Don't you ever be deceived for one day that your boyfriend or husband can't cheat on you because of love. It takes more than love to keep a guy from cheating and please ladies don't you ever think that you are not enough because your guy cheated on you, its a men thing. I'm talking from experience, when i started dating my guy i was 100% sure that he couldn't cheat on me because he was so quiet, loving,caring and sincerely not a womanizer but i almost fainted one day when i heard him talking to a girl romantically on phone, asking the girl when she was going to come over to see him. I was shocked to death, apparently him and the girl had been seriously into each other on phone and were seriously scheduling a date for her to come over to the house. In the case of my boyfriend, i don't doubt his love for me but the thing is that men get tired of keeping one girl so sometimes they just want to be free to do their thing, this has nothing to do with love because that's just how men are. it doesn't matter if you are as shapeful as beyonce, beautiful like cleopatra and as well behaved as a nun, they will still f*** up.MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 01:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
typicalman84 at 31-08-2010 02:42 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Sure. Women are the most secretive cheaters on earth. A man can cheat 4 times and you will know about all of it but a woman can cheat 10 times and you will never hear not even one of it.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 31-08-2010 02:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Don't you ever be deceived for one day that your boyfriend or husband can't cheat on you because of love. It takes more than love to keep a guy from cheating and please ladies don't you ever think that you are not enough because your guy cheated on you, its a men thing. I'm talking from experience, when i started dating my guy i was 100% sure that he couldn't cheat on me because he was so quiet, loving,caring and sincerely not a womanizer but i almost fainted one day when i heard him talking to a girl romantically on phone, asking the girl when she was going to come over to see him. I was shocked to death, apparently him and the girl had been seriously into each other on phone and were seriously scheduling a date for her to come over to the house. In the case of my boyfriend, i don't doubt his love for me but the thing is that men get tired of keeping one girl so sometimes they just want to be free to do their thing, this has nothing to do with love because that's just how men are. it doesn't matter if you are as shapeful as beyonce, beautiful like cleopatra and as well behaved as a nun, they will still f*** up.MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN.
same thing applicable to women
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 31-08-2010 09:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Yeah go ahead girls, condemn men. Like U are saints when it comes to the likelihood to cheat.
Everyone gets tired of every other person sometimes. It takes a mature person to look back at the treasure he/she has (if any) and beyond temporal situations to old on to that treasure.
On the other hand it is pretty hard to get tired of someone who is constantly becoming a better person because of the habits he or she forms. It's easy to point accusing fingers at the cheat (I'm not making a case for them here o) but in reality the one that is cheated on had a part to play in the cheats fall no matter how insignificant it may look.
Granted some people should not be trusted at all becuase they are lacking in character but oftentimes the responsibility for the other persons actions can go both ways.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
SAmyrocko at 31-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: typicalman84 on 31-08-2010 02:42 AM
Sure. Women are the most secretive cheaters on earth. A man can cheat 4 times and you will know about all of it but a woman can cheat 10 times and you will never hear not even one of it.
Thats so true !
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Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
True men cheat. A man having a girl he's in a relationship with, sees another girl that's "showing herself available" and depending on what happens in his head, decides on what to do about her. Silly enough or "motivated" enough he indulges her in what he wants and/or she has to offer that he finds agreeable and wham, he is a cheat.
Women cheat too. Only they play on reality to make it look like it's not cheating most of the time. A woman has a guy she's in a relationship with. Her eyes catch another man. She makes herself available to hm all the while lying to herself that that there's nothing between her and him, all the while indulging him and reminding him "I have a boyfriend o so better don't toast me." The guy agreeing thinks to himself "Sure U do " She gets so into him she starts looking for faults with her relationshp and not being able to find it she feels "there's something wrong with it i just can't find... Maybe if I take a break I'll 'discover it." She moves for the break, the guy declines her request, she gets encouragement in the realization from his declination that she has a place in his heart so she breaks up with him. The first person she runs to is the other guy and that guy takes advantage of her stupid confusion and reaps where she has helped him sow.
When his feelings change after he has had her she quickly runs back to bf and covers everything up as best she could. Sometimes know one else finds out for a long time or she eventually breaks up with bf for good cos her conscience keeps eating her.
At the end of the day, anyone can cheat. Not everyone will cheat tho.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Sure. Women are the most secretive cheaters on earth. A man can cheat 4 times and you will know about all of it but a woman can cheat 10 times and you will never hear not even one of it.
GBAM!
Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Ak_something at 31-08-2010 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (m)
For the first time seeing a sensible thread on this pal of a thing. All opinions were just as true. It's not that easy for so called players to stick around on one person for quite long a time. But the space in the heart reserved for a loved one will remain open no matter what. Those that truly fall in love will not likely cheat at least for a considerable lenght of time as those who force themselves on the other person. For cheating, gender is not an excuse.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
True men cheat. A man having a girl he's in a relationship with, sees another girl that's "showing herself available" and depending on what happens in his head, decides on what to do about her. Silly enough or "motivated" enough he indulges her in what he wants and/or she has to offer that he finds agreeable and wham, he is a cheat.
Women cheat too. Only they play on reality to make it look like it's not cheating most of the time. A woman has a guy she's in a relationship with. Her eyes catch another man. She makes herself available to hm all the while lying to herself that that there's nothing between her and him, all the while indulging him and reminding him "I have a boyfriend o so better don't toast me." The guy agreeing thinks to himself "Sure U do " She gets so into him she starts looking for faults with her relationshp and not being able to find it she feels "there's something wrong with it i just can't find... Maybe if I take a break I'll 'discover it." She moves for the break, the guy declines her request, she gets encouragement in the realization from his declination that she has a place in his heart so she breaks up with him. The first person she runs to is the other guy and that guy takes advantage of her stupid confusion and reaps where she has helped him sow.
When his feelings change after he has had her she quickly runs back to bf and covers everything up as best she could. Sometimes know one else finds out for a long time or she eventually breaks up with bf for good cos her conscience keeps eating her.
At the end of the day, anyone can cheat. Not everyone will cheat tho.
nicely analysed
Posted: at 31-08-2010 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
sweetrae at 31-08-2010 10:54 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: typicalman84 on 31-08-2010 02:42 AM
Sure. Women are the most secretive cheaters on earth. A man can cheat 4 times and you will know about all of it but a woman can cheat 10 times and you will never hear not even one of it.
Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Don't you ever be deceived for one day that your boyfriend or husband can't cheat on you because of love. It takes more than love to keep a guy from cheating and please ladies don't you ever think that you are not enough because your guy cheated on you, its a men thing. I'm talking from experience, when i started dating my guy i was 100% sure that he couldn't cheat on me because he was so quiet, loving,caring and sincerely not a womanizer but i almost fainted one day when i heard him talking to a girl romantically on phone, asking the girl when she was going to come over to see him. I was shocked to death, apparently him and the girl had been seriously into each other on phone and were seriously scheduling a date for her to come over to the house. In the case of my boyfriend, i don't doubt his love for me but the thing is that men get tired of keeping one girl so sometimes they just want to be free to do their thing, this has nothing to do with love because that's just how men are. it doesn't matter if you are as shapeful as beyonce, beautiful like cleopatra and as well behaved as a nun, they will still f*** up.MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN.
Listen, for a Guy dat Loves yu So much 2 Cheat on yu, or want to, yu must have a Problem/Fault
Stop passing Blames and Check yurself
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 31-08-2010 11:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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" She gets so into him she starts looking for faults with her relationshp and not being able to find it she feels "there's something wrong with it i just can't find... Maybe if I take a break I'll 'discover it." She moves for the break, the guy declines her request, she gets encouragement in the realization from his declination that she has a place in his heart so she breaks up with him. The first person she runs to is the other guy and that guy takes advantage of her stupid confusion and reaps where she has helped him sow.
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