Steps on how to ask a guy out.

Ladies we got this...let us sometime make things easy for the guy we are interested in by be the first to make a move.its doesn't make a woman less. men love women that are bold to face them...let us stop this old style like playing too hard to get...some men hate it and lost interest in pursuing you.A dickhead nigge who still want to take you for granted will still do it no matter how hard you played.. ;)Be in the right place at the right time. It's best to ask someone out in person, so you've got to make sure to be where the guy you have a crush on is. This could be at the mall, the movies, school, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. You don't want to look like a stalker, but you do want to be able to talk to him. A simple hi every time you see him works well. (*Note: Constantly running into each other is a good ice breaker. "Hey, we keep seeing each other everywhere, we might as well become friends. My name is..."*) The guy you want to ask out is most likely to say yes if it's someone you know and are constantly around, at least a few times a week. You should feel comfortable around him and this should be someone who you can talk to easily and will respect you alwaysTake the initiative. Unfortunately, many guys are too afraid to walk up to someone they're interested in and ask them out. Take matters into your own hands. Walk up to him slowly but don't creep him out, and introduce yourself. Even if you already know the guy really well, still walk up to him and make small talk. If he seems to be flirting, flirt back. Keep working at it until you're at full on flirt mode. Try not to do this if he's extremely busy, but at the same time, don't let the opportunity to talk to him pass you by just because you're nervous. If he seems receptive when you introduce yourself, keep on talking to him.

 
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Make small talk with him. Break the ice by commenting on something he's wearing or saying something about the place or event you're at. Just try to get him to feel comfortable around you.

 
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Make eye contact with him. While the two of you are talking, make eye contact and try to hold it for just a little longer than you normally would--just a second or two, not too long. If he makes eye contact back, he's probably interested in you.

 
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Commence flirting This can mean touching him lightly on the arm, for example, or laughing at his jokes. Just be playful and communicate that you're interested. Sometimes you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you. Compliment him! For example you could say something like, "I love your shirt!"

 
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Ask him non-intrusive questions about himself, such as what kinds of things he likes to do, what his favorite kind of food is, or if he likes to play sports. By asking harmless little questions you can find out more about him to determine if you really want to ask him out, and you might find out whether or not he's single. You can also set up the conversation to ask him out.

 
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Ask him out. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime. Do NOT just rush up to him and say the words or ask a friend to ask him out for you! Guys hate that. It is embarrassing. If you don't succeed in finding something you have in common, you might not really find him that interesting, but if you want to take a chance, just let him know that you'd like to hang out with him again.
 
If he says no, at least he knows you are interested and may get to want to know you more, or if he seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; work on your friendship, getting closer and building up trust. Chances are he'll change his mind. Just be patient and wait to see what happens. Just say, "Oh, that's okay, maybe another time." Don't be rude and don't hold a grudge. There is no faster way to turn off a guy than to hold a grudge against him for not being as "into" you as you are into him.

 If he says yes, plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists. If he wants to pay for the date, then hey - no arguments there, right? Let him pay for the date if he insists--it makes him look like a gentleman and may also indicate that he is serious about pursuing you, which is what you were hoping for in the first place! On a first date, it is recommended that you go somewhere with a lot of people, and somewhere that will have lots going on to keep the conversation going. Going to the movies prevents conversation and can make the situation awkward if there are scary or romantic scenes. Don't expect a kiss on the first date, if it happens, it happens, if not, hopefully there will be a second one.

 If he really shows he likes you, start conversations with him -- get to know him and if he doesn't pop the question, you should. Besides, if you are shy, just think that if you really want this, you will ask him. Remember to be yourself and act natural. You don't want him falling in love with someone you're pretending to be and not you

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:09 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

which is?

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:14 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hmmm lemme guess money 

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

make yu tell me na

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hehehehhehe..na meat wa you go chop yu dey find abi..my ear nor be meat i nor dey bring...i nor know weting you won use am do

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Yeah Lady, u tried. Very good. But remember, let him do the rest o...

Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:42 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

  what I meant is that after toastin him. Let him plan the rest.

Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:51 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

passing and 

Posted: at 24-10-2011 03:56 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac