Please i need your help and candid/honest opinions

please brothers and sisters i am in a big shit right now. i have two men that wants to marry me. it goes like this... (man # one and man # two) i am hiv positive and man # one is my boyfriend and he is aware of my hiv status and he still loves me despite my present condition, but he is married, and now he wants to marry me and leave the woman because according to him, he doesnt love her as much as he loves me. he vowed never to disclose my status to anyone. however, i am currently undetectable. but then came man # two, who also wants to marry me. the problem is that man # two is not aware of my hiv status, and i cannot get myself to tell him because i dont want any scandal (ie i dont want a situation that i tell him and he refuse to marry me and will not keep his mouth shut about my status) i really want to tell him, but i am scared that he might start broadcasting it to everyone. pls what should i do? i didnt want to tell man # two maybe until after we are married. is this a wise thing to do? pls give me an honest and candid suggestion. thanks guys.

Posted: at 16-04-2012 12:34 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Girl u must tell them. Whether na HIV or VIH u get. I have meet pple who are infected with this illness, and what they do is that they move around talking to young people about how to prevent it. Some may have gotten it thru birth. However, leave man #1 alone. Open up to man#2 its none of your biz if he preach to the whole world that u hve HIV.  This is something you cannot hide outside of your marriage girl.You need to leave these two men alone and concentrate on God. Pray and God will bring a man that will love you for you.

Ku Luck!

Posted: at 16-04-2012 01:43 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

  go watch SHUGA 9love sex money)
if u wanna marry man 2. he deserves to know your HIV status. just shun the stigma!
for man 1, i wont advise u to wreck a marriage, just cos he loves U.
remember, if there's a possibility of a HIV free generation, it begins with u
and btw, if man 1 is HIV+ marry him o lol

Posted: at 16-04-2012 05:07 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming