Being single and free.

Date: 18-06-2008 7:29 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Longy chyke
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- at 18-06-2008 07:29 PM (14 years ago)
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It is gradually becoming a trend to find young men and women in their early thirties to late forties being single. Of course, there's no crime in it but being single after one or two issues is where the problem lies. Both sexes as a result of ugly experiences from thier strained relationship turn blind eyes to prospective suitors with genuine intentions.Women especially bears the brunt as they have to contend with child rearing,domestic chores,office resposibilities and stigmatisation.Kudos should however be given to them unlike their male counter-part which could be easier to handle as girlfriends,the man's parents if still alive or close relations could be of help at this crucial time.(It's a man's world,they would say)!
Come to think of it, how long could they really be single and free?Don't you think it's high time they opened up and give love a second chance? Besides,both holy books are of the opinion that man and woman should live together as one body or what do think? 

Posted: at 18-06-2008 07:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- shark01 at 18-06-2008 07:56 PM (14 years ago)
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this article should be on Google homepage or a national tabloid for everyone to see Wink
Posted: at 18-06-2008 07:56 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 19-06-2008 10:35 AM (14 years ago)
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becoz the men and women of today rather achieve their goals in life....

Posted: at 19-06-2008 10:35 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lucychizzy at 19-06-2008 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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you are so right.
Posted: at 19-06-2008 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ayusbobo at 19-06-2008 02:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Ladies, be on the watch. Don't mistake your 'Husband' for 'Boy-friend' n u guys, u need to brase up, get encouraged and be careful not to take your 'Wife' for a 'Girl-friend'. He who have an ear...
Posted: at 19-06-2008 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 19-06-2008 04:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: longy on 18-06-2008 07:29 PM
It is gradually becoming a trend to find young men and women in their early thirties to late forties being single. Of course, there's no crime in it but being single after one or two issues is where the problem lies. Both sexes as a result of ugly experiences from thier strained relationship turn blind eyes to prospective suitors with genuine intentions.Women especially bears the brunt as they have to contend with child rearing,domestic chores,office resposibilities and stigmatisation.Kudos should however be given to them unlike their male counter-part which could be easier to handle as girlfriends,the man's parents if still alive or close relations could be of help at this crucial time.(It's a man's world,they would say)!
Come to think of it, how long could they really be single and free?Don't you think it's high time they opened up and give love a second chance? Besides,both holy books are of the opinion that man and woman should live together as one body or what do think? 


blah blah blah blah.. Grin Grin Grin Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 19-06-2008 04:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pimpinella at 19-06-2008 04:27 PM (14 years ago)
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ya they should live together.. but what if its not possible bec beeing alone makes somebody to be a egoist?from my own side after two stranded relationships i dont wanna start from the beginning again i mean it takes a lot of power what u have to invest in a relationship,... and i dont wanna throw my power away again,...  Lips Sealed

Posted: at 19-06-2008 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lucychizzy at 19-06-2008 05:19 PM (14 years ago)
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ok ma'am
Posted: at 19-06-2008 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- naijainct at 19-06-2008 09:41 PM (14 years ago)
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There's nothing wrong in being single U can be single and be extremely happy. I like being single so regardless of what the bible or the quran says about union I'm gonna remain single.
Posted: at 19-06-2008 09:41 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Oluwatoyin001 at 19-06-2008 09:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: naijainct on 19-06-2008 09:41 PM
There's nothing wrong in being single U can be single and be extremely happy. I like being single so regardless of what the bible or the quran says about union I'm gonna remain single.

Good for you. St. paul in the Bible was single. Being single gives u alot of freedom but it can be pretty lonely atimes.
Posted: at 19-06-2008 09:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 20-06-2008 08:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: naijainct on 19-06-2008 09:41 PM
There's nothing wrong in being single U can be single and be extremely happy. I like being single so regardless of what the bible or the quran says about union I'm gonna remain single.


but u can have lot of friends with benefits.....? Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-06-2008 08:53 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 22-06-2008 02:14 PM (14 years ago)
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being single is quite fun.
Posted: at 22-06-2008 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Vixenx at 22-06-2008 08:07 PM (14 years ago)
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It's fun for some and not for others. If you're someone who likes to be intimate alot, not mainly talking about sex...likes to cuddle and romantic. Then being single is going to be tough for them.
Posted: at 22-06-2008 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 23-06-2008 07:41 AM (14 years ago)
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enjoy being single and free while it last....

Posted: at 23-06-2008 07:41 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 23-06-2008 01:44 PM (14 years ago)
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cuz once you're hooked up?....u gon on be on locked down..lol
Posted: at 23-06-2008 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vinababy at 23-06-2008 02:50 PM (14 years ago)
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hi
anyone interested in chatting
i'm waiting
Posted: at 23-06-2008 02:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 23-06-2008 02:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 22-06-2008 08:07 PM
It's fun for some and not for others. If you're someone who likes to be intimate alot, not mainly talking about sex...likes to cuddle and romantic. Then being single is going to be tough for them.
tht's right.
Posted: at 23-06-2008 02:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Vixenx at 23-06-2008 07:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vinababy on 23-06-2008 02:50 PM
hi
anyone interested in chatting
i'm waiting


join in the conversation.
Posted: at 23-06-2008 07:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lucychizzy at 24-06-2008 04:26 AM (14 years ago)
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what are we doing
if not chatting
join or bounce
Posted: at 24-06-2008 04:26 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 24-06-2008 07:01 AM (14 years ago)
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join me too....i am chatting with my colleagues at the pantry...sipping on coffee...hhhmmmm.....nice....fresh coffee beans straight from Brazil.........ooopppss...oh no....my boss is here...gotta go now..... Grin

Posted: at 24-06-2008 07:01 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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