What if your wife's sister wants to know everything going on in your home per se

Date: 23-02-2011 6:50 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Tom BT
- at 23-02-2011 06:50 PM (13 years ago)
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....I observed that my wife's sister always wants to know what's going on in my home as she's always on phone with my wife par second. What did you eat, where did you go?? what are you wearing? and stuffs. She's not done until my wife's tells all including my story. I'm simply fed up with this......tried to warn my wife on this but she wouldn't stop....what would you guys do if this is happening to you?......Is this out of care?.....isn't my wife supposed to have a new life?

Posted: at 23-02-2011 06:50 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- HOPEA23 at 23-02-2011 06:53 PM (13 years ago)
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yes she suppose to have a new life and keep her family life or whatever as a secret....but that your sis in-law na aproko...is she jobless and still single?.. Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

Posted: at 23-02-2011 06:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pointzero at 23-02-2011 07:01 PM (13 years ago)
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How can she be poking her nose in ur family like dat.............i think sth. is wrong,maybe she is suspecting sth. abt u.......but u ve 2 let ur wife know dat she is now married..........n no longer single,n should respect her marriage more by keeping some things secret

Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 23-02-2011 07:12 PM (13 years ago)
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ur wife is the problem here she gave room to that. the only person dat can stop it is ur wife she should shown her sister and let her know  that her marriage life is nt her business. wich kind aproko be that
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 23-02-2011 07:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: beet0303 on 23-02-2011 06:50 PM
....I observed that my wife's sister always wants to know what's going on in my home as she's always on phone with my wife par second. What did you eat, where did you go?? what are you wearing? and stuffs. She's not done until my wife's tells all including my story. I'm simply fed up with this......tried to warn my wife on this but she wouldn't stop....what would you guys do if this is happening to you?......Is this out of care?.....isn't my wife supposed to have a new life?

yu mean is d same woman who farts whenever ur making love with her......... Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked use her 4 sacrify Grin Grin shes a bad luck.....shes not only farting but discuss her marital issue with her sister ..... Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry did she also tell her how she mess around n' pollute d room wen making love  Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? shes sick

Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 23-02-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago)
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lolying and passing
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 23-02-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh?

Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- estilizo at 23-02-2011 07:36 PM (13 years ago)
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thats not right,and your wife ought to know what and what not to discuss with her sister,"privacy "is the word,she needs to stop before something goes wrong.Sit her down and discuss it over seriously.

Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- beet0303 at 23-02-2011 07:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Thanks y'all........Thought i was beginning to be old school and not nice when it was getting too much. I've schooled and re educated her over time, it took a fight to address her stopping discussion about me with her sister.....really crazy, huh? Even if that's the way they've been doing before she got married, i believe this should stop immediately after.......I kind of concluded that it's my wife's fault who cannot call her sister to order to let her know there is a limit to questions she could be asking......at a point was asking is this the way Nigerians behave in America?......The calls too was bothering, like par second calling, up till wee hours, 11pm, 12am even after they've spoken like 20times in  the day!.....until i fought and fought....It's sickening guys!...may be somebody should help me out there!
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 23-02-2011 08:00 PM (13 years ago)
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just tell ur wife she shud stop tellin ur bizz to outsiders if not problem will com
Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 23-02-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: beet0303 on 23-02-2011 07:54 PM
Thanks y'all........Thought i was beginning to be old school and not nice when it was getting too much. I've schooled and re educated her over time, it took a fight to address her stopping discussion about me with her sister.....really crazy, huh? Even if that's the way they've been doing before she got married, i believe this should stop immediately after.......I kind of concluded that it's my wife's fault who cannot call her sister to order to let her know there is a limit to questions she could be asking......at a point was asking is this the way Nigerians behave in America?......The calls too was bothering, like par second calling, up till wee hours, 11pm, 12am even after they've spoken like 20times in  the day!.....until i fought and fought....It's sickening guys!...may be somebody should help me out there!

american in-law..................take easy ooooooooooooooooo

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 23-02-2011 08:30 PM (13 years ago)
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If I were u.....I won't fight dat sister of hers.


I will invite her over and start having sex with my wife in her presence

Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- adams933 at 24-02-2011 09:46 AM (13 years ago)
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Tell her everything to the point of bedmatic, nobody go tell her before she stop calling, you keep calling to tell her all dat, she'll be pished and let u be.
Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 24-02-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Let her go to hel.........
She has nothing to do with how I run my family.........

Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 24-02-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Your wife is guilty for this!
I don't know why she doesn't put her sister in her place!
Really immature!

Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bhl72 at 24-02-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago)
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I agree with you on this. It is strikingly bizarre. You've got to call your sister-in-law to order! That kind of chaperonage isn't supportive to present day family set-up... Gone are the days when, in synchronicity with the dogmas of paternalism, parents married for and oversaw how their kids ran their homes... now it is different and seemingly better especially in terms of choice and privacy...
Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- odobo at 25-02-2011 11:25 AM (13 years ago)
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Please tell your wife that you need her sister for rituals purpose..specifically her head...your would tell her and the calls would stop....shekena
Posted: at 25-02-2011 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Sheree at 25-02-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Tell your sister in-law to poke her nose somewhere else. especially in her own family where it would be useful and appreciated.
Posted: at 25-02-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 25-02-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago)
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i agree with those that said you should call your wife in order,she's the problem here not your sister in-law.

and you shouldn't confront your sister in-law cuz your wife gave room for that..

so talk to your wife,she should respect you and your decision.
Posted: at 25-02-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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