Hey guys, think you know everything there is to know about having sex with women? That erotic encyclopedia you carry around in your head may contain a lot of basic errors and omissions about women's segxwality -- errors that can lead to sex mistakes.
That's because -- after learning the facts of life -- most of us are left to figure out sex for ourselves. Guys tend to take a lot of cues from adult movies, and we all know how true-to-life those are. Experience may help, but many women can be shy when talking about what they like.
Sex Mistake No.1: You Know What She Wants Men often make assumptions about what a woman wants based upon what they've done with other women. But women aren't all the same."You develop a repertoire as you mature segxwally, but you should never assume that what worked for the last person is going to work for this person.
Sex Mistake No. 2: You Have All She Needs Some women can't have an orgasm with less than 3,000 rpm. No human tongue or fingers can generate that kind of vibration. But men typically think something is wrong if a woman needs a vibrator."If the only way that a woman can achieve orgasm is with a vibrator, she's not broken,"
Sex Mistake No. 3: Sex Feels the Same for Men and Women There tends to be a "huge disconnect" between men and women in the ways that sex feels good. "When a man has intercourse with a woman, and his penis goes into her body, that sensation is so off the charts for most men, they cannot imagine that it isn't feeling the same way for her". "It couldn't be further from the truth." The inside of the honeypot is probably less sensitive than the outer parts for most women. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so nice on the receiving end. If the penis is too long, "it feels like you're getting punched in the stomach," These might makes you feel nauseous."
Sex Mistake No. 4: You Know Your Way Around a Woman's Anatomy Most guys know generally what a clitoris is and where to find it. That's not to say that they really understand it. They also lack information about how to touch it and how sensitive it is. A touch that's bliss for one woman may feel like nothing special, or may even be painful for someone else. Some prefer indirect stimulation. How can you find out how she likes to be touched? Try asking her.
Sex Mistake No. 5: Wet = Turned On Guys sometimes get hung up if a woman doesn't get slippery enough for easy penetration. Don't worry about it. "I think there's a myth that if you're turned on, you're wet,". Not necessarily. Some women tend to get wetter than others, and how much natural lubrication a woman has can change from day to day. It varies by the phase of her menstrual cycle, and it's subject to influences like stress and medications.
Sex Mistake No. 6: Silence Is Golden A lot of guys think they should be silent during sex, but unless you speak up, your partner has to guess what is doing it for you and what isn't. If you're respectful about it, a woman who wants to please you will probably appreciate some directions. "I'm not saying push her head in your lap," but i think that telling her, 'this is how I like it,' is a very useful conversation to have."
We learn everyday.... Good sex... Happy home...
Posted: at 22-11-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
dirtykid at 22-11-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Well, i'm glad i do ask what she want, how she want it, then i can vibrate her for more than 6000 rpm before i will go on and plug my 12 inch golf stick and woop her 350 pounding each 8 mins then multiply that by 50 mins, You can unplug off her each of the 350 pounding and penetrate in again, ladies love it the way u enter their snail ground, Knowing my way around is true, I always try to touch some areas sensitively to make her vibrate like eemm emm, whats the name again I can as well add little spanking when we're on reverse cowgirl position or doggy world, is good to spank ''em butts. If we tune and turn ourselves on... believe me, she will ne yelling and screaming, while i will be telling her how i want that sweet lill thing to be turned for my monday hammer .
You reading this, u've spoiled more than me
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 22-11-2011 04:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Well, i'm glad i do ask what she want, how she want it, then i can vibrate her for more than 6000 rpm before i will go on and plug my 12 inch golf stick and woop her 350 pounding each 8 mins then multiply that by 50 mins, You can unplug off her each of the 350 pounding and penetrate in again, ladies love it the way u enter their snail ground, Knowing my way around is true, I always try to touch some areas sensitively to make her vibrate like eemm emm, whats the name again I can as well add little spanking when we're on reverse cowgirl position or doggy world, is good to spank ''em butts. If we tune and turn ourselves on... believe me, she will ne yelling and screaming, while i will be telling her how i want that sweet lill thing to be turned for my monday hammer .
You reading this, u've spoiled more than me
DK....young man, you possess the personality of an Otter(Dirty and romantic all thru his/her life) and a Lion(Always brave and in control)
Posted: at 22-11-2011 04:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Well, i'm glad i do ask what she want, how she want it, then i can vibrate her for more than 6000 rpm before i will go on and plug my 12 inch golf stick and woop her 350 pounding each 8 mins then multiply that by 50 mins, You can unplug off her each of the 350 pounding and penetrate in again, ladies love it the way u enter their snail ground, Knowing my way around is true, I always try to touch some areas sensitively to make her vibrate like eemm emm, whats the name again I can as well add little spanking when we're on reverse cowgirl position or doggy world, is good to spank ''em butts. If we tune and turn ourselves on... believe me, she will ne yelling and screaming, while i will be telling her how i want that sweet lill thing to be turned for my monday hammer .
You reading this, u've spoiled more than me
Posted: at 23-11-2011 02:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming