![-]( "Missthing") Missthing at 30-08-2010 04:49 AM (14 years ago)  (f) If am marrying for money no way i sign anything, if its for love then i can sign because one of my criteria for marry the one i love is that he must be richer than i am.
What kinda Funny Statement is dis? Abeg, just leave am na wetin i want i don talk, talk ur own,lol. It means it's the Person's Money yu Love na As long as there's love involved na, doesn't matter if its him or his money, they are both attached, samething. Na yu know Na so yu go take Marry Alhaji wey don get 7 Wives | Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:49 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Signing that means you are sure the mariage will fail . So why do anyone go into a mariage he/she knows is bound to fail ?
No! Anybody who gets married, hopes that it's gonna last forever, but we are humans, and we can make mistakes, we can wake up one day and say that we want another thing from this life!You or him,doesn't matter! Ppl change! Nobody knows what the future holds! RElationships are worked on just like marriage .As long as you take it as one of your marital duties to work on your union , it will never go sour It will never go sour? You're kidding, right? It's ever a guarantee for that? That would mean that there is no divorce in this world ! So, what's with this high of divorce rate? It's a madness, so one should be covered!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:00 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Fleeters") Fleeters at 30-08-2010 06:02 AM (14 years ago) (m) peeping
Esonu you are always passing, peeping, pissing, hiding or learning. Why?  | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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in all these talks, i don't see or feel love in the air. Its as if some of us marry 4 what we gain not for love and the fact that u want to be with that person 4 the rest of ur life. It's not fair!
If u sign a prenupt,it's for protecting your assets, not for gaining anything! That's nothing wrong in that, but even a wise move,considering the divorce rate nowadays! You protect your assets from a presumed enemy . So why go into marriage with an enemy ? I'll repeat myself: To me a prenup is nothing more than an insurance policy similar to a health insurance policy.If u have a good relationship, u never take the prenup out of the draw.Money has nothing to do with love.They are 2 different categories and they are both very important in their own category. Money pays the bills, but love nurtures the spirit. Anyone who would say to me that if I wanted a prenup, I didn't love them, doesn't know what love is.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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So, it’s time to think outside of the African box, huh? Fabulous! This site is full of surprises. I noticed a huge contradiction here, i must admit. Hmmmmm.....money! money! Money! Suddenly, the African mentality, and ways of doing things are out of the window. Wow! I feel like a w**** girl in a dark skin right now. So, i fit open my mouth to ask whoever i wan marry tomorrow (African) to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage........... Lwkm!!
Hold on, is it not written somewhere in the bible that couples should sign Prenuptial Agreements before marriage? Hell no! The bible did not talk about Prenuptial Agreements hence not biblical. Mind you, God’s instructions regarding our lives are clear through his words. Signing a contract or whatever, that details the ending of a marriage is a definite inclination that God is not the leader in the beginning of the marriage. Whatever happened to till death us do part or whatever? No wonder people are shying away from marriage these days.
Nobody enters into a marriage with the will of divorce,but as somebody said,u can control your own actions, but not the actions of your spouse too! If you get married later,after u became successful in your career, worked really hard for everything u had now, and u fall in love with a man who has almost nothing, but u marry him because u love him, why would u not want to protect your hard work, in case he'll wake up one morning and asks for a divorce? I don't see absolutely nothing wrong in that! Anyway, everybody does as they think it's better for them! That is why you should make God the pillar of your relationship so that nobody will "wake up one day and demand for a divorce" You can bet that I put my life in God's hands,but ppl are ppl,they change, they are unpredictable, so it's better that one should not take useless risks, if there is something which could prevent them! Love is love and money is money! Two entirely different things!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:06 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Fleeters") Fleeters at 30-08-2010 06:28 AM (14 years ago) (m) Sis, tell them. Don't mind some people who neva face the realities of life but want an idealistic and superstituos life. That's d problem of Africa. Other parts of the world would face the facts as them are, but africans will always bring sentiments and religion into every issue. A simple issue...... Some of these people register their marriage in the marriage registry. That one took an insurance policy does not mean one want to die. That one takes necesary steps to protect her marriage does not mean one does't trust her partner. A Question for the ladies..... Why do they always insist on wedding their partners. AN HONEST ANSWER PLS........ | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:28 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Sis, tell them. Don't mind some people who neva face the realities of life but want an idealistic and superstituos life. That's d problem of Africa. Other parts of the world would face the facts as them are, but africans will always bring sentiments and religion into every issue. A simple issue...... Some of these people register their marriage in the marriage registry. That one took an insurance policy does not mean one want to die. That one takes necesary steps to protect her marriage does not mean one does't trust her partner. A Question for the ladies..... Why do they always insist on wedding their partners. AN HONEST ANSWER PLS........
Good ones there! I can't answer to your question because I'm not eager to get marry yet! It's not bad in putting God in everything, but sometimes it seems to me that some ppl misinterpret the Bible! But,hey,God knows the soul of each of us! So He's the only One who has the right and who will judge us! At the right time!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 06:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 30-08-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago) (m) still on still....still chilling n learning | Posted: at 30-08-2010 09:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 30-08-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago) (f) Signing that means you are sure the mariage will fail . So why do anyone go into a mariage he/she knows is bound to fail ?
No! Anybody who gets married, hopes that it's gonna last forever, but we are humans, and we can make mistakes, we can wake up one day and say that we want another thing from this life!You or him,doesn't matter! Ppl change! Nobody knows what the future holds! RElationships are worked on just like marriage .As long as you take it as one of your marital duties to work on your union , it will never go sour It will never go sour? You're kidding, right? It's ever a guarantee for that? That would mean that there is no divorce in this world ! So, what's with this high of divorce rate? It's a madness, so one should be covered! Marriage is not a bed of roses , it is bound to go sour but if you really married for better for worse you will work on it and not allow it go to the level of divorce .Yes there is high rate of divorce because most poeple marry because of wealth and comfort not because of love and many are bussy with material things that they have failed to work on the basic things................their marriage
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 30-08-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago) (f) So, it’s time to think outside of the African box, huh? Fabulous! This site is full of surprises. I noticed a huge contradiction here, i must admit. Hmmmmm.....money! money! Money! Suddenly, the African mentality, and ways of doing things are out of the window. Wow! I feel like a w**** girl in a dark skin right now. So, i fit open my mouth to ask whoever i wan marry tomorrow (African) to sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage........... Lwkm!!
Hold on, is it not written somewhere in the bible that couples should sign Prenuptial Agreements before marriage? Hell no! The bible did not talk about Prenuptial Agreements hence not biblical. Mind you, God’s instructions regarding our lives are clear through his words. Signing a contract or whatever, that details the ending of a marriage is a definite inclination that God is not the leader in the beginning of the marriage. Whatever happened to till death us do part or whatever? No wonder people are shying away from marriage these days.
Nobody enters into a marriage with the will of divorce,but as somebody said,u can control your own actions, but not the actions of your spouse too! If you get married later,after u became successful in your career, worked really hard for everything u had now, and u fall in love with a man who has almost nothing, but u marry him because u love him, why would u not want to protect your hard work, in case he'll wake up one morning and asks for a divorce? I don't see absolutely nothing wrong in that! Anyway, everybody does as they think it's better for them! That is why you should make God the pillar of your relationship so that nobody will "wake up one day and demand for a divorce" You can bet that I put my life in God's hands,but ppl are ppl,they change, they are unpredictable, so it's better that one should not take useless risks, if there is something which could prevent them! Love is love and money is money! Two entirely different things! Yea that is the problem , when poeple love money more than their relationships .They will be working to amass more wealth to the detriment of their union
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 30-08-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) (f) Sis, tell them. Don't mind some people who neva face the realities of life but want an idealistic and superstituos life. That's d problem of Africa. Other parts of the world would face the facts as them are, but africans will always bring sentiments and religion into every issue. A simple issue...... Some of these people register their marriage in the marriage registry. That one took an insurance policy does not mean one want to die. That one takes necesary steps to protect her marriage does not mean one does't trust her partner. A Question for the ladies..... Why do they always insist on wedding their partners. AN HONEST ANSWER PLS........
What better ways are there to protect your marriage than to "work to make it work" ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Signing that means you are sure the mariage will fail . So why do anyone go into a mariage he/she knows is bound to fail ?
No! Anybody who gets married, hopes that it's gonna last forever, but we are humans, and we can make mistakes, we can wake up one day and say that we want another thing from this life!You or him,doesn't matter! Ppl change! Nobody knows what the future holds! RElationships are worked on just like marriage .As long as you take it as one of your marital duties to work on your union , it will never go sour It will never go sour? You're kidding, right? It's ever a guarantee for that? That would mean that there is no divorce in this world ! So, what's with this high of divorce rate? It's a madness, so one should be covered! Marriage is not a bed of roses , it is bound to go sour but if you really married for better for worse you will work on it and not allow it go to the level of divorce .Yes there is high rate of divorce because most poeple marry because of wealth and comfort not because of love and many are bussy with material things that they have failed to work on the basic things................their marriage Exactly because of that, a prenupt must be done!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:34 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 30-08-2010 10:37 AM (14 years ago) (f) Signing that means you are sure the mariage will fail . So why do anyone go into a mariage he/she knows is bound to fail ?
