1. Do that thing we find endearing All men have at least one thing our significant other does that we find so damn adorable it reminds us why we fell for her to begin with. My lady is diminutive by any measure, and so she has about five or six of those things – usually leading with sad puppy-dog eyes – that make me forget that she cussed me out five minutes prior.
2. Tears are the first cousin of the endearing trait: they make us melt, only because crying makes most dudes uncomfortable and we don’t like seeing you in pain. If you want to convince us that giving the mailman a happy ending was somehow OUR fault, consider the waterworks.
3. 3. Use sex as a weapon It’s using a man’s biggest weakness against him, and it’s oh so easy for a girlfriend to do. Resolving a heated argument with sex allows you to quell a lot of tension, because orgasms tend to be effective for bringing people back to a better problem-solving mind state.
4. Cook us a meal C’mon, it’s food. Leave the fight, hook up a steak and some scalloped potatoes, and come back to us. Add a Corona to the mix, and what argument?
5. Use logic This, I think, is the hardest thing for women to do. Concerns about sounding sexist be damned: when women get effusive with the high emotions, logic and reason say “bye-bye.” This is no way to solve an argument. Consider going against expectations and have a pragmatic conversation. We’ll respect you immensely for it.
Number 2,3,and 4 really works for me.loool
Posted: at 20-07-2011 09:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Men find women dat use 2,3 n 4 too often manupulative...esp numba 2. There r sum prblems even sex can fix. Besides, if used consistently it will lose its power. Sum men will even accept sex n food ftm u and then stand their ground once dem don chop belleful
Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
1. Do that thing we find endearing All men have at least one thing our significant other does that we find so damn adorable it reminds us why we fell for her to begin with. My lady is diminutive by any measure, and so she has about five or six of those things – usually leading with sad puppy-dog eyes – that make me forget that she cussed me out five minutes prior.
2. Tears are the first cousin of the endearing trait: they make us melt, only because crying makes most dudes uncomfortable and we don’t like seeing you in pain. If you want to convince us that giving the mailman a happy ending was somehow OUR fault, consider the waterworks.
3. 3. Use sex as a weapon It’s using a man’s biggest weakness against him, and it’s oh so easy for a girlfriend to do. Resolving a heated argument with sex allows you to quell a lot of tension, because orgasms tend to be effective for bringing people back to a better problem-solving mind state.
4. Cook us a meal C’mon, it’s food. Leave the fight, hook up a steak and some scalloped potatoes, and come back to us. Add a Corona to the mix, and what argument?
5. Use logic This, I think, is the hardest thing for women to do. Concerns about sounding sexist be damned: when women get effusive with the high emotions, logic and reason say “bye-bye.” This is no way to solve an argument. Consider going against expectations and have a pragmatic conversation. We’ll respect you immensely for it.
Number 2,3,and 4 really works for me.loool
PLEASE GIVE 5 ANO EXAMPLE. TQ.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 06:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Tears doesn't work on my side, I sees it as a trick to deceive me, so I don't bloody care seeing her cry and I have told her often times, that tears doesn't move me. But 3 and 4 makes a lot of sense.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
lovely09 at 21-07-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jennypriceson on 20-07-2011 10:17 PM
Don't u think a relationship without argument is more blissful?
A relationship without argument is boring; you can never know what's on each other's mind if you don't argue. Knowing how to settle yourselves is the best. I think 2.... 3......and 4 can always work.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie