Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
Posted: at 15-08-2010 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I hope not -- I won't discover anything new, but every human being is different. Man is man, maybe he needs lovers , but if I decide for relationship, I hope that I am smart enough to bear everything I will know abt him.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 01:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
qunodinga at 15-08-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) (f)
cute one there!
Wouldn't you also consider that he may decided oneday to change his mine against you..maybe after considering that he had dated the 1st gurl for almost 5 years....
Posted: at 15-08-2010 01:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
No matter what kind of relationship is, I think that giving and providing freedom for partner is extremely important. If my feelings to someone aren't what they dream abt, they don't answer for that, it means that being together isn't for us...!
Posted: at 15-08-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
qunodinga at 15-08-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Evve on 15-08-2010 01:38 PM
If he is searching, it's his right to do that.
No matter what kind of relationship is, I think that giving and providing freedom for partner is extremely important. If my feelings to someone aren't what they dream abt, they don't answer for that, it means that being together isn't for us...!
wow!
Rather added that this is a different option to some other women... But should men continue in that to make a good wife.....
Posted: at 15-08-2010 01:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
"He had previously"- its his past, nothing concerns me with his past phyukups. If u don't take the risk of going into a relationship, its very likely that "one" u've been waiting 4 will pass u by, then what?
Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Life is learning process . We only can accept that, maybe there is hope that our life could be better after some levels of learning .
About searching the right person to spend life with: it's also learning, every relation with other person can teach us something that would be helpful in next relationship. I don't know if it is easy to decide that "I want to spend life with that one", but if learning gives wisdom -- there is hope for good .
Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
U know how when U as a girl out and she doesn't say yes and she doesn't say no but U guys are dating and at the same time not dating? Ehen, when a girl puts U in that situation U wont feel bad telling another girl U are single and searching cos in reality she never did give U an answer.
Now take that one girl that didn't say yes or no but is letting U assume and leaving by assumptions and multiply it by 3 then add a fourth girl who hopefully myt be smarter than the first 3 and give U a straight forward answer.
Doesn't stop there o till one girl does say the yes or the no.
Now this is one example of the situation.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
qunodinga at 15-08-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 02:22 PM
Quote from: qunodinga on 15-08-2010 01:17 PM
Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
U know how when U as a girl out and she doesn't say yes and she doesn't say no but U guys are dating and at the same time not dating? Ehen, when a girl puts U in that situation U wont feel bad telling another girl U are single and searching cos in reality she never did give U an answer.
Now take that one girl that didn't say yes or no but is letting U assume and leaving by assumptions and multiply it by 3 then add a fourth girl who hopefully myt be smarter than the first 3 and give U a straight forward answer.
Doesn't stop there o till one girl does say the yes or the no.
Now this is one example of the situation.
Lets be realistic, what stop him being frank...maybe set one free... before adventuring into another?
Posted: at 15-08-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
qunodinga at 15-08-2010 08:41 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: temi07 on 15-08-2010 02:13 PM
Quote from: qunodinga on 15-08-2010 01:17 PM
Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
"He had previously"- its his past, nothing concerns me with his past *****ups. If u don't take the risk of going into a relationship, its very likely that "one" u've been waiting 4 will pass u by, then what?
nope.... at present.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 08:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
qunodinga at 15-08-2010 08:47 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Evve on 15-08-2010 02:15 PM
Life is learning process . We only can accept that, maybe there is hope that our life could be better after some levels of learning .
About searching the right person to spend life with: it's also learning, every relation with other person can teach us something that would be helpful in next relationship. I don't know if it is easy to decide that "I want to spend life with that one", but if learning gives wisdom -- there is hope for good .
I quite agree with you dear, we has a chance to learn and share in every relationship we ventured.
Posted: at 15-08-2010 08:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Some guys keep saying i am Single & Searching...when they approach a girl when the girl accept to start a relationship, she'l discovere that he had previously three lovers ..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single and searching..?
"He had previously"- its his past, nothing concerns me with his past *****ups. If u don't take the risk of going into a relationship, its very likely that "one" u've been waiting 4 will pass u by, then what?
well said
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 16-08-2010 09:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
TRENDING GISTS 
..if you are in this mess what will you do....is that the rule of single
, but if I decide for relationship, I hope that I am smart enough to bear everything I will know abt him. 
. We only can accept that, maybe there is hope that our life could be better after some levels of learning 
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