Guys, Never Say These Things to Overweight Ladies 28 October, 2013 Life and St

Guys, Never Say These Things to Overweight LadiesA shocking number of people think that it's acceptable to comment on women's bodies – curvy, skinny, short and tall alike. However, women who fall outside of the thin “ideal” face a specific type of weight discrimination. The comments often directed at these women make it glaringly clear that fat stigma is (sadly) still alive and well.

The term “plus-size” itself is a point of contention for many women. Obviously no one should be singled out for their body size, or treated differently because of their weight. But the fact remains that strangers, friends, family members and colleagues often feel empowered to comment on a woman's size, especially when that size is not petite.

Here are some of the comments you should avoid saying to a woman who isn't rail-thin:
"You have such a pretty face."

"You should wear black."

"You're a big girl."

"Have you ever thought about lap band surgery?"

"I don't have a problem with bigger girls."

"You're big-boned, that's all."

"If you ate less, you'd lose the weight."

"What happened?"

"I wish I enjoyed food like you."

"Don't worry, I like thick girls."

"Have you ever tried losing weight?"

"You shouldn't eat that."

"You look fine the way you are."

"You shouldn't eat that."

"Did you gain weight because you're afraid of attracting men?"

"You'd be so pretty if you lost weight."

"When are you due?"

"My friend lost so much weight on this great diet."

"If you slimmed down, you'd be really sexy."

"Have you checked your cholesterol recently?"

"You should try to be healthier."

"You shouldn't wear stripes/polka dots/floral prints."

"You'd be dateable if you lost weight."

What do you think about these remarks? Can you add some more the list?
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Posted: at 28-10-2013 11:20 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Arrgh... Nt my biznes!

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Posted: at 28-10-2013 12:13 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

noted

Posted: at 28-10-2013 03:21 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmmm

Posted: at 28-10-2013 03:24 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You've said it all

Posted: at 28-10-2013 03:42 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i see>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Overweight ladies love to bang hot guys ..  una weldone

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Posted: at 28-10-2013 04:23 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Let me add a few more, you are not ugly; I like you; I love you; I like the way you walk....Hell am confused I just realized anything you say at all will be deemed inappropriate lol

Posted: at 28-10-2013 04:34 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

AGIDIGBI things       

Posted: at 28-10-2013 04:45 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

hia!

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Posted: at 28-10-2013 05:12 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 28-10-2013 05:38 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac