He doesn’t even consider kissing me

I am married for two years now and I am already used to the impatience of my husband, every time we go to bed he wants to make wild sex (Ok, not every day, but 3-4 times a week). But after it’s over he totally loses interest in me – he immediately turns to the other side and falls deeply asleep.

He is not as kind as to kiss me, or caress me – he falls asleep in his half of the bed, as if I don’t exist. And this gets from bad to worse for me.

I am asking myself “ Does he need me at all – or he simply needs the segxwal satisfaction?”

I bury my head in the pillow and cry silently.

Sometimes he notices that I cry and opens his eyes in surprise – “ Why are you crying now? What is wrong again? “ – and that’s all.

I tried a couple of times to shorten the distance in bed after the segxwal act, to show him that I need caress and tenderness.

But nothing worked – “Go to sleep, I am tired, I need to get up early in the morning cause I have an important meeting” – that would be his way of turning down my attempts to show him that I need him after sex.

I don’t know what to do?

I am afraid to tell it straight forward...

I don’t want tenderness that is obtained by begging!

Posted: at 2-06-2012 05:22 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

gbam!!!!! aha weti be diz one na!!!

Posted: at 3-06-2012 11:06 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

aha mamacita i no fi tell person weti to do in diz case..only to say na shei bi she be woman!! may she use weti GOD give us na!! NAG the phyuking sense back into the man na!!!!!!! ......aha me i no go fi handle this kind man ooo...i like my man to caress before and after sex oooo!! chaiii i just go plainly refuse him my POT OF GOLD!!!

Posted: at 3-06-2012 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

If you are afraid then there is nothing you can do then

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Posted: at 3-06-2012 12:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I wonder

Posted: at 3-06-2012 02:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

see what you will do. call him sit him down and tell him that u need caress and kiss even hug, tell him everything and if he is a responsible man he will change but if he doesn't jsu know he wants u only for his segxwal needs nothing more.

Posted: at 3-06-2012 04:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Seems like you married someone seems to have somehow found his way into the new millennium from the Stone age era. Try talking to him about frankly in a way that lets him know how you feel about what he does and still lets him know that you love him. If he does not change, I suggest the Sex Embargo strategy!

Posted: at 4-06-2012 04:25 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming