Without Marriage, One can still have fun, buy sex, raise kids among other things, so why do we have to entangle ourselves in this HOLY PRISON called WEDLOCK?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Marriage makes an incomplete human being a complete one. It makes him/her a grown up and gives him/her responsibilities whether those responsibilities are to feed and clothe the wife or to assist the husband.
Marriage is supposed to take a person out of the hectic lifestyle that one is in and place him or her in an organised environment giving them a path to follow in life and a shoulder to lean on. In short marriage arranges one’s life.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 2-03-2012 01:31 PM
Marriage makes an incomplete human being a complete one. It makes him/her a grown up and gives him/her responsibilities whether those responsibilities are to feed and clothe the wife or to assist the husband.
Marriage is supposed to take a person out of the hectic lifestyle that one is in and place him or her in an organised environment giving them a path to follow in life and a shoulder to lean on. In short marriage arranges one’s life.
What if you have more than enuff Money that you can get anything you want, including paying a man to impregnate you and forget about the child (Women) or paying a girl to get you kids (Men). I mean, just like a contract agreement. Of course we can still be happy without Matrimonial responsibilities... don't you think so?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ogain my culture the rule be sa if you nor marry their daughter...even though una dey have sex..having kids and whatever..you are not recognize as her husband and you cannot take the kids to your family side..number two you don't have to do a white wedding tho .number 3 marriage is God idea, designed and instittued by God.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
What if you have more than enuff Money that you can get anything you want, including paying a man to impregnate you and forget about the child (Women) or paying a girl to get you kids (Men). I mean, just like a contract agreement. Of course we can still be happy without Matrimonial responsibilities... don't you think so?
there is nothing like my own kids or kid's...and there is nothing like my own husband or wife. na money dey mislead some rich men nowadays...want to be paying a woman to have a kid for you and you are not married to her...that contract marriage is the worse marriage for one to get involve on...at the end the woman will use you..make life misrable for you..frustrate your life.abeg...why will you be doing that when you can as well just marry her when you have the money>>>is money ever too much to be adding more to it?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Marriage makes an incomplete human being a complete one. It makes him/her a grown up and gives him/her responsibilities whether those responsibilities are to feed and clothe the wife or to assist the husband.
Marriage is supposed to take a person out of the hectic lifestyle that one is in and place him or her in an organised environment giving them a path to follow in life and a shoulder to lean on. In short marriage arranges one’s life.
that sentence makes me laff...every human is complete whether marry or not...marriage is not for everyone..bible did not say everyone have to get married tho...if you are single you are complete with God.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 01:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 02:27 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 2-03-2012 01:43 PM
ogain my culture the rule be sa if you nor marry their daughter...even though una dey have sex..having kids and whatever..you are not recognize as her husband and you cannot take the kids to your family side..number two you don't have to do a white wedding tho .number 3 marriage is God idea, designed and instittued by God.
Are you saying that Catholic Rev. Fathers are fount wanting in this area?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 2-03-2012 02:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 02:31 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: koromo on 2-03-2012 02:17 PM
marriage gives u a sence of belonging, it makes u knw that there is someone who luk up to u, it makes u feel loved.
Can't one have a sense of belonging without marriage? And then, If you have a kids outside wedlock, don't you think they will still look up to you? Or even people in your neighbourhood will still look up to you if you're wealthy.
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 2-03-2012 02:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 02:41 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 2-03-2012 01:48 PM
there is nothing like my own kids or kid's...and there is nothing like my own husband or wife. na money dey mislead some rich men nowadays...want to be paying a woman to have a kid for you and you are not married to her...that contract marriage is the worse marriage for one to get involve on...at the end the woman will use you..make life misrable for you..frustrate your life.abeg...why will you be doing that when you can as well just marry her when you have the money>>>is money ever too much to be adding more to it?
But even in western countries, Contract marriage is legal. Outside that, what about Adopted Kids. You could adopt kids 4rm all walks of life and still be happy with your life, whether Rich man or woman. And you must not even be too rich to adopt kids or leave a good life without Marriage, don't you think?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 2-03-2012 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 2-03-2012 02:42 PM (13 years ago) (f)
As long as you don't want kids, as long as you can hold yourself, as long as you can live by yourself without problems, I don't see any reason to marry!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 2-03-2012 02:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
But even in western countries, Contract marriage is legal. Outside that, what about Adopted Kids. You could adopt kids 4rm all walks of life and still be happy with your life, whether Rich man or woman. And you must not even be too rich to adopt kids or leave a good life without Marriage, don't you think?
why adopt when you can make your own..with someonewho lovesyou and the one you love? likei said there is nothing like my blood...there is still didference you know adopting a child and having your own...
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
great question. I sumtyms wonder too but i came to the realization of the fact that life is madness without marriage. Letter keep aside all religious views about marriage and imagine a society without marriage. Women have kid for different men. They word family would not exist. Then we all shall live like goats and dogs. No responsibility just phyuk anyhow born anywere.no moral upbringing.the list continues. Evening ashawo bizness will be legal and hot cake. hope u grab a picture already
Because true love Can be so hard to find
Posted: at 2-03-2012 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
God created Adam, and saw dat Adam alone can't stay, so He created Eve to stay with him. I think dis alone answers the question. Had it been that Adam can stay alone, God wouldn't have created Eve.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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