Am in relationship wit dis guy but we often disagree about matters that i personally think could be overlook or should not cause problems. For example after a long day, we are talking and den i fall asleep he gets very angry that i don't love him den he brings up lot of stuff am not concerned bout hez work that wen i show concern its outa convinience and am asking to fufil all righteousness. Am tired of this it happens so often lyk evry 2 days.wen he complains i appologise bt it mks matters worse cos he wud say am throwing the sorry at his face, if we finally settle d nxt tym it happens he wud kip bringing up tins in d past and it kud take hours,he wud kip pointing out my rongs d conversation jst neva ends,it gets very boring and annoying . I dnt know what to do am so confused and I love him. Please help
Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:13 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 9-07-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Just try ur possible Best to make him happy or rather please Him always
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
for any relationship to work, the two parties must learn how to communicate tolerate and one another and some sacrifices will have to be made too, show him that you love not by jst saying it but acting it also. love is better shown by doing rather than saying it. Best of luck.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 09:58 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Sit him down and speak out ur mind. If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person. On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him. But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage. The choice is yours, take ur stand
Posted: at 9-07-2012 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
for any relationship to work, the two parties must learn how to communicate tolerate and one another and some sacrifices will have to be made too, show him that you love not by jst saying it but acting it also. love is better shown by doing rather than saying it. Best of luck.
true. in fact this is the best time to show more love to him by doing things he never dreamt of be it in his absent or present. I will pause here cos I dont know the level/extent of your relationship. There is something he is likely hiding from you and if you keep on pampering him, you will surely find a way out in solving your problem
Common sense is indeed not common.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Tnxs a lot guys. every word means so much to me.I'd do wot U̶̲̥̅̊ guys av suggested. After today's argument he said we shud take 3 days off to pray nd tink about our problems, it wud be hard bt we wud try.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:29 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Idbabe on 9-07-2012 10:32 AM
Sit him down and speak out ur mind. If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person. On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him. But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage. The choice is yours, take ur stand
Good one
Live and let live!
Posted: at 9-07-2012 11:41 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Sophyrocks at 9-07-2012 12:15 PM (12 years ago) (f)
4rm wat u jst said,it seems d more u do more 2 please n assure him,d more he nags. Dere r guys dat r lyk dat. Alwys naggin. U guys both hav communicatn probs. He on d oda hand has insecurity issues n he is also d naggin n unappreciative type. He's actin lyk a woman.Sit him down wen he's in a gud mood n tel him exactly hw u feel wen he nags.give him somtym alone bcos he has askd 4 it jst as odas hav said. If tins remain d same,den its obvious u both r nt compatible at all. U got 2 move on wit ur lyf. U cnt kill urself. Uve got only 1 lyf 2 live.Lyf goes on.
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable.
Posted: at 9-07-2012 12:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
4rm wat u jst said,it seems d more u do more 2 please n assure him,d more he nags. Dere r guys dat r lyk dat. Alwys naggin. U guys both hav communicatn probs. He on d oda hand has insecurity issues n he is also d naggin n unappreciative type. He's actin lyk a woman.Sit him down wen he's in a gud mood n tel him exactly hw u feel wen he nags.give him somtym alone bcos he has askd 4 it jst as odas hav said. If tins remain d same,den its obvious u both r nt compatible at all. U got 2 move on wit ur lyf. U cnt kill urself. Uve got only 1 lyf 2 live.Lyf goes on.
RIGHT POINT YOU SAID
Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:40 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Sit him down and speak out ur mind. If he does not change then give him chance for some months, if he comes back he must hv been a changed person. On your own part work on every areas u think could offend him. But if every area is taken k of and he still never change, i would rada advice u walk out, a broken courtship they say, its beta than a broken marriage. The choice is yours, take ur stand
YOU SOUND TO BE A GOOD WIFE MATERIAL !!! WELL SAID OF YOU
Posted: at 9-07-2012 01:51 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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