Relative to Relationships, Does Duty of Care only Meant for Guys?

Published 8 years ago by: John F Kennedy
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at 02:46 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)

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Does caring or showing care only meant for guys or is it a reciprocal thing? I have always and often heard girls, ladies and women saying that men own them a duty of care or should be caring for them. Please if I'm not wrong, is it only women who deserve caring in a relationship or does it go for both? Please pals let me know what you think or understood about this word "CARING" relative to relationships.

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humblej at 02:53 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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I'm asking to know more about this caring word cos many among the female species use this word as if the duty of care is only meant for guys cos God has said  that man should care for his woman.
In as much as this caring is applied in every day relationship, I still believe that it's a duty of every one who is involved in a relationship to care for the other party.

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divineproject at 03:01 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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It should and it is reciprocated.................

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humblej at 03:05 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 03:01 PM, 14/08/2010
It should and it is reciprocated.................

Thank U, for the reciprocal, I guess maybe U, but not to many others

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FlyMamacita at 03:21 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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When u dont care abt ur guy or u dont show it, how do u expect ur man to do it for u??

I think a some men like pampering more then women, u can easily c tht in how they luv ur cooking, a clean house, sex, and so on...

There r a lot of guys, afta work they cant wait to get home to b with their woman cuz they knw, she will take care of him and he can just relax for sofa.
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humblej at 03:40 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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I'm glad u do so and it's really nice that u reciprocate or even care when he does care little for U than U do care.

 I can assure u that caring for him is another way to win his heart in full.....

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FlyMamacita at 03:53 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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I think in d beginning of a relationship d woman gotta work harder on d caring stuff then d man...

Cuz before a guy opens up to u it takes time and effort...

Even if ma guy dont show it all d time, i dont mind showin it to him
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xter at 03:56 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Mamacita d good woman

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FlyMamacita at 03:58 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 03:56 PM, 14/08/2010
Mamacita d good woman
awww c compliment out of xter mouth... heheeee dont wound urself ooo  Grin  Kiss
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Beauti4 at 04:01 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.
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xter at 04:01 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Mamacita d caring wife

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FlyMamacita at 04:03 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 04:01 PM, 14/08/2010
Mamacita d caring wife
xter dont make me laugh ooo, abeg u need sometin from me Huh?  Smiley
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xter at 04:04 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Mamacita d loving companion

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FlyMamacita at 04:13 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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hahaha u dey craze oooo

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humblej at 05:30 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 04:01 PM, 14/08/2010
where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.

I'm glad that ladies who have so far commented, have just said what it should be in reality and not theory wise...., but the truth is that, not many women consider it as a duty owned by both parties to each other.

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Michro at 06:29 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Both as caring is reciprocal.
A proverb says a single hand cannot cover a proken pot

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Michro at 06:32 PM, 14/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Both, as care is reciprocal.
An adage says a single hand cannot cover a broken pot

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humblej at 04:04 PM, 15/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Reciprocal indeed! In all manner of ramification, that is exactly what caring  should be and not one sided thing! 

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bittersweet at 05:53 PM, 15/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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If the care is not mutual, there will be problems!
So it must be that way!
I'm surprised that you said that guys are more caring, because from what I see,caring guys are really exceptions!

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humblej at 06:04 AM, 16/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Yeah sis, don't be surprised cos most guys give financial care while most girls give emotional care

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