my relationship is really complicated now,should i let him go??? (Page 2)

NEVER LOVE ANY MAN MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, AND NEVER SACRIFICE YOUR HAPPINESS ESPECIALLY IF HE'S NOT WILLING TO MEET YOU HALF WAY

Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Hey gal, the first question you have to ask yourself is, "do you intend to marrying this guy?" 4yrs in a sincere and peaceful relationship until lately is not what i will advice you to just let go. Dont mind all the people advising you to get out, how many of them can sacrifice 4yr into one relationship and throw it away because a problem arises? Dont married couple fight, quarrel and even keep malice sometimes yet ended up to resolve the issue? Please, pick advice carefully. When you see a relationship without hardship pls dont hesitate to post it here.

Besides, if both of you guys are still in early 20s im afraid one of you will soon abandon the relationship. Guys in early 20 dont think of getting married when they can get 10s of beautiful gals out there instead of staying with one from early age. It is boring staying with one gal when you still have a long way to settle down. The guy is having his moment and trust me, 100 of you cant stop him! And thats a bitter advice, isn't?

For you to love him more than he loves you already shows that the relationship will probably wont go anywhere near marriage. Im sorry to say that. Go and check it out (i dont have stat on it tho), most relationships end up in marriage because the guy love most! 99% woman love against 1% man love do not magnet any man into marriage!

The only cunning way any woman can marry the man she loves most, which is nothing working on most guys is pregnancy. Get pregnant and some men will settle for it just to avoid polygamy.

Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Letting go can be painful...but staying in a relationship that no longer bring you happiness is more painful. Maybe it is going to take him losing you...before he can realize what you mean to him and just maybe.....by breaking up, you will open the door for Mr Treat You Right to walk in.....Do what you have to do for your own peace of mind and happiness

Posted: at 4-01-2011 03:26 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

.......windows shutting down.......

---

Posted: at 4-01-2011 05:39 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

take note wel well

---

Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:20 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I guess u must have read all the comment here.......just sing craig david.....i'm walking away if u really want to break up......Just do it and get it over with. Technology is a major cause of break up in relationship, he has found a new love in his BB.....so u just buy wakaman. Stop calling him, stop visiting him, stop picking his calls for a start and see if he changes.
Having Male friends does not mean u are double dating, for u info.

Posted: at 5-01-2011 05:30 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

lol oyibo machine....then a lot of tins go harm u oo

Posted: at 5-01-2011 10:35 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

no b d machine na  btw katakata is also a plant 

Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Read inbetween d lines...i knw it's gonna b hard bt i'd advice u 2 4get abt him n move on wit ur life cos it's obvious dat he doesn't need u n he's 2 selfish 2 let u go...there's no point stayn in a relationship dat brings u PAINS!!!

Posted: at 7-01-2011 12:58 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie