I think my bf's cheating, i saw a text on his fone 3weeks ago telling someone else he loves her. i cant ask him cos everyone needs his fone privacy and all that but i asked him if he's dating anyone he said no.... its killing me oh
Posted: at 25-12-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
juleshotluv at 25-12-2010 02:00 PM (14 years ago) (f)
then you shouldnt have checked his phone, if you werent sure you could handle the outcome. Right now, I dont know what you are expecting to hear. Because you already asked him and he says, No. I guess all you have to do now is just watch and see.
Posted: at 25-12-2010 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
djosh4cesc at 25-12-2010 02:48 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Why on earth will go looking at his private stuff.You may be girlfriend but he deserve his privacy.And by the way there are well over 30 girls/women i say 'i love you to'.I've got neices,female cousins,female friends,classmates,a sister and a mother
Posted: at 25-12-2010 02:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
djosh4cesc at 25-12-2010 02:49 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Why on earth will go looking at his private stuff.You may be girlfriend but he deserve his privacy.And by the way there are well over 30 girls/women i say 'i love you to'.I've got neices,female cousins,female friends,classmates,a sister and a mother
Posted: at 25-12-2010 02:49 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
moneyinbrakemi at 25-12-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Lgee on 25-12-2010 01:24 PM
I think my bf's cheating, i saw a text on his fone 3weeks ago telling someone else he loves her. i cant ask him cos everyone needs his fone privacy and all that but i asked him if he's dating anyone he said no.... its killing me oh
Take it easy BUT try as much as possible to apply wisdom when confronting him
Posted: at 25-12-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
@poster my advise 2u is to kep quiet until u saw him 1-1....to avoid wrng judgement which may cause conflict in ur relship.cos thr re many pples which u can use dat word love after conversation.cos d word dose nt made 4 bf an gf only...so think sensible b4 u tke ur action
Posted: at 25-12-2010 06:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
instead of perambulating why dont you ask him directly what prompt him to say "i love you" to you or any other person....its a question that i guess wont make him insinuate your intention....if my gf asked me if im cheating on her, do you expect me to say yes i am? Even if you catch them on top of each other, the answer you should be expecting is NO. When you suspect someone is cheating there is 85% probability that they are.....
Posted: at 25-12-2010 06:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
I think my bf's cheating, i saw a text on his fone 3weeks ago telling someone else he loves her. i cant ask him cos everyone needs his fone privacy and all that but i asked him if he's dating anyone he said no.... its killing me oh
well, hving come to d self realisation dat every individual needs his/her privacy!
it simply means u can't ask him if u dnt want to expose ur bad habit. dnt let stupid suspicion end ur r/s. moreover u said d txt made reference to loving her, it could b u he was referring to in d txt.
Posted: at 25-12-2010 06:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
instead of perambulating why dont you ask him directly what prompt him to say "i love you" to you or any other person....its a question that i guess wont make him insinuate your intention....if my gf asked me if im cheating on her, do you expect me to say yes i am? Even if you catch them on top of each other, the answer you should be expecting is NO. When you suspect someone is cheating there is 85% probability that they are.....
besides, what you dont know dont hurt you but can destroy you...everyone has got to shield whatever their treasure is....
privacy? i dont know why 2 ppl in a relationship, proclaiming they are in love have to keep secrets from each other.....i as a person, if my gf is keeping secrets, and wont change, i cant continue with the relationship....bcos everyday i will be thinking there is something left i didnt know about who i wanna marry.....privacy to me in a relationship means secret....
Posted: at 25-12-2010 06:46 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Do not look for such things, email, tell phone message, it is not your account. Doing that you are over stepping the border. What ever you look for , you will find one. So do not look for.
Posted: at 25-12-2010 07:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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