Annana at 22-07-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago) (f) Mind over matter. Sleeping with a corpse could be manageable, but if its starting to decompose, the room should be very very cold. The culture is wanting to treat the woman with respect. The man was comfortable enough to accomodate her when she was alive and had a relationship amidst having a good family with a wife and children. This is only on earth, imagine the penalty if he has done wrong, and has not repented appropriately before 'after-life'? God is fair and just, he lets him get this discomfort during his lifetime, and not afterwards. Richness, money can be gained back, he just needs to be strong. Just do the right thing. He has taken her into his "care" by providing a home - ie. rented it out for her, and paid dues for her brother whom is in his school -all actions not surmountable to him (not his responsibility) but only for his wife, children and rightful siblings.He did not have consent with the woman's family when he did all these for her then. Ofcourse, he was not wrong if he hadn't expected any "favours" back from the deceased woman, that he only did all those out of the sincerity of his heart and for God and the sake of humanity. I don't know that Ibom culture in depth but from the professor's explanation, it has taken steps to make their girls and women respectably treated. Interesting how good seems bad and how bad can seem to be good. Devil has a smart ways to entice and distracts human from going to heaven and doing the right thing. Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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annkezs at 22-07-2011 11:02 AM (13 years ago) (f) What a nonsense culture......anyway according to Dr Kudirat Sanni she said "The culture is actually helping to minimize the rate at which men date ladies without marriage,".So men be carefull Posted: at 22-07-2011 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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chat32 at 22-07-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) (m) Hmmm i think dats what i'll do....lolzz Posted: at 22-07-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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oluwaseyi4 at 22-07-2011 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
oluwaseyi4 at 22-07-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) (m) thank GOD i am not in a relationship with Akwa Ibom girl Posted: at 22-07-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ajanni at 22-07-2011 08:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) alright ooo Posted: at 22-07-2011 08:07 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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andyrado at 23-07-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (m) thank GOD i am not in a relationship with Akwa Ibom girl
park oneside!-which akwa ibom girl go even answer ur greeting-abeg go marry durty-if u dey vex go hug transformer-unam...........lol
EDUCATION WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF JESUS CHRIST(GOD) MAKES YOU A CLEVER DEVIL! Posted: at 23-07-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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sammy111 at 23-07-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) haba in dis generation dis kind tin is still goin on, they should embrace Christianity fully wel, and stop dis babaric tin called culture, luv is been seen in a different dimension now....b/4 a girl stayed wit a guy she must hv tot of it, who knws if d young man is tryin 2 gather money to pay her dowry....pls dey shod tink twice......... Posted: at 23-07-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Angelita2 at 23-07-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) nna nobi small tin Posted: at 23-07-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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bali4real at 24-07-2011 10:59 PM (13 years ago) (m) cant believe such crazy acts like this r stll being practiced in this kind of age.damn! Posted: at 24-07-2011 10:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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benlyne at 24-07-2011 11:24 PM (13 years ago) (f) bullsht!!! Posted: at 24-07-2011 11:24 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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ajanni at 24-07-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) Posted: at 24-07-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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2VIP at 25-07-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago) (m) Really pathetic, even though am from Akwa ibom, howeva dis practice is prevalent in almost al tradtn or ethnicity in dis region, south-south, east, n may b west. Posted: at 25-07-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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kelechi86 at 31-07-2011 07:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) mh! Posted: at 31-07-2011 07:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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akposy19 at 17-10-2011 10:42 PM (13 years ago) (m) I reject am. God Forbid! Posted: at 17-10-2011 10:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ewatomi at 30-10-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) (f) am short of words... Posted: at 30-10-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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na mumu dey worry them Posted: at 25-05-2012 01:24 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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aishatua1 at 18-07-2012 04:15 PM (12 years ago) (f) Most igbos are criminals Posted: at 18-07-2012 04:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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vivianbenz at 18-07-2012 04:42 PM (12 years ago) (f) i believe by so doing u men would learn who to hold urself be getting married instead of using and duping women Posted: at 18-07-2012 04:42 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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I AM WHO I AM, IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, YOU CAN BLOODY DO THE OTHER THING AND FCUK ALL HATERZ Posted: at 19-07-2012 10:42 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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