Bachelorette at 12-04-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
(m)
Charles Oputa better known as Charly Boy is as controversial as it goes.From his weird lifestyle to independent mind,he has however,won for himself thousands of admirers across the nation. In a recent interview,he talked about his family life, listing some of the factors that have kept his 25 year old marriage.
"First, I thank God for His mercies. It has not been easy one bit, but this much should be said.If two people with mutual respect,friendship and love are determined to make a union work,it will work. Don’t also forget that I have picked up experience after having gone through almost four marriages in less than eight years. So,I think these are some of the factors that helped me in this one. Women are all the same,no matter where they are from. You must study their manual if you are to live in peace with them.
They are basically the same. If you make a woman feel like a queen, make her understand she comes first in your life, and treat her with dignity and respect,half of the problem is solved. We talk a lot in my marriage. So at every point, each of us can almost tell what the other person is thinking. We have great friendship.My wife has seized to be just a wife long time ago. She is my girlfriend, my bitch, my wh*re, my sister, my mother, my confidant and so many things rolled into one. Sometimes we go to short time hotel. My wife is my prostitute and I’m her prostitute."
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 12-04-2012 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ANELEEVEREST at 12-04-2012 01:38 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Posted: at 12-04-2012 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jayfr33zy at 12-04-2012 01:52 PM (13 years ago) (m)
The context,mind frame and facial expression at the time he said it matters.It's all love,i don't see anything wrong with it if the wife see's nothing wrong with it.They are happily married which is the most important thing.
Posted: at 12-04-2012 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
no b him na d madness wey dey him body na him dey cos all this kind misyarnies culdnt he as used words lik angel, Godsent, gift, precious stone, nd so on... instead he his busy talkin bullshit.......... anyway sheybi una talk say na gay him b now? so wetin him still dey carry woman do
IF U TINK D DEVIL IS A LIAR, THEN LET A GUY LIE TO U AND U WILL KNW DAT D DEVIL IS A LEANER ........
Posted: at 12-04-2012 02:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The context,mind frame and facial expression at the time he said it matters.It's all love,i don't see anything wrong with it if the wife see's nothing wrong with it.They are happily married which is the most important thing.
of cos nt, but can u call ur wife those names? love indeed wat a love
IF U TINK D DEVIL IS A LIAR, THEN LET A GUY LIE TO U AND U WILL KNW DAT D DEVIL IS A LEANER ........
Posted: at 12-04-2012 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
No matter the kinda msg he's tryna pass across, it's wrong to call ur wife all dat names
d wife likes those names, mayb d guy should hav added vampire, witch, mammywater, toothpik leg, crazyface, uglybitch, hopelesswife nd so on.. so we go knw say him lov d chickala wella ....
IF U TINK D DEVIL IS A LIAR, THEN LET A GUY LIE TO U AND U WILL KNW DAT D DEVIL IS A LEANER ........
Posted: at 12-04-2012 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jayfr33zy at 12-04-2012 02:52 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: verah on 12-04-2012 02:41 PM
of cos nt, but can u call ur wife those names? love indeed wat a love
We must learn to recycle some negativity into positive thinking because he said all those doesn't mean he meant them,its a type of innuendo.some of use say crazy and defamatory things to our boyfriends/girlfriends in private and its seen as a joke,i'ill tell you,its all love.
Posted: at 12-04-2012 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FinlandGuy at 12-04-2012 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: verah on 12-04-2012 02:44 PM
d wife likes those names, mayb d guy should hav added vampire, witch, mammywater, toothpik leg, cr*zyface, uglybitch, hopelesswife nd so on.. so we go knw say him lov d chickala wella ....
Verah u see that thing,i still dont understand this charly Boi of man and this his wife
Posted: at 12-04-2012 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FinlandGuy at 12-04-2012 03:04 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FBI_CIA on 12-04-2012 02:15 PM
Just stop by to say Hi
My man,i be like say u go for break before,now you don come back with ur hi virus abi? You have succeeded in affecting many pals here with This your stop by to say Hi Virus.Some Pals now dey stop by to laugh,some dey stop by to cry, some even stop by to drink,some dey stop by to smoke e gbo,even some don stop by to chase woman or stop by to peep woman wey dey baf. I tire for you oooo FBI no dey try all.............
Posted: at 12-04-2012 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bachelorette at 12-04-2012 03:17 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FinlandGuy on 12-04-2012 03:04 PM
My man,i be like say u go for break before,now you don come back with ur hi virus abi? You have succeeded in affecting many pals here with This your stop by to say Hi Virus.Some Pals now dey stop by to laugh,some dey stop by to cry, some even stop by to drink,some dey stop by to smoke e gbo,even some don stop by to chase woman or stop by to peep woman wey dey baf. I tire for you oooo FBI no dey try all.............
Even me self don dey stop sometimes dey F**k Ash*wo.
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 12-04-2012 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bachelorette at 12-04-2012 03:21 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jayfr33zy on 12-04-2012 02:52 PM
We must learn to recycle some negativity into positive thinking because he said all those doesn't mean he meant them,its a type of innuendo.some of use say cr*zy and defamatory things to our boyfriends/girlfriends in private and its seen as a joke,i'ill tell you,its all love.
I understand His intention or message, but such remarks are Negative and doesn't speak good of his person. For instance, Can u say ur Father is as an armed Robber just because He lavishes money?
I've always lived by 3 principles:
1. Honour ur God, 2. Love ur Family and 3. Defend your Country
Posted: at 12-04-2012 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jayfr33zy at 12-04-2012 03:33 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Bachelorette on 12-04-2012 03:21 PM
I understand His intention or message, but such remarks are Negative and doesn't speak good of his person. For instance, Can u say ur Father is as an armed Robber just because He lavishes money?
That still falls on the context its being said.sometimes we call our friends,brothers or sisters "THIEF" because they pulled a trick or two that surprised/wowed us and you're like *BOY YOU'RE A CRIMIMAL,YOU'RE A BIG THIEF,HOW DID YOU DO THAT*,something of such nature wouldn't harm any one,its all fun and games but all in one,i get your point,we as africans don't tolerate such remarks.
Posted: at 12-04-2012 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FinlandGuy at 12-04-2012 03:37 PM (13 years ago) (m)
But Come to think of it,this guy might be right,but it depends on how we understand it.To me,i think he was trying to say that his wife is everything one can think of to him and his wife is all those things to him alone. But where he made me laugh is where she said that sometimes he go with his wife to phyuk for short time in a hotel hahahahahahhahahahaha.Na dis kind man dey peep im wife if she dey baf.lol
Posted: at 12-04-2012 03:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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