before and after marriage (Page 2)

Wetin na? abi u be him descendant?

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Posted: at 23-02-2011 10:39 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmmmmmmmmmm na una sabi........

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

in the holy bible marriage is a sacred. the god joined the person together with thier paths staying forever and to loved and beloved. if u got married u have given the half of ur life to the person and will never complete again. since my word that ive said is like this. the fact is there is nobody and never been changed after marriage. a person that u married and loved the day of the holy wed is the person u will know and u will see until the end of staying together in this world. the fault is . dont try to rush the marriage . marriage is sacred and sacred means important. important means you must see it well and check well like a food so that you will not poison and not die after you will regret it and find another one more poisonoss that the first one. if the heart died we like to look for somebody to kill it again. so the truth is you must know him or her that both of you have stayed for almost a years i said years not a year. years will know everything staying and live in together consigning themselves for all problems first is God and church second is money. how to buy toothpaste and tissue which the smallest expenses in the house. how to spend and save the money and all money problems. third is a bed. the bed of night and day which you will share the story and memories of the past while you in primary school. a man has needs and woman has needs. if God and money and sex are around in the whole house nothing will happen to the relationship. even you kids are 10. even two of you have bad breath when wake up in the morning. even you are toileting so smelly. even you no manners. love is love. and if you prefer to stay to a person. its already beloved and loved and love is around. but try to remember this three things ive said and a years to past tru with savings and relationship together. till dawn. you will never ever said that somebody have change after marriage. thank you and Gob bless all of us.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 05:18 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, "You actually can expect people to change after they're married... for the worst!"
So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly.
Intimacy before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues. Physical involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.
It is not necessary to take a "test drive" in order to find out if a couple is physically compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about it. Of all the studies done on divorce, incompatibility in the intimate arena is almost never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Priceless knowledge.

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:15 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

And now weting you go come give me?

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thank you for the morning 

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

his is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values and goal to achieve a meaningful unity for life. where all this de come from today?

Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

so is d sam 2 men

Posted: at 24-02-2011 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming