Can you "just be friends" with somebody you're attracted to?

Published 11 years ago by: Kris
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at 04:39 PM, 14/10/2008 (11 years ago)

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Whatcha fink? Can you be friends with somebody that rejected you? Guyz will probably say no & I think the girls will say yes, as long as you know the boundary. What's the difference between guys and girls that would cause this different mindset? Feel free to air ur views

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Kennee at 07:19 PM, 14/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Answer to the Question:

NO

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queenb at 07:59 PM, 14/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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It depends on ur level of maturity. No disrespect, but women r more matured than men r, hence they can be friends in such situation and men can't.
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macgreat at 08:09 PM, 14/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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NO... no dey look her site at all

After kissing a couple of time,robbling and finging Smiley ... she come dey tell me say make we be just friends.

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C-boy at 09:15 AM, 15/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 07:19 PM, 14/10/2008
Answer to the Question:

NO
and why not? After all u probably used to be friends

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lahtehjuh at 08:34 AM, 16/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to
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peacetee at 11:53 AM, 16/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: lahtehjuh on 08:34 AM, 16/10/2008
well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to

so u would lose out a good friendship because u cant control urself?  Huh?

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philomena87 at 04:22 PM, 18/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: C-boy on 04:39 PM, 14/10/2008
Whatcha fink? Can you be friends with somebody that rejected you? Guyz will probably say no & I think the girls will say yes, as long as you know the boundary. What's the difference between guys and girls that would cause this different mindset? Feel free to air ur views

yes na
y not
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Kennee at 04:40 PM, 18/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: peacetee on 11:53 AM, 16/10/2008
Quote from: lahtehjuh on 08:34 AM, 16/10/2008
well for it sometimes nt possible cos u tend to av mixed feelings.
(1)feelings of been attracted to the person and jelousy comes in.
(2)feelings of been a frend which u try to be but u tend to over do it.
so to me its better to avoid been frends to someone u r attracted to

so u would lose out a good friendship because u cant control urself?  Huh?

Young woman, Wrong perspective. U can't Control Love (Dat's if u really Know what Love is)
Serious Attraction is just like Love

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Kennee at 04:48 PM, 18/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: C-boy on 09:15 AM, 15/10/2008
Quote from: Kennee on 07:19 PM, 14/10/2008
Answer to the Question:

NO
and why not? After all u probably used to be friends

Well, dat Boundary has been Crossed Already

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Adegbe at 02:20 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Oh,women r more maturd abi?mayb u meant to say smarter.u girls want to remain friends so that toy boy would always b ther as "plan B",incase of emergency..no be so?matured indeed!!!
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Adegbe at 02:32 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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If i hear say i just be friends with girl wen i de trip for.....for what?so she go de play wit my emotions anyhow she want?HELL NO!!!
If i genuinly like her,i'l free her&let fate decide..na i no gree,i no gree de make shirt tear
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hiddenpearl at 02:38 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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No you can't! It makes everything that much harder... I know I couldn't. You would need some space to get over him/her before you can be friends.
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SAmyrocko at 08:36 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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If your attracted to the person... You should try and open up to the person about how you feel.. you can be friends though

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peacetee at 10:16 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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easy 4 she, not 4 he

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mmemshima at 10:39 AM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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Quote from: C-boy on 04:39 PM, 14/10/2008
Whatcha fink? Can you be friends with somebody that rejected you? Guyz will probably say no & I think the girls will say yes, as long as you know the boundary. What's the difference between guys and girls that would cause this different mindset? Feel free to air ur views
u've got the answers dude so why are u asking?
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peacetee at 01:12 PM, 21/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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cos hez a dude  Wink

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Kennee at 12:41 AM, 22/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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.

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osituga at 12:54 AM, 22/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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@ poster Lai Lai
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blackberryPearl at 06:31 AM, 22/10/2008 (11 years ago)
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yes u can
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