What should i do?

Date: 05-06-2011 12:49 am (12 years ago) | Author: Wasiu Borntobegreat
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- at 5-06-2011 12:49 AM (12 years ago)
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She is younger than i,she is very appreciative but there are some qualities she lack which i tried all i could to make her possess.She is very stubborn,she listens while wit me but once she left,she forgot all i have told her.I lost my job last yr August and it seems i hav lost my admission. Though,she stayed but not like she used to when things are okay for us.I noticed some arrogance in her for a month nw,she want to start dictatin for me..whn i ask her to come and see she would say NO...something she dnt do b4.And if she come,she prevents me frm touchin her.Then,i stopped calling her and its almost a month now and she dnt bother to call either.Now things hav been turning good for me (Thank God).Her birthday is on the 23rd of this month,i dnt knw if i should call her or I should not try it.Though,i love her but i thought i shouldnt allow love to intoxicate in my brain that will make me lost my sense.Please Pals, i need ur advice

Posted: at 5-06-2011 12:49 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- xena15 at 5-06-2011 12:57 AM (12 years ago)
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Women can never be completely understood....just when u fink u knw em',u realize u dnt!
I think u should call her and maybe try to talk things over,it seems like u gat unresolved issues....
Goodluck....if u add Jonathan,na u sabi.....

Posted: at 5-06-2011 12:57 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 5-06-2011 03:19 AM (12 years ago)
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You are the definition of a STUPID FOOL
Posted: at 5-06-2011 03:19 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 5-06-2011 04:16 AM (12 years ago)
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poster i see you as a very smart man but lack common sense...i don't mean to be rude sha..come on, check am na...when things were perfectly okie with you she obey to your commands but when things ain't alright..she disobey you..that means she is the kind of lady whose believe money come a woman come but when money go a woman go to......you can call her on her brithday just to wish her HBD..and after that don't ave anything to do with her..u need a woman who will love you for who you are and not what you become...who will stand for you when you are down...think man...Don't let your emotion take control on this...is showed you the kind of woman she is..is it that kind of a woman u need in your life?ask yourself sum few questions..before any decision making.

Posted: at 5-06-2011 04:16 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Youngstoriez at 5-06-2011 04:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Nahhh!!!! dont call her, you may call her but dont even try talking about love or in an emotional way wif her....cos i think she dont love you at all...
Girls who are very stubborn are easy to understand for sure (sometimes) and not all......c'mon, you talk to her she sees you like a MUgU..b4 u even call and tell her you still love her, she stores ur number as MUGU NO:4 or probably NO:1.....use ur head and realize she dont love youu!!...she may love u wen she knows the money is back,....Lol! Goshh....some love get big K-Leg!
Posted: at 5-06-2011 04:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 5-06-2011 04:20 PM (12 years ago)
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no he be mugu number5

Posted: at 5-06-2011 04:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- harold634 at 5-06-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago)
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By now, u ought to have understand your girlfriend. She is not the type meant 4 the tough time. What is birthday? is her birthday better than yourself? Common man, wake up man, concentrate on yourself and alloud nature to take it course as God wishes 4 u.
Posted: at 5-06-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 5-06-2011 04:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster no long thing just 4get everything about the gal simple

Posted: at 5-06-2011 04:36 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- moniconyez at 5-06-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on  5-06-2011 12:57 AM
Women can never be completely understood....just when u fink u knw em',u realize u dnt!
I think u should call her and maybe try to talk things over,it seems like u gat unresolved issues....
Goodluck....if u add Jonathan,na u sabi.....

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Xena Xena
Posted: at 5-06-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- moniconyez at 5-06-2011 05:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on  5-06-2011 03:19 AM
You are the definition of a STUPID FOOL

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 5-06-2011 05:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 5-06-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago)
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But Yu're TheGenius na Poster... Yu should know Everything  Smiley

Posted: at 5-06-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- moniconyez at 5-06-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Poster DO NOT call her now that her badday sorry birthday is at the corner.
Allow her to call you first, and if she do call on her birthday period find out why she need you at that moment and USE your MEDULAR.

80 percent of ladies are materialistic try finding out the type she is.............I wish you EBELE AZIKIWE Grin
Posted: at 5-06-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 5-06-2011 07:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on  5-06-2011 05:46 PM
But Yu're TheGenius na Poster... Yu should know Everything  Smiley

TheGenius Grin,,,,,,,,, May be his Genius no reach dat area Grin

Posted: at 5-06-2011 07:09 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Innoscent at 5-06-2011 10:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Characteristics This character is often a pivotal, but peripheral, character in literature and motion pictures,  usually giving key advice or serving as a go-between. She is sometimes established in  contrast to another female character who is morally perfect but frigid or otherwise  unyielding. Hookers with hearts of gold are sometimes reluctant prostitutes selling their  bodies due to either desperation or coercion from a  pimp . The stereotype might owe  something of a debt to certain traditions surrounding the  Biblical  figures of  Mary Magdalene and  Rahab , or to the ancient  Indian theatrical  tradition of  Sanskrit drama  where  Śudraka 's  play  Mṛcchakatika  ( The Little Clay Cart ) featured a  nagarvadhu  (courtesan) with a heart of  gold named Vasantasena. [ 2 ]  But this stock character is pervasive enough in various myths  and cultures in the form of a tragic story of the concubine who falls in love with her patron/ client or, alternatively, young and often poor lover. Therefore, this might be considered not  just an archetype but also fairly universal, and somewhat indicative of various societies'  complex ideas about segxwal decency and moral character. A variation on the theme, the dancer (stripper) with a heart of gold, is a tamer version of  the character. A  stripper  is a  sex worker  but not a prostitute. Historically, the social positions of dancers and actresses were low and their moral characters were often considered suspect. In opera and musical theater, a hooker with a heart of gold is most often portrayed by a  mezzo-soprano . She is portrayed in a tragic light and often dies a tragic death. One notable  exception is the heroine of  Giuseppe Verdi 's  La traviata , Violetta Valery, portrayed by a  soprano . In television history, the  "tart with a heart"  has become an important archetype in serial  drama and  soap opera , especially in  Britain . During the 1960 s, the character of  Elsie Tanner in British series  Coronation Street  set the mold for future characters such as  Bet Lynch  (also  Coronation Street ) and  Kat Slater  ( EastEnders ). Characters of this nature are often depicted  as having tragic lives, but put on a front when in public to create the illusion of happiness.  More often than not, these female characters are vital to their respective shows, and  inevitably become some of the biggest stars in British Television. [ citation needed ] The hooker with a heart of gold is also a prominent character in many American  western  movies . In  The Usual Suspects , detective Dave Kujan says to Roger "Verbil" Kint: "...so don't  sell me the hooker with a heart of gold." 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Erotica Jones AKA Stripperella ( Pamela Anderson ) on Spike TV's  Stripperella Fantine  in  Les Misérables Sissy in  A Tree Grows in Brooklyn Frenchy in  Destry Rides Again Goldie in  Sin City [ 10 ] Gulabo ( Waheeda Rehman ) in  Pyaasa [ 11 ] Helen Ramirez ( Katy Jurado ) in  High Noon [ 12 ] Helen Smart ( Caroline Gillmer ) in  Prisoner Cell Block H Gus Malley ( Sondra Locke ) in  The Gauntlet Holly Golightly in  Truman Capote 's  Breakfast at Tiffany's Inara Serra  ( Morena Baccarin ) in  Firefly Irma ( Shirley Maclaine ) in  Irma la Douce Ivy Miller ( Reese Witherspoon ) in  Overnight Delivery Jade ( Heather Graham ) in  The Hangover Jessica ( Bridget Fonda ) in  Kiss of the Dragon Jill McBain ( Claudia Cardinale ) in  Once Upon a Time in the West Kat Moon ( Jessie Wallace ) in  Eastenders Lady/Bernadette ( Erykah Badu ) in  House of D Lana ( Rebecca De Mornay ) in  Risky Business Linda Ash ( Mira Sorvino ) in  Mighty Aphrodite [ 13 ] Liza from  Notes from Underground Lorena "Laurie Darling" Wood ( Diane Lane ) from  Lonesome Dove Lucy from the  Broadway   musical   Jekyll & Hyde [ 14 ] Luenell in  Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of  Kazakhstan [ 15 ] Lynn Bracken ( Kim Basinger ) in  L.A. Confidential [ 16 ] Madhubala ( Preity Zinta ) in  Chori Chori Chupke Chupke . [ 17 ] Marguerite Gautier in  La Dame aux camélias [ 18 ] Megan Lewis Mancini ( Kelly Rutherford ) in the original  Melrose Place . Mimi Márquez in  Rent  is an exotic dancer with a heart of gold. Miss Mona Stangley in  The Best Little wh*rehouse in Texas Mother Shipton (a brothel owner) in  The Outcasts of Poker Flat . Myra in  Dr. Quinn Medicine Woman Nancy in  Oliver Twist [ 19 ]  and its musical version  Oliver! [ 20 ] Nancy Callahan  is an exotic dancer with a heart of gold in  Sin City . [ 21 ] Nandi from  Firefly Ophelia ( Jamie Lee Curtis ) in  Trading Places Plourde, Maurice in "P-Town" Pushpa ( Sharmila Tagore ) in  Amar Prem [ 22 ] Robin (Julie Benz) on  Desperate Housewives  is a stripper with a heart of gold Rona from  2Point4 Children Sahibjaan ( Meena Kumari ) in  Pakeezah [ 11 ] Satine ( Nicole Kidman ) in  Moulin Rouge! [ 23 ] Sarah ( Jenilee Harrison ) in  Tank Sera ( Elisabeth Shue ) in  Leaving Las Vegas [ 24 ] Shen Te in  The Good Person of Szechwan Sonya Marmeladova  from  Crime and Punishment [ 25 ] Stevie ( Jennifer Jason Leigh ) from  The Machinist [ 26 ] Suzie Wong in  The World of Suzie Wong [ 27 ] [ 28 ] Taryn Manning in  Hustle & Flow The unnamed prostitute ( Ruan Lingyu ) in  The Goddess Transito from  The House of the Spirits [ 29 ] Tallulah Black ( Megan Fox ) in  Jonah Hex Yuka Otowa in " Crescendo (visual novel) " "V" ( Melanie Griffith ) in  Milk Money [ 30 ] Umrao Jaan ( Rekha ) in  Umrao Jaan . [ 17 ] Vasantasena in  Mṛcchakatika  ( The Little Clay Cart ) is a  nagarvadhu  (courtesan) with a heart  of gold [ 31 ] Violetta Valery in  La Traviata [ 32 ] Vivian Ward ( Julia Roberts ) in  Pretty Woman [ 33 ] [ 34 ] Lauren Winter in the 2010  video game Heavy Rain. See also List of famous prostitutes and courtesans Feminist film theory

Posted: at 5-06-2011 10:19 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Innoscent at 5-06-2011 10:20 PM (12 years ago)
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daz wat u shud do...

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- kizz4me at 5-06-2011 11:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: TheGenius on  5-06-2011 12:49 AM
She is younger than i,she is very appreciative but there are some qualities she lack which i tried all i could to make her possess.She is very stubborn,she listens while wit me but once she left,she forgot all i have told her.I lost my job last yr August and it seems i hav lost my admission. Though,she stayed but not like she used to when things are okay for us.I noticed some arrogance in her for a month nw,she want to start dictatin for me..whn i ask her to come and see she would say NO...something she dnt do b4.And if she come,she prevents me frm touchin her.Then,i stopped calling her and its almost a month now and she dnt bother to call either.Now things hav been turning good for me (Thank God).Her birthday is on the 23rd of this month,i dnt knw if i should call her or I should not try it.Though,i love her but i thought i shouldnt allow love to intoxicate in my brain that will make me lost my sense.Please Pals, i need ur advice

You don't have to bother yourself calling her, she made her own choices already !! she'd shown you she's all interested in your money and material things, she never care or loved you. Let her off.. sooner or later she will realize it.
Posted: at 5-06-2011 11:03 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- rosiegirl2 at 6-06-2011 12:01 AM (12 years ago)
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dont  even try it... she is a real gold digger... she a no money no love kinda girl..
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- TheGenius at 6-06-2011 05:57 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kizz4me on  5-06-2011 11:03 PM
Quote from: TheGenius on  5-06-2011 12:49 AM
She is younger than i,she is very appreciative but there are some qualities she lack which i tried all i could to make her possess.She is very stubborn,she listens while wit me but once she left,she forgot all i have told her.I lost my job last yr August and it seems i hav lost my admission. Though,she stayed but not like she used to when things are okay for us.I noticed some arrogance in her for a month nw,she want to start dictatin for me..whn i ask her to come and see she would say NO...something she dnt do b4.And if she come,she prevents me frm touchin her.Then,i stopped calling her and its almost a month now and she dnt bother to call either.Now things hav been turning good for me (Thank God).Her birthday is on the 23rd of this month,i dnt knw if i should call her or I should not try it.Though,i love her but i thought i shouldnt allow love to intoxicate in my brain that will make me lost my sense.Please Pals, i need ur advice

