this has happened to so many guys although am also a victim of circumstances, what will you do if you found out that your best friend is having an affair with you finace. though is a common thing now adays but what would you do if it happens to you.
Posted: at 25-08-2007 08:36 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 26-08-2007 05:40 AM (17 years ago) (f)
yuP...dGuy is RigHT....i Would diSoWn tHem tOO...iMaGinE uR BeStFrieNd dOing tHat tO u....fOr mE I trEAsuRE My BesTFrieNdS vERY weLL...But befOrE LeaVing ThEm,i WiLL deFiNiteLy waNt to KNoW THe reASoNs oF thiS SituAtioN....I wAnT to KnoW thEir FeeLinGs ON thiS and Why ThEy Did ThaT AnD SinCE wHen it sTArTEd...i nEeD to KnoW aLL thesE sO that I wiLL be mOre aLeRt FoR My NeXt reLAtioNSHip....
I don't think going after the friend's fiancee makes anything better, just thank god that you found out about it because obviously he's not the man for you and she wasn't your friend to begin with..Wish them luck because what goes around comes around..She'll get hers one day and him too..
Posted: at 2-09-2007 10:40 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
democrazy at 4-09-2007 08:44 AM (17 years ago) (m)
You will see your bestfriend almost every week. Same as you will see your fiancee kinda everyday. My advice is that all 3 of you will come into contact regularly with this setup of relationship. So you may experience continous pain, heart ache, and deceit.
My silly advise is that you pack her bags and move her into your best friends house. Tell both of them how good they will be together. and how you will support their relationship as he has supported yours.
Now he is the one with the fiancee and you are the one sleeping with your bestfriends fiancee/gf..
Posted: at 4-09-2007 08:44 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
She is not the girl for u!! i agree with vixen partly and herre. it is a lesson learned and you should walk away from the situation wiser and stronger than when you entered. REVENGE IS NOT THE ANSWER, vengence is for lord, what goes around comes around and their relationship is doomed anyway as it is not built on pure and virtuous foundations. if knowing that doesnt console you- then only God knows what will!!!. Good luck and God bless.xxx
Posted: at 30-10-2007 11:37 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie