carry you mama come out for house.
Posted: at 16-08-2010 08:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 16-08-2010 09:45 AM (13 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 16-08-2010 09:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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