12 Qualities a Woman Looks for in a Man

Date: 01-12-2011 7:55 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Afolabi Timothy
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After a lot of research including Steven Aitchison creator ‘change your thought’ (CTY) write-ups, the following values we gather are what our women need in their men:

1. Capable to Protect
2. Be Honest
3. A Get up and go
4. Trusting
5. Sense of Humour
6. Reliability
7. Commitment
8. Respect
9. In Tune with Her Feelings
10. Attractiveness
11. Assertiveness
12. Faithfulness


Posted: at 1-12-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- Beauti4 at 1-12-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago)
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If you are really serious then post the explanatory of everything here sir. My husby must be a man of God.....Cos love is God. That way he will understand the true meaning of Love. I don't care about attractiveness. We are attractive the way God created us. We just have to take care of yourselves.

Thanks....
Posted: at 1-12-2011 07:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 1-12-2011 08:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: timafo on  1-12-2011 08:05 PM
Posting the explanation is not a problem but most people complain when its too long. I have posted detailed posts twice and a lot of readers "yabbed" me that this is a forum and not classroom. I had to make it short and keep the link for only those interested in reading long articles. Thank you.

You don't have to listen to their yabbings. At least you can shorten the explanations. But either way, thanks all the same.
Posted: at 1-12-2011 08:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 1-12-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago)
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am out Shocked

Posted: at 1-12-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 1-12-2011 10:52 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 1-12-2011 10:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- santap at 3-12-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-12-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dguy at 3-12-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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This woman just needs God | Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-12-2011 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeco at 3-12-2011 02:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: timafo on  1-12-2011 09:27 PM
I have taken some extracts of the points from the post:

1. Capable to Protect: According to women we spoke with they want to know their partner will be able to protect them physically in times of danger or trouble.

2. Be Honest: When you are honest about everything you will get a reputation for being honest and you will get more respect and gain trust a lot quicker from her. If you are found out with one lie then the trust will be withdrawn and its always so difficult to regain.

3. A Get up and go:Women don’t like men who have no motivation to do anything with their lives. They want a man who has passion and has goals in life and has got the motivation to follow up their dreams to the conclusive end.

4. Trusting: Believe in your wife/girlfriend, supporting and encouraging her in every step of her upward climb in life.

5. Sense of Humour: This one obviously depends on each couple as everybody has a different sense of humour but women like men who can make them laugh.

6. Reliability: This is another high up on women’s list. You’ve got to be reliable if you want your partner to stick with you for the long term. If she has an evening meal planned for you and you promised you’ll be home by 7pm and you come strolling in at 8pm, this is not being reliable.

7. Commitment: An absolute must for any long term relationship. If you are not committed then there will always be that little doubt in the back of her mind asking if you are really serious about the relationship and at what part would you just opt and go.

8. Respect: There’s no question of this, if you disrespect her you may as well throw the relationship out of the window right now. It’s not only respect for her but its respect for yourself as well.

9. In Tune with Her Feelings: For the old fashioned man out there one of the main things you were missing was the ability to stay in tune with your partners feelings. If you are attuned to your partner’s feelings then it shows respect, caring and love.

10. Attractiveness: Everyone has an attractive feature about them and rest assured someone will be attracted to you because of it. However if you let yourself go and don’t really care about yourself, you’ll be dropped like a hot potato, because it may reflect on her on the long run

11. Assertiveness: Woman can stand up for themselves very well but they still like a man to be assertive as well. Women don’t like weak men, so grow a pair and stand up for yourself and your wife.

12. Faithfulness: Shouldn’t even have to be said here, because it should come naturally, but so many men think they can get away with being unfaithful and it should not affect their women. You will never be respected once you’ve been unfaithful and there is absolutely no excuse for it.

Thank you.

but to be frank i cant do all this Angry

Posted: at 3-12-2011 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Adikpe at 3-12-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  1-12-2011 10:36 PM
am out Shocked


...to where and why?
Posted: at 3-12-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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