Relative to Relationships, Does Duty of Care only Meant for Guys?

Date: 14-08-2010 2:46 pm (13 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- at 14-08-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Does caring or showing care only meant for guys or is it a reciprocal thing? I have always and often heard girls, ladies and women saying that men own them a duty of care or should be caring for them. Please if I'm not wrong, is it only women who deserve caring in a relationship or does it go for both? Please pals let me know what you think or understood about this word "CARING" relative to relationships.


Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- humblej at 14-08-2010 02:53 PM (13 years ago)
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I'm asking to know more about this caring word cos many among the female species use this word as if the duty of care is only meant for guys cos God has said  that man should care for his woman.
In as much as this caring is applied in every day relationship, I still believe that it's a duty of every one who is involved in a relationship to care for the other party.

Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 14-08-2010 03:01 PM (13 years ago)
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It should and it is reciprocated.................

Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 14-08-2010 03:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 14-08-2010 03:01 PM
It should and it is reciprocated.................

Thank U, for the reciprocal, I guess maybe U, but not to many others

Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 03:21 PM (13 years ago)
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When u dont care abt ur guy or u dont show it, how do u expect ur man to do it for u??

I think a some men like pampering more then women, u can easily c tht in how they luv ur cooking, a clean house, sex, and so on...

There r a lot of guys, afta work they cant wait to get home to b with their woman cuz they knw, she will take care of him and he can just relax for sofa.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- humblej at 14-08-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago)
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I'm glad u do so and it's really nice that u reciprocate or even care when he does care little for U than U do care.

 I can assure u that caring for him is another way to win his heart in full.....

Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago)
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I think in d beginning of a relationship d woman gotta work harder on d caring stuff then d man...

Cuz before a guy opens up to u it takes time and effort...

Even if ma guy dont show it all d time, i dont mind showin it to him
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 14-08-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Mamacita d good woman

Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 03:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 14-08-2010 03:56 PM
Mamacita d good woman
awww c compliment out of xter mouth... heheeee dont wound urself ooo  Grin  Kiss
Posted: at 14-08-2010 03:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 14-08-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.
Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 14-08-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Mamacita d caring wife

Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 04:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 14-08-2010 04:01 PM
Mamacita d caring wife
xter dont make me laugh ooo, abeg u need sometin from me Huh?  Smiley
Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 14-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Mamacita d loving companion

Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2010 04:13 PM (13 years ago)
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hahaha u dey craze oooo

Posted: at 14-08-2010 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- humblej at 14-08-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 14-08-2010 04:01 PM
where there is no love, there is no responsible duty from both parties. it doesn't matter who is workin or not. both is entitle to care for each other. the bible says: it is good for two to lay down in order to warm each other. iron sharpeneth iron.

I'm glad that ladies who have so far commented, have just said what it should be in reality and not theory wise...., but the truth is that, not many women consider it as a duty owned by both parties to each other.

Posted: at 14-08-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-08-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Both as caring is reciprocal.
A proverb says a single hand cannot cover a proken pot

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-08-2010 06:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Both, as care is reciprocal.
An adage says a single hand cannot cover a broken pot

Posted: at 14-08-2010 06:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 15-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Reciprocal indeed! In all manner of ramification, that is exactly what caring  should be and not one sided thing! 

Posted: at 15-08-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 15-08-2010 05:53 PM (13 years ago)
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If the care is not mutual, there will be problems!
So it must be that way!
I'm surprised that you said that guys are more caring, because from what I see,caring guys are really exceptions!

Posted: at 15-08-2010 05:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 16-08-2010 06:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Yeah sis, don't be surprised cos most guys give financial care while most girls give emotional care

Posted: at 16-08-2010 06:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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