Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious.
Posted: at 1-07-2011 05:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Guy, you need to talk to her about what you like and what you don't like about her. Remember, marriage is not something you give a try, once you are married you are tied down (there is no trial in marriage). You both have to agree with one another b4 going into any marriage issue (That is why Bible says; "Two cannot walk together except they agree") If she is not ready to respect you at all times, then look elsewhere. Marriage is all about perfect life partners. If both of you don't correct your dislikes b4 going into marriage, then expect worst thereafter.
Best of Luck
Posted: at 1-07-2011 05:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The-s-man at 1-07-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Adikpe on 1-07-2011 05:21 PM
Guy, you need to talk to her about what you like and what you don't like about her. Remember, marriage is not something you give a try, once you are married you are tied down (there is no trial in marriage). You both have to agree with one another b4 going into any marriage issue (That is why Bible says; "Two cannot walk together except they agree") If she is not ready to respect you at all times, then look elsewhere. Marriage is all about perfect life partners. If both of you don't correct your dislikes b4 going into marriage, then expect worst thereafter.
Best of Luck
Bro i really appreciate ur advice. tanx alot. u no it is said "Problem shared is problem solved" Thanks.
Posted: at 1-07-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 1-07-2011 05:48 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: The-s-man on 1-07-2011 05:07 PM
Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious.
Have you talked to her ,seriously, about what bothers u? And if u did, have u seen any efforts from her side that she's trying to fix d problem?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2011 05:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Guy, you need to talk to her about what you like and what you don't like about her. Remember, marriage is not something you give a try, once you are married you are tied down (there is no trial in marriage). You both have to agree with one another b4 going into any marriage issue (That is why Bible says; "Two cannot walk together except they agree") If she is not ready to respect you at all times, then look elsewhere. Marriage is all about perfect life partners. If both of you don't correct your dislikes b4 going into marriage, then expect worst thereafter.
Best of Luck
Bro i really appreciate ur advice. tanx alot. u no it is said "Problem shared is problem solved" Thanks.
Posted: at 1-07-2011 05:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wandepope at 1-07-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) (m)
there is the extent to which a mans heart can bear,talk to her about it and she cant change that part of her be ready to bear with it for the rest of your life or break up.
Posted: at 1-07-2011 10:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
@poster....I think you LIKE her not LOVE; if its true love you will stand up to her and put those qualities which she lacks in her. I guess she is not a WIFE material or rather you can't marry her for personal resons
Posted: at 1-07-2011 11:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
IN the first place, do you have a job? Secondly, are you well educated? If answers to both question is yes, tell her how you feel about her behavior, and let her know that if such behavior continues, that you'll show her the door.
Posted: at 2-07-2011 03:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
MY GUY THIS SITUATION NEEDS WISDON BC IF YOU ASK ME I WILL SAID SHE WAS JUST BEEN NICE IN ORDER TO WIN UIR HEART WHEN U MARRY HER SHE WILL COME BACK TO HER BEHAVIOUR......NOW IF I MAY TELL U U LOVE HER YES PLAY THIS GAME TELL HER THAT U DONT LOVE HER ANY MORE THAT U CANT MARRY HER ......AND KNOWS WHAT SHE IS GOING TO DO AND THEN IF SHE CONVINCE U MORE ABOUT BEEN GOOD LECTURE HER ON WHAT U WANT FRON HER AND STILL DONT FORGET THAT THERE IS NOT PARFECT MARRIAGE ..... EVEN IF SHE CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE THAT MAYBE BE UR CROSS ,,,, GO ON WITH UR HEART AS LONG AS U LOVE HER AND U AR SURE SHE LOVE U ASWELL
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." Luke 18:27
Posted: at 2-07-2011 03:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious.
I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT IF YOU MARRY THAT GIRL YOU WILL BLAME YOURSELF SHORTLY AFTERWARD. COUNT YOURSELF LUCKY TO HAVE SEEN THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL AHEAD OF TIME. DO NOT DISCUSS ANYTHING WITH HER BCOS IF YOU DO, SHE WILL CHANGE TO GET YOU HOOKED FIRST THEN GO BACK TO HER UGLY WAY. AM WARNING YOU, IF YOU IGNORE YOUR HEART, YOU WILL REGRET IT BCOS SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE PERIOD. WHEN YOUR WIFE COMES YOU WILL KNOW. AT LEAST SHE WILL SHOW RESPECT FIRST. CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.
Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious.
2yrs is too old to start lecturing her on what is respect. Respecting your friends more than you can be dangerous vantage against good marriage. What if she start respecting you now just to have the marriage?? No discouragement but i doubt if she really love you and don't have time for your respect. Respect is reciprocal for all. Very sad she don't have it for you. She cannot be respectful later. Go ahead if you are ready to manage it all through your life......personal opinion can stupid some times. Not for me anyway.
Posted: at 2-07-2011 09:32 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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