Does caring or showing care only meant for guys or is it a reciprocal thing? I have always and often heard girls, ladies and women saying that men own them a duty of care or should be caring for them. Please if I'm not wrong, is it only women who deserve caring in a relationship or does it go for both? Please pals let me know what you think or understood about this word "CARING" relative to relationships.
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Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I'm asking to know more about this caring word cos many among the female species use this word as if the duty of care is only meant for guys cos God has said that man should care for his woman. In as much as this caring is applied in every day relationship, I still believe that it's a duty of every one who is involved in a relationship to care for the other party.
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 03:21 PM (14 years ago) (f)
When u dont care abt ur guy or u dont show it, how do u expect ur man to do it for u??
I think a some men like pampering more then women, u can easily c tht in how they luv ur cooking, a clean house, sex, and so on...
There r a lot of guys, afta work they cant wait to get home to b with their woman cuz they knw, she will take care of him and he can just relax for sofa.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.
I'm glad that ladies who have so far commented, have just said what it should be in reality and not theory wise...., but the truth is that, not many women consider it as a duty owned by both parties to each other.
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 14-08-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 15-08-2010 05:53 PM (14 years ago) (f)
If the care is not mutual, there will be problems! So it must be that way! I'm surprised that you said that guys are more caring, because from what I see,caring guys are really exceptions!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 15-08-2010 05:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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