....I observed that my wife's sister always wants to know what's going on in my home as she's always on phone with my wife par second. What did you eat, where did you go?? what are you wearing? and stuffs. She's not done until my wife's tells all including my story. I'm simply fed up with this......tried to warn my wife on this but she wouldn't stop....what would you guys do if this is happening to you?......Is this out of care?.....isn't my wife supposed to have a new life?
Posted: at 23-02-2011 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
yes she suppose to have a new life and keep her family life or whatever as a secret....but that your sis in-law na aproko...is she jobless and still single?..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 23-02-2011 06:53 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Pointzero at 23-02-2011 07:01 PM (14 years ago) (m)
How can she be poking her nose in ur family like dat.............i think sth. is wrong,maybe she is suspecting sth. abt u.......but u ve 2 let ur wife know dat she is now married..........n no longer single,n should respect her marriage more by keeping some things secret
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chiglamour4u at 23-02-2011 07:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
ur wife is the problem here she gave room to that. the only person dat can stop it is ur wife she should shown her sister and let her know that her marriage life is nt her business. wich kind aproko be that
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
....I observed that my wife's sister always wants to know what's going on in my home as she's always on phone with my wife par second. What did you eat, where did you go?? what are you wearing? and stuffs. She's not done until my wife's tells all including my story. I'm simply fed up with this......tried to warn my wife on this but she wouldn't stop....what would you guys do if this is happening to you?......Is this out of care?.....isn't my wife supposed to have a new life?
yu mean is d same woman who farts whenever ur making love with her......... use her 4 sacrify shes a bad luck.....shes not only farting but discuss her marital issue with her sister ..... did she also tell her how she mess around n' pollute d room wen making love shes sick
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:20 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
estilizo at 23-02-2011 07:36 PM (14 years ago) (f)
thats not right,and your wife ought to know what and what not to discuss with her sister,"privacy "is the word,she needs to stop before something goes wrong.Sit her down and discuss it over seriously.
THE BEST WAY TO REVENGE IS TO FORGIVE..........FORGIVE THE TEARS OF A HURTFUL PAST.
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
beet0303 at 23-02-2011 07:54 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Thanks y'all........Thought i was beginning to be old school and not nice when it was getting too much. I've schooled and re educated her over time, it took a fight to address her stopping discussion about me with her sister.....really crazy, huh? Even if that's the way they've been doing before she got married, i believe this should stop immediately after.......I kind of concluded that it's my wife's fault who cannot call her sister to order to let her know there is a limit to questions she could be asking......at a point was asking is this the way Nigerians behave in America?......The calls too was bothering, like par second calling, up till wee hours, 11pm, 12am even after they've spoken like 20times in the day!.....until i fought and fought....It's sickening guys!...may be somebody should help me out there!
Posted: at 23-02-2011 07:54 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Thanks y'all........Thought i was beginning to be old school and not nice when it was getting too much. I've schooled and re educated her over time, it took a fight to address her stopping discussion about me with her sister.....really crazy, huh? Even if that's the way they've been doing before she got married, i believe this should stop immediately after.......I kind of concluded that it's my wife's fault who cannot call her sister to order to let her know there is a limit to questions she could be asking......at a point was asking is this the way Nigerians behave in America?......The calls too was bothering, like par second calling, up till wee hours, 11pm, 12am even after they've spoken like 20times in the day!.....until i fought and fought....It's sickening guys!...may be somebody should help me out there!
american in-law..................take easy ooooooooooooooooo
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 23-02-2011 08:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
adams933 at 24-02-2011 09:46 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Tell her everything to the point of bedmatic, nobody go tell her before she stop calling, you keep calling to tell her all dat, she'll be pished and let u be.
Posted: at 24-02-2011 09:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I agree with you on this. It is strikingly bizarre. You've got to call your sister-in-law to order! That kind of chaperonage isn't supportive to present day family set-up... Gone are the days when, in synchronicity with the dogmas of paternalism, parents married for and oversaw how their kids ran their homes... now it is different and seemingly better especially in terms of choice and privacy...
Posted: at 24-02-2011 10:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac