How do I tell my fiancé that am now interested in marrying his dad and not him.
Am 28years old and I've been dating my fiancé for 3years now,we met on my 25th birthday celebration,he' s a cool and nice guy,two months into our relationship,he invited me to his place,he stays with his parents since he's the only child and he's from a wealthy home. When I got to his place, he introduced me to his dad,his dad is one of those charming old man you could ever see,he's looking so young in his 50's and own chains of businesses. I became attracted to him on the spot,he asked me couple of questions and he seems nice just like my fiancé. Our relationship was going on fine that I had to spend the weekends at his place most times,the familiarity between me and his dad grew that he now calls me his daughter,I loved it tho because it gives me that sence of belonging. One day he came in when I was about leaving so I told him am leaving already that its been long I came,he asked me to stay a bit more and I said no that I just have to catch up on something,he went into his room and came out handed me a bundle of 100,000 ,I was confused,I asked him what the money was meant for and he replied for your up keep,I thanked him and left,2days later I got a call from him asking me to see him at his office,I went, on seeing him he started talking complaining about women and how he feels am a nice person,I was stuned I said sir but am getting married to your son soon,he was like its not a problem,he then asked for my bank acct which I gave to him,after our discussion I left,later that day I got an alert that my acct has been credited with 500k,almost at that same moment,he called asking if I got any alert,I was so happy I thanked him and he fixed a meeting for us to see that night,this was how I started dating my fiancés dad,we kept it secret till we started having sex and I took in for him,this man actually wants me to keep the baby on the grounds that he has been looking for another child all this while,I insisted on getting rid of it and he threatened legal actions I was scared of that so I couldn't go further with getting rid of the pregnancy,he then gave me 1m to start preparing for the baby's things and for my check up too. My fiancé don't know am pregnant reason is this his dad proposed to marry me as his second wife,which I accepted since am now carrying his baby,I think i love him he takes care of me more than my fiance,but my fear is this how do I tell my fiancé about this whole thing that am no longer interested in marrying him.I think I prefer marrying his dad since he seem more matured and am carrying his baby. I know this will create serious tension in their family but i don't think I love him anymore like I use to,his dad don't feel they will be any problem telling him and his mum,but again am scared because I know I've betrayed him but just can't marry him.
Help me out on this,how do I go about it.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-02-2013 03:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Kingjafe at 19-02-2013 04:19 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Well done
Posted: at 19-02-2013 04:19 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Asewo oloju kokoro, sleep with father and soon, what kind of advice u need, ?my advice to u is to look for senior of ur fiance and sleep with too.basterd.
Posted: at 19-02-2013 04:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Treasure2 at 19-02-2013 04:52 PM (12 years ago) (f)
When your account was being credited, did you ask for my advice? Why ask now since you know it all. Marry the man and enlarge his family for him. When men count census, you will be added among the number.....Onye eberibe.
Posted: at 19-02-2013 04:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 19-02-2013 04:59 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 19-02-2013 04:52 PM
When your account was being credited, did you ask for my advice? Why ask now since you know it all. Marry the man and enlarge his family for him. When men count census, you will be added among the number.....Onye eberibe.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-02-2013 04:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
giftmurphy at 19-02-2013 05:18 PM (12 years ago) (f)
a round of a plus ....u didnt know ur fiance wasnt really carin untill the dAd blinded ur ojukokoro eyez with money huh? :(who knos?the man might be testin you nd u failed woffly n as a nice man he did not throw u away but makin u his second wife but mind u na d first wife hold marriage...
Posted: at 19-02-2013 05:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
am sorry to say this but u are a very stupid girl,i have 1 word 4 u.SORRY:if u tink u will eva have peace in dat family----u lie i mean about stupidty(iberibe)
Posted: at 19-02-2013 06:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 20-02-2013 11:38 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ela214 on 19-02-2013 06:18 PM
am sorry to say this but u are a very stupid girl,i have 1 word 4 u.SORRY:if u tink u will eva have peace in dat family----u lie i mean about stupidty(iberibe)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 20-02-2013 11:38 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Pretty2ky at 13-06-2013 03:23 PM (11 years ago) (f)
my dear, to be very honest with u: u are a ''big disgrace'' to womanhood. Poor boy! I feel for him. Can he ever truly luv and trust any gurl again? May God console him!
Posted: at 13-06-2013 03:23 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie