Please guys serious contributions. My boyfriend told me during our conversation today, that he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend who lefr him and got married, i asked him to explain himself and he asked me to change the topic. He is never comfortable at the mention of this girl's name, refused to discuss abt her. talked to him abit, but i get silence all the time instead of good answers, what should i do?
Posted: at 28-10-2010 04:21 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
juleshotluv at 28-10-2010 04:28 AM (14 years ago) (f)
the best thing would be for both of you to talk about it. Let him know where you and him stand in the relationship. If he is still in love with his ex then his he love with you or he is using u as a bench girl friend? He has to be clear with you, get him to communicate with you so that you will know whether or not you are wasting your time or there is actually something in it for you.
Posted: at 28-10-2010 04:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 28-10-2010 07:10 AM (14 years ago) (f)
If that guy can't let go to his past,then u definitely have a problem! Honestly, if I were u,if I would have heard that thing with he is still in love with his ex,in the next minute we had been history!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 28-10-2010 07:10 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 28-10-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) (m)
He is comparing you to his ex. Be careful for any little thing you do may meet disapproval from him. Short, you're in unstable water and if your presence can't make him forget his ex, let him know you have your dignity to uphold and why not quit and let him cry over his spilt milk?
Posted: at 28-10-2010 08:15 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jukkiebukwes at 28-10-2010 09:15 AM (14 years ago) (f)
he doesnt want to face reality, too bad. make him realise how clinging on to d past is affecting d r/s. if u cant get him to talk abt it, then dont waste ur time with him.
Posted: at 28-10-2010 09:15 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
justceetah at 28-10-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: qunodinga on 28-10-2010 09:31 AM
Can u imagin!
How can a right thinking man still be in love with a girl that is married?
aren't u one of them that knows what true love is? 4rm what y'all been saying,i can see dat love has no limits.It doesn't care if u're married or not,it doesn't even consider age right? So this should not be stupid to u.Shit happens with luv
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all
Posted: at 28-10-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Emmandazie at 28-10-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: justceetah on 28-10-2010 09:45 AM
Quote from: qunodinga on 28-10-2010 09:31 AM
Can u imagin!
How can a right thinking man still be in love with a girl that is married?
aren't u one of them that knows what true love is? 4rm what y'all been saying,i can see dat love has no limits.It doesn't care if u're married or not,it doesn't even consider age right? So this should not be stupid to u.Shit happens with luv
Yeah but know MARRIAGE is the ultimate expression of love & if truly u love someone, respect that person's welbeing and decision to live a happy life with whom she has opted!
Posted: at 28-10-2010 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
justceetah at 28-10-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 28-10-2010 09:50 AM
Quote from: justceetah on 28-10-2010 09:45 AM
Quote from: qunodinga on 28-10-2010 09:31 AM
Can u imagin!
How can a right thinking man still be in love with a girl that is married?
aren't u one of them that knows what true love is? 4rm what y'all been saying,i can see dat love has no limits.It doesn't care if u're married or not,it doesn't even consider age right? So this should not be stupid to u.Shit happens with luv
Yeah but know MARRIAGE is the ultimate expression of love & if truly u love someone, respect that person's welbeing and decision to live a happy life with whom she has opted!
hmn,u really think so right? haven't u seen situations where pple marry just to fulfil righteousness? Moreover d guy in question here is not yet married to our girl
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all
Posted: at 28-10-2010 09:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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