what would you possibly do if your 15yr old girl friend is pregnant? (Page 2)

totally.....

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Posted: at 4-02-2008 10:59 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well nothing to do than to have the baby first.
I see cases like this almost everyday and at times some of them just make me burst into tears. babies having babies. I hope they have both learned that some things are worth waiting for and that things shouldnt be taken at face value everytime. To the lady she should know its not the end of all her dreams just that its realisation just got tougher thats all. She can still be all she ever wants to be in her life, same goes to the guy.
To the parents please they dont have to be married oo. A 15 year old cant cope please. I just hope that their genes are compactible and the baby wont be  an added punishment. I know of an unfortunate group (male 17, female 15) with an SS baby.
To others sex is worth waiting for ok.
God bless

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Posted: at 4-02-2008 04:13 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

and their address is.....brb........

Posted: at 4-02-2008 04:30 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i bet this gonna be deleted coz Moela used the "F" word.......lol

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Posted: at 5-02-2008 04:46 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 5-02-2008 08:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 6-02-2008 06:02 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero

first..... his parent and the girls parent should come together and have a peaceful discussion.(though i know the girl dad may want to have  violent talk with the boy) and sort out what should be done like a).. if the boy should marry the girl or ..b) if the girl should just have the baby and continue her education while her mom takes care of the child.   second ......if they decide that they girl should have the baby and continue her education then she would have to leave school for the period of time she will be carrying the baby till its birth with the family of the boy contributing to any hospital bill and expenses. after the baby is born, she can continue school and this time set greater goals to achieve so as to show that she might have done a big mistake but she wouldnt  let it affect her at all. and the parents of the boy or the boy himself should be paying regular visit so that the baby wont grow up not knowing his dad...........But if they decide that the boy should marry the girl, then all said above will be done but in this case the girl will be in the boys house and the family of the boy must accept her as a member of the family and as their son's future wife(i mean they should live together but abstain from any form of sex until they are old enough to live together alone) and take care of her and her schooling welfare because she too have a right to education just like their son.
  i know how our nigerian culture is. it is good for people who are really careful with life and can really bad to people who make mistakes. BUT abortion is not the answer........it may not be my damn business but if anyone i know does abortion, to him or her i recommend involuntary accident caused by voluntary muscles. unless if it was a life threating alignment that requires that process to save the victim.

Posted: at 6-02-2008 08:47 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

i wonder oooooo...abi na her sister 

Posted: at 8-02-2008 08:57 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

  that's young!!!!

Posted: at 8-02-2008 10:41 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

i hate it when u send kisses to others

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Posted: at 9-02-2008 04:49 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac