i met him like 2 years ago it was almost like a novel , i was tellin my mum the kind of man i wanted wen he walked in, we statred as friends and soon desided to go further, i had fallen in love with him , he didnt come from a rich home so often wen we were in school he would complain and i wouldnt mind givin him some of my pocket money. i did the callin he didnt think calling was a sign of love and he would complain that he would prefer i go over to his place than call him. but i know how attected we were to each other so i would always prefer calling him. we broke up 5 months back but 2 weeks back all the feelings i thought had died came rushing in when i saw him, the followin day when i saw him with anoda girl it took me the grace of God to hold my self and avoid him, i pretended i didnt see him.he says i should be patient with him does anyone think we have a future,pls i nid help and i nid it now!!!!!!
Posted: at 2-05-2009 05:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 2-05-2009 08:30 PM (15 years ago) (f)
if its meant to be...it will be......
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 2-05-2009 08:30 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i met him like 2 years ago it was almost like a novel , i was tellin my mum the kind of man i wanted wen he walked in, we statred as friends and soon desided to go further, i had fallen in love with him , he didnt come from a rich home so often wen we were in school he would complain and i wouldnt mind givin him some of my pocket money. i did the callin he didnt think calling was a sign of love and he would complain that he would prefer i go over to his place than call him. but i know how attected we were to each other so i would always prefer calling him. we broke up 5 months back but 2 weeks back all the feelings i thought had died came rushing in when i saw him, the followin day when i saw him with anoda girl it took me the grace of God to hold my self and avoid him, i pretended i didnt see him.he says i should be patient with him does anyone think we have a future,pls i nid help and i nid it now!!!!!!
Yeah it's love. My dear U r suffered a relapse. It took me over a year to get over my ex. It didnt take her 5months to hook up with some other guy. ALl things work together for the good of those that love the Lord. Take heart ehn, Just give Urself time. U will heal and find someone better (as much as that looks like an overated impossiblity for now)
Posted: at 5-05-2009 08:09 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
All of U people saying if its meant to be it will be, what kind of talk is that. If it were meant to be in all the wholeness it had both parties would have made it be. U want the girl to put her life on old while the guy goes-a-rocking? So lemme see, when (if) he comes back, and they get back together do u think she'l still be as into him as she was initially? Trust has been breached and the window of repentance and healing is passing. Not to mention that within this window, the focusless guy is parambulating and telling her things that imply he has little regard for her worth. Anyway sha, chic, na U get Ur life. Pray for the best and expect it. even if he's the one... No forget say una never marry o, so nothing join like say it must be him.
Posted: at 5-05-2009 08:14 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
All of U people saying if its meant to be it will be, what kind of talk is that. If it were meant to be in all the wholeness it had both parties would have made it be. U want the girl to put her life on old while the guy goes-a-rocking? So lemme see, when (if) he comes back, and they get back together do u think she'l still be as into him as she was initially? Trust has been breached and the window of repentance and healing is passing. Not to mention that within this window, the focusless guy is parambulating and telling her things that imply he has little regard for her worth. Anyway sha, chic, na U get Ur life. Pray for the best and expect it. even if he's the one... No forget say una never marry o, so nothing join like say it must be him.
Old Boy! na waa 4 u! How come u crucify this guy as if the poster is ur sister or u want to be the next? Afterall two of u are suffering this same heartbreak.
This poster did not give details of why the broke! C'mon get some reasoning man! you dont say a man is focusless and parabulating just because he quits a r/ship and is getting on with another. How long is a person gonna wait b/4 starting a new relationship.
The important thing is that life must go on and what will be will be! chikina!
@poster pls my sis, move on with ur live and if u find ochendu worthy, hook up. he seem to know how it feels when a heart is broken
Posted: at 5-05-2009 08:44 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
All of U people saying if its meant to be it will be, what kind of talk is that. If it were meant to be in all the wholeness it had both parties would have made it be. U want the girl to put her life on old while the guy goes-a-rocking? So lemme see, when (if) he comes back, and they get back together do u think she'l still be as into him as she was initially? Trust has been breached and the window of repentance and healing is passing. Not to mention that within this window, the focusless guy is parambulating and telling her things that imply he has little regard for her worth. Anyway sha, chic, na U get Ur life. Pray for the best and expect it. even if he's the one... No forget say una never marry o, so nothing join like say it must be him.
Old Boy! na waa 4 u! How come u crucify this guy as if the poster is ur sister or u want to be the next? Afterall two of u are suffering this same heartbreak.
This poster did not give details of why the broke! C'mon get some reasoning man! you dont say a man is focusless and parabulating just because he quits a r/ship and is getting on with another. How long is a person gonna wait b/4 starting a new relationship.
The important thing is that life must go on and what will be will be! chikina!
@poster pls my sis, move on with ur live and if u find ochendu worthy, hook up. he seem to know how it feels when a heart is broken
Sanu Mallam. U were making sense at first, but U kinda derailed and started sounding as emotionally charged as I did. It seems U want some form of popularity here and will say what U feel like to get it? Hmmmm.
Don't diss me next time cos Ur opinion differs from mine okay. U won't like me pissed!
It's not chikina U northern illiterate. It's shikainan!
Posted: at 5-05-2009 09:12 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
All of U people saying if its meant to be it will be, what kind of talk is that. If it were meant to be in all the wholeness it had both parties would have made it be. U want the girl to put her life on old while the guy goes-a-rocking? So lemme see, when (if) he comes back, and they get back together do u think she'l still be as into him as she was initially? Trust has been breached and the window of repentance and healing is passing. Not to mention that within this window, the focusless guy is parambulating and telling her things that imply he has little regard for her worth. Anyway sha, chic, na U get Ur life. Pray for the best and expect it. even if he's the one... No forget say una never marry o, so nothing join like say it must be him.
Old Boy! na waa 4 u! How come u crucify this guy as if the poster is ur sister or u want to be the next? Afterall two of u are suffering this same heartbreak.
This poster did not give details of why the broke! C'mon get some reasoning man! you dont say a man is focusless and parabulating just because he quits a r/ship and is getting on with another. How long is a person gonna wait b/4 starting a new relationship.
The important thing is that life must go on and what will be will be! chikina!
@poster pls my sis, move on with ur live and if u find ochendu worthy, hook up. he seem to know how it feels when a heart is broken
Sanu Mallam. U were making sense at first, but U kinda derailed and started sounding as emotionally charged as I did. It seems U want some form of popularity here and will say what U feel like to get it? Hmmmm.
Don't diss me next time cos Ur opinion differs from mine okay. U won't like me pissed!
It's not chikina U northern illiterate. It's shikainan!
Do i need popularity? Huh! literate ibo man!
Posted: at 5-05-2009 09:18 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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