Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
Posted: at 5-03-2009 08:36 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Beautydiva at 5-03-2009 08:43 PM (15 years ago) (f)
The ball is in your court. U should know how to play it. How long do u think u want to wait for?? So he "isn't buoyant enough" 2 buy just a calling card 2 make a call to u?? How long do u want 2 continue 2 "bear" with him?? Well u have a brighter future ahead of u. Make d best of it.
Posted: at 5-03-2009 08:43 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
My candid advice is....Forget him!! From where I'm standing....he is not worth the wait!! You don't rob Peter to pay Paul...Never!! You're a woman....It's wrong for You to have aided and abeted the crime. You better find Yourself some1 more serious and respectful of matrimony else You'll realize Your wrong when It's too late and then Reality becomes too personal to handle.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 5-03-2009 08:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Baby,U crashed d ferarri,whn U fail to accept d fact dat he is now a married man,nomata d circumstance & also a father 4 dat mata. Plz,every woman's prayer is 4 God t giv her,who is her man & her man alone,thesame thing goes to men. So,baby pray 4 Ur own man,just 4 U alone.I wish U luck.
Posted: at 5-03-2009 09:40 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
I wonder why you agreed to his marrying another woman because of papers,well,we are different people,I can never think of the idea of sharing my man with another.... not for any reason.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 5-03-2009 10:11 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction. Is he still looking in your direction? A bell is no bell 'til you ring it, A song is no song 'til you sing it, And love in your heart Wasn’t put there to stay - Love isn’t love 'Til you give it away my dear. The eskimos had fifty-two names for snow because it was important to them: there ought to be as many for love. So watch out! Nobdy can best decide for you, Relationship is a personal decision. Please put on your thinking cap.
Posted: at 5-03-2009 10:45 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
my dear, its easier said than done. most of our Nigerian guys here marry white ladies to get their papers. i am not judging them whether it is right or wrong.but honestly if u see what they are facing in the hands of those white women u will take pity on them. a woman has a limited time to wait. time is ticking, remember menopause, and act fast.
Posted: at 6-03-2009 12:04 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
My dear according to what BeautyDiva said, d ball is in ur court and how long can u wait. if u feel u can no longer wait for him prior to time then do what u hv in mind. Time waits for nobody.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 6-03-2009 12:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
as beauti said the ball is in your court and how long can you wait. if you know you can,t wait any longer ,,,,is better you look for another,move on is how strong the relationship b/t the both of urs is.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 6-03-2009 12:54 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
life is crazy baby. u may move on wit ur life n see him back home proposing marriage to u. wat den wld u do? do u love him enuff to leave sm1 new for his marriage? well am only asking. do wat u have to do to make u happy. God bless u.
Posted: at 6-03-2009 12:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
Unfortunately ur story is nt unique
Go on with ur life..he did with his own..
He has a child now and a wife..regardless of the initial intention
He will always carry that baggage with him..
Do u want such wahala??
all da best.
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Posted: at 6-03-2009 04:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
e don end na the guy don marry
abi u no dey see road?
2.0.
Posted: at 15-03-2009 10:16 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
e don end na the guy don marry
abi u no dey see road?
the child is always there even if e leaves the oyibo woman
Posted: at 21-03-2009 08:21 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Pls i need ur advise no insult please, i beg in the name of God.
I am into a relationship of five years old, during the second year my guy travelled out of the country, he was having a problem over there and had to marry a white lady and he has a baby with the white lady, he said he is just marrying for the sake of paper, that he will soon come back to nigeria to marry, but my problem with him is, he does call me unless i call him, when i ask why he said he is not boyant enough that i should bear with him. Can i still wait for him or 4get abt him, and go ahead with my life.
Pls no insult.
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Posted: at 21-03-2009 09:53 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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