No! Anybody who gets married, hopes that it's gonna last forever, but we are humans, and we can make mistakes, we can wake up one day and say that we want another thing from this life!You or him,doesn't matter! Ppl change! Nobody knows what the future holds! RElationships are worked on just like marriage .As long as you take it as one of your marital duties to work on your union , it will never go sour It will never go sour? You're kidding, right? It's ever a guarantee for that? That would mean that there is no divorce in this world ! So, what's with this high of divorce rate? It's a madness, so one should be covered! Marriage is not a bed of roses , it is bound to go sour but if you really married for better for worse you will work on it and not allow it go to the level of divorce .Yes there is high rate of divorce because most poeple marry because of wealth and comfort not because of love and many are bussy with material things that they have failed to work on the basic things................their marriage Exactly because of that, a prenupt must be done! Well because i dont get married because of that, i will never think of singning a prenupt 
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Signing that means you are sure the mariage will fail . So why do anyone go into a mariage he/she knows is bound to fail ?
No! Anybody who gets married, hopes that it's gonna last forever, but we are humans, and we can make mistakes, we can wake up one day and say that we want another thing from this life!You or him,doesn't matter! Ppl change! Nobody knows what the future holds! RElationships are worked on just like marriage .As long as you take it as one of your marital duties to work on your union , it will never go sour It will never go sour? You're kidding, right? It's ever a guarantee for that? That would mean that there is no divorce in this world ! So, what's with this high of divorce rate? It's a madness, so one should be covered! Marriage is not a bed of roses , it is bound to go sour but if you really married for better for worse you will work on it and not allow it go to the level of divorce .Yes there is high rate of divorce because most poeple marry because of wealth and comfort not because of love and many are bussy with material things that they have failed to work on the basic things................their marriage Exactly because of that, a prenupt must be done! Well because i dont get married because of that, i will never think of singning a prenupt That is available for both, either man or woman! Men can marry for some material advantages too,u know? So, again, a prenupt is welcomed! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 30-08-2010 08:48 PM (14 years ago) (m) If am marrying for money no way i sign anything, if its for love then i can sign because one of my criteria for marry the one i love is that he must be richer than i am.
What kinda Funny Statement is dis? Abeg, just leave am na wetin i want i don talk, talk ur own,lol. It means it's the Person's Money yu Love na As long as there's love involved na, doesn't matter if its him or his money, they are both attached, samething. Na yu know Na so yu go take Marry Alhaji wey don get 7 Wives Na desperate girls or ones with no standard dey do stuff like that, besides if am marrying for money its gonna be legal and under that its one man and one woman, it sounds weird to u but that's the problem, a lot of people are not honest abt what they want, love alone cannot sustain a marriage. Yeah, yu're right, Love alone cannot, but Business Contracts Should be Kept outta Marriages
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:48 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I can't try such thing__Not even in this world!!! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ok,my friend
Live and let live! | Posted: at 30-08-2010 08:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ok,my friend
Hi sweet friend!
Its good to see you again after such a long while...
I really missed you! Did you miss me at all? | Posted: at 30-08-2010 09:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "aminatalib") aminatalib at 31-08-2010 12:06 AM (14 years ago) (f) Thats an automatic happening when i get married..you better sign that agreement..I have my own and if it doesnt work out..i'll leave with what i created on my own. | Posted: at 31-08-2010 12:06 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Missthing") Missthing at 31-08-2010 03:03 AM (14 years ago) (f) If am marrying for money no way i sign anything, if its for love then i can sign because one of my criteria for marry the one i love is that he must be richer than i am.
What kinda Funny Statement is dis? Abeg, just leave am na wetin i want i don talk, talk ur own,lol. It means it's the Person's Money yu Love na As long as there's love involved na, doesn't matter if its him or his money, they are both attached, samething. Na yu know Na so yu go take Marry Alhaji wey don get 7 Wives Na desperate girls or ones with no standard dey do stuff like that, besides if am marrying for money its gonna be legal and under that its one man and one woman, it sounds weird to u but that's the problem, a lot of people are not honest abt what they want, love alone cannot sustain a marriage. Yeah, yu're right, Love alone cannot, but Business Contracts Should be Kept outta Marriages I want my marriage to last longer thats why its a contract, my business contract has a better chance of surviving than today's love based marriages. | Posted: at 31-08-2010 03:03 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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