Emotional and Financial Drain in Relationships

Date: 08-02-2010 3:21 pm (15 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- at 8-02-2010 03:21 PM (15 years ago)
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Have you ever been emotionally or financially drained by your one time girl / boy friend or prospect partner, maybe at the expense of love or convinction or marriage! I have heard few people complained about suffering from emotional drain while in love with their lovers. Please share with us u'r experience if U had become a victim, otherwise U can say what u think about it, if it eventually happened to u or u'r friend in future. Anyway it will be more educative for NP people to know what are its exit or recovery strategies or better how to avoid it. Thanx / Danke for your contributions.

Posted: at 8-02-2010 03:21 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- humblej at 8-02-2010 03:26 PM (15 years ago)
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hahaha, for me I have not had such experience, but all i know is that, it does not worth it for both the victim and victimizer!
Posted: at 8-02-2010 03:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2010 03:34 PM (15 years ago)
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But it does happen atimes to many people. one way or the other.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 03:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 03:36 PM (15 years ago)
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Lol, i don't know, i have been emotionally drained but never financially,lol.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 03:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 8-02-2010 03:53 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 03:36 PM
Lol, i don't know, i have been emotionally drained but never financially,lol.
hello sis, so what was the recovery strategy like?
Posted: at 8-02-2010 03:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 04:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on  8-02-2010 03:53 PM
Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 03:36 PM
Lol, i don't know, i have been emotionally drained but never financially,lol.
hello sis, so what was the recovery strategy like?
Well mine was actually quite funny,when i look back now, once i figured out dude was no good, i got over him pretty quickly.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 8-02-2010 04:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Drained? Nah... Don't remember any drains cos I keep myself properly motivated & enthusiastic.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 8-02-2010 04:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:06 PM
Quote from: humblej on  8-02-2010 03:53 PM
Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 03:36 PM
Lol, i don't know, i have been emotionally drained but never financially,lol.
hello sis, so what was the recovery strategy like?
Well mine was actually quite funny,when i look back now, once i figured out dude was no good, i got over him pretty quickly.
awesome, that was really a good and wise decision U had taken!
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 8-02-2010 04:17 PM (15 years ago)
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hhhmmm...thank God i've not.....
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:17 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 04:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  8-02-2010 04:10 PM
Drained? Nah... Don't remember any drains cos I keep myself properly motivated & enthusiastic.
Really?? This dude attached a hose to my heart and drained it any human emotion,lol.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 8-02-2010 04:31 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:22 PM
Quote from: onchedu on  8-02-2010 04:10 PM
Drained? Nah... Don't remember any drains cos I keep myself properly motivated & enthusiastic.
Really?? This dude attached a hose to my heart and drained it any human emotion,lol.
lol, that was a complete emotional drained experience u had....
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:31 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2010 04:33 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmm, thats serious then, something must have been too much connected or should i said u got addicted of, that make his hose to drain you that much.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 04:36 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2010 04:33 PM
hmmm, thats serious then, something must have been too much connected or should i said u got addicted of, that make his hose to drain you that much.
oh, yeah it was bad, but i ended up giving him a goodbye gift too.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 8-02-2010 04:45 PM (15 years ago)
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That dude was MEAN!!! Or U were ill matched, therefore u had no chance to satisfy his neediness?
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:45 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 8-02-2010 04:48 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:36 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2010 04:33 PM
hmmm, thats serious then, something must have been too much connected or should i said u got addicted of, that make his hose to drain you that much.
oh, yeah it was bad, but i ended up giving him a goodbye gift too.
Lol, imagine such an unlucky guy who thought drainning U emotionally had made me achieved something where-as he ended up being a failure
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:48 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on  8-02-2010 04:45 PM
That dude was MEAN!!! Or U were ill matched, therefore u had no chance to satisfy his neediness?
it was more like ill matched, i was young and dumb, and i still had cinderella dreams and happily ever after in my head and he totally took advantage.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 8-02-2010 04:56 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on  8-02-2010 04:48 PM
Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:36 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2010 04:33 PM
hmmm, thats serious then, something must have been too much connected or should i said u got addicted of, that make his hose to drain you that much.
oh, yeah it was bad, but i ended up giving him a goodbye gift too.
Lol, imagine such an unlucky guy who thought drainning U emotionally had made me achieved something where-as he ended up being a failure
lol, i baked him a brownie with chocolax, thats like the single meanest thing i have ever done and i totally enjoyed every minute of it.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 8-02-2010 05:11 PM (15 years ago)
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To me that wasn't mean, rather he deserved what he got from U, it really served him right!
Posted: at 8-02-2010 05:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-02-2010 06:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:56 PM
Quote from: humblej on  8-02-2010 04:48 PM
Quote from: temi07 on  8-02-2010 04:36 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-02-2010 04:33 PM
hmmm, thats serious then, something must have been too much connected or should i said u got addicted of, that make his hose to drain you that much.
oh, yeah it was bad, but i ended up giving him a goodbye gift too.
Lol, imagine such an unlucky guy who thought drainning U emotionally had made me achieved something where-as he ended up being a failure
lol, i baked him a brownie with chocolax, thats like the single meanest thing i have ever done and i totally enjoyed every minute of it.

hmmm. thats serious one. well he got what he deserve.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 06:22 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 8-02-2010 06:34 PM (15 years ago)
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Emotions emotions and more emotions.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 06:34 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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