You don't have to bother yourself calling her, she made her own choices already !! she'd shown you she's all interested in your money and material things, she never care or loved you. Let her off.. sooner or later she will realize it.
Quote from: kizz4me on  5-06-2011 11:03 PM
Quote from: TheGenius on  5-06-2011 12:49 AM
She is younger than i,she is very appreciative but there are some qualities she lack which i tried all i could to make her possess.She is very stubborn,she listens while wit me but once she left,she forgot all i have told her.I lost my job last yr August and it seems i hav lost my admission. Though,she stayed but not like she used to when things are okay for us.I noticed some arrogance in her for a month nw,she want to start dictatin for me..whn i ask her to come and see she would say NO...something she dnt do b4.And if she come,she prevents me frm touchin her.Then,i stopped calling her and its almost a month now and she dnt bother to call either.Now things hav been turning good for me (Thank God).Her birthday is on the 23rd of this month,i dnt knw if i should call her or I should not try it.Though,i love her but i thought i shouldnt allow love to intoxicate in my brain that will make me lost my sense.Please Pals, i need ur advice

You don't have to bother yourself calling her, she made her own choices already !! she'd shown you she's all interested in your money and material things, she never care or loved you. Let her off.. sooner or later she will realize it.
Quote from: kizz4me on  5-06-2011 11:03 PM

Thanks for ur advice.I really appreciate

Quote from: TheGenius on  5-06-2011 12:49 AM
She is younger than i,she is very appreciative but there are some qualities she lack which i tried all i could to make her possess.She is very stubborn,she listens while wit me but once she left,she forgot all i have told her.I lost my job last yr August and it seems i hav lost my admission. Though,she stayed but not like she used to when things are okay for us.I noticed some arrogance in her for a month nw,she want to start dictatin for me..whn i ask her to come and see she would say NO...something she dnt do b4.And if she come,she prevents me frm touchin her.Then,i stopped calling her and its almost a month now and she dnt bother to call either.Now things hav been turning good for me (Thank God).Her birthday is on the 23rd of this month,i dnt knw if i should call her or I should not try it.Though,i love her but i thought i shouldnt allow love to intoxicate in my brain that will make me lost my sense.Please Pals, i need ur advice

You don't have to bother yourself calling her, she made her own choices already !! she'd shown you she's all interested in your money and material things, she never care or loved you. Let her off.. sooner or later she will realize it.
Posted: at 6-06-2011 05:57 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- xena15 at 6-06-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: moniconyez on  5-06-2011 05:41 PM
Quote from: xena15 on  5-06-2011 12:57 AM
Women can never be completely understood....just when u fink u knw em',u realize u dnt!
I think u should call her and maybe try to talk things over,it seems like u gat unresolved issues....
Goodluck....if u add Jonathan,na u sabi.....

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Xena Xena
wetin happen?
Make i come?

Posted: at 6-06-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 6-06-2011 12:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  5-06-2011 04:16 AM
poster i see you as a very smart man but lack common sense...i don't mean to be rude sha..come on, check am na...when things were perfectly okie with you she obey to your commands but when things ain't alright..she disobey you..that means she is the kind of lady whose believe money come a woman come but when money go a woman go to......you can call her on her brithday just to wish her HBD..and after that don't ave anything to do with her..u need a woman who will love you for who you are and not what you become...who will stand for you when you are down...think man...Don't let your emotion take control on this...is showed you the kind of woman she is..is it that kind of a woman u need in your life?ask yourself sum few questions..before any decision making.
9ice one! 4rm a lady.
Posted: at 6-06-2011 12:57 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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