I Can’t Marry Her Because She Is Too Submissive For My Liking-I Need Advice (Page 2)

Wait till you marry her... you will then see her real colour.... you will be begging for her to be submissive

Posted: at 8-08-2014 09:32 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

DUMP HER AND GET A CAT

Posted: at 9-08-2014 04:01 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U av made some mistakes from d begining; u should av regetted her totally as u had considered her as d "old school" type.
Now that she has spent 4 good years in ur house it will be a big blow to her if u do anything funny at dis moment

If i were u, i mean if am in ur Position d  one dat is carry ur baby is going to be Baby mama due to d fact dat u can't stand it to look at ur parents
And apologize to ur wife at home

Posted: at 9-08-2014 09:43 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 9-08-2014 09:48 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

bro submissive  at all level is not good.
I have a wife who agures everthing i say but at the end ,i learnt a lot from her

Posted: at 9-08-2014 10:19 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Man dose not leave by bread alone,but also  from every word of God.
A man cant leave only by submission,but also by an advise from his wife .i tell u the truth try it and see

Posted: at 9-08-2014 10:26 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Honestly speaking, one can make a good decision for their married life and still respect their parents.  Always listen to parents sound advice but remain truthful to yourself.  A husband and wife are to be submissive to one another but I have seen the type of submission you might be referring to and it is not healthy.  One does not really know or trust who the person really is, where they stand, etc.  Maybe you are the one to help her find herself without bending and shaping to be what and where others want, etc. It is not good to enter into a marriage with a double-mind.  Some people can live a fake life, worse a fake married life but others just cannot do it.  You have been with her four years now but if she wasn't for you, you should have let her go long before now-so the one that is for her can find her.  Now, you have also impregnated another girl...and this one new you were engaged to marry another, yes?  It's not a good situation.   Pray to God and ask him to forgive you for leading the two ladies on and for whatever else is brought to your mind/heart.  Then, ask God how you should go forward in handling this situation for the best outcome, which is the best for you and the best for all involved. 

Posted: at 9-08-2014 07:15 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming

Are you thinking of marriage while in your father's house?

You hate submissive women or because of your hidden agenda?

bros. grow up...  some kind gist no suppose come this platform at all.

Posted: at 28-08-2014 05:08 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming