Why do we have to Marry? (Page 2)

Date: 02-03-2012 1:25 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Akeem Jaffe Jaffa
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 03:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  2-03-2012 02:42 PM
As long as you don't want kids, as long as you can hold yourself, as long as you can live by yourself without problems,
I don't see any reason to marry!

Will you be able to handle the loneliness in your later time?
Posted: at 2-03-2012 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bsleek on  2-03-2012 03:49 PM
God created Adam, and saw dat Adam alone  can't stay, so He created Eve to stay with him.
I think dis alone answers the question.
Had it been that Adam can stay alone, God wouldn't have created Eve.

Sure, Adam and Eve were created, but don't forget It was the same Eve who led them both to sin agaist God. and again, think of the prince of peace whom you believe in "JESUS". Why do you think He never even dated, talkless of getting locked in the spiderweb called wedlock?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 03:59 PM
Will you be able to handle the loneliness in your later time?

If Jesus could live without It and the Bible say, through Him who strenghtens us we can do all things, don't you think we can still cope?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 01:36 PM

What if you have more than enuff Money that you can get anything you want, including paying a man to impregnate you and forget about the child (Women) or paying a girl to get you kids (Men). I mean, just like a contract agreement. Of course we can still be happy without Matrimonial responsibilities... don't you think so?

If you don't want to marry, then no need to pay to get kid. As long as you can stay on your own but your question says, WHY DO WE MARRY.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Marriage is an essential element in the proper upbringing of children. This is because children without one of their parents are much more likely to commit crimes etc. and in short become a nuisance to the environment they live in.
Marriage plays a large part in saving one from the sins of fornication, homosegxwality and masturbation. It takes away the possibility of these things because after marriage a man is supposed to occupy himself with a woman he has married and vice versa.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:09 PM (13 years ago)
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A relationship should not exist of a one-night-stand as is the case now especially amongst students of universities, colleges and even schools. A relationship should show that both partners are ready to sacrifice and endure for their partner; the way towards this is through marriage. Until the world realises the importance of marriage as well as its benefits and advantages, it will be faced with the endless problems caused by neglecting marriage.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 02:31 PM

Can't one have a sense of belonging without marriage? And then, If you have a kids outside wedlock, don't you think they will still look up to you? Or even people in your neighbourhood will still look up to you if you're wealthy.

I put back your question to you, Why should a responsible Man/Woman have a child out of wedlock?
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:04 PM
If you don't want to marry, then no need to pay to get kid. As long as you can stay on your own but your question says, WHY DO WE MARRY.


Read the body of the message again and The question is, "Why do we have to marry?". In other words, "Must we Marry?"

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 04:00 PM

Sure, Adam and Eve were created, but don't forget It was the same Eve who led them both to sin agaist God. and again, think of the prince of peace whom you believe in "JESUS". Why do you think He never even dated, talkless of getting locked in the spiderweb called wedlock?

I see, woman brought sin to the world is it? Jesus came to rescue me and you. He did not come to marry.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:12 PM
I put back your question to you, Why should a responsible Man/Woman have a child out of wedlock?

What of a caes of bareness or low sperm count where the man cannot impregnate a woman? I think It's all the same, so A man or woman can as well do him/her self good by adopting kids and remain unmarried if that is where the neccessesity of Marriage lies... Don't you think?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 04:12 PM

Read the body of the message again and The question is, "Why do we have to marry?". In other words, "Must we Marry?"

It is not a MUST to marry. Only those we believe in it.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 04:16 PM

What of a caes of bareness or low sperm count where the man cannot impregnate a woman? I think It's all the same, so A man or woman can as well do him/her self good by adopting kids and remain unmarried if that is where the neccessesity of Marriage lies... Don't you think?

This is a case of a problem not a condition not to marry.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:15 PM
I see, woman brought sin to the world is it? Jesus came to rescue me and you. He did not come to marry.

That is the point! we are in this world as men and women for different reasons and not just for Marriage. Don't you think so?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:17 PM
It is not a MUST to marry. Only those we believe in it.

That is my point!

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:18 PM
This is a case of a problem not a condition not to marry.

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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 04:19 PM

That is the point! we are in this world as men and women for different reasons and not just for Marriage. Don't you think so?

I see. What ever your reasons are, you need companionship ooo.
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 2-03-2012 04:26 PM (13 years ago)
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the bible didn't say it a most one must get married..that is if you can keep yourself away from the sex..but if you can it is better one get married.

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  2-03-2012 04:23 PM
I see. What ever your reasons are, you need companionship ooo.

There you go again! "The body of the message says, we can have fun, buy sex and adopt kids" but not entangle in Holy prison called wedlock. So, that is companionship on its own, don't you think?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 2-03-2012 04:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Bachelorette on  2-03-2012 04:29 PM

There you go again! "The body of the message says, we can have fun, buy sex and adopt kids" but not entangle in Holy prison called wedlock. So, that is companionship on its own, don't you think?

hmmmmmmm
Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bachelorette at 2-03-2012 04:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  2-03-2012 04:26 PM
the bible didn't say it a most one must get married..that is if you can keep yourself away from the sex..but if you can it is better one get married.

You must not stop yourself from sex before you decide against Marriage. I mean Sex is very cheap all over the world that even if you're earning pea-nuts, one can still afford it. It's a matter of not getting stocked to one person alone in the name of Marriage or wedlock. Do you understand now?

Posted: at 2-03-2012 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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