Why I killed my ex-girlfriend, by jilted lover

Date: 16-09-2007 5:51 pm (16 years ago) | Author: herre
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- at 16-09-2007 05:51 PM (16 years ago)
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The jilted lover boy, who stabbed his girlfriend to death on Monday after she walked out on him, has revealed his reason for killing the love of his life.

Edafe Thomas, 25, who also stabbed himself and is on admission in hospital in Lagos, told Daily Sun that he was only living up to the oath he and the late Stella Bob Manuel, 21, took.
He said: "We exchanged rings. We promised each other that we would never part. We agreed that if we parted, we would die together."

Trouble started when Stella changed her mind about the relationship. Thomas had tried to make her retrace her steps but to no avail. He decided to kill her and kill himself.
He said: "I tried to remind her about our promise to each other but she wouldn’t listen. Her mother hates me and made her to change her mind. I came with the knife. I stabbed her and stabbed myself. I stabbed myself three times. I wanted the two of us to die like we agreed. If she leaves me, what am I living for?"

Police revealed that Thomas threatened Stella for three days before he killed her on Monday afternoon.
Thomas recalled how he had warned Stella not to hurt him the first time she walked out on him.
"We dated for two years. The first time she left and came back, I warned her to leave me and not hurt me. She promised not to hurt me again, but went against her words," he said.

Christal Bob-Manuel, who witnessed the munder of her sister, Stella, recounted the incident: "We were about to eat. He was standing near the dining table. I left them and went to the kitchen. I heard a sound like something had fallen. I rushed out. I saw him on Stella. She was not screaming but was struggling. I saw his hand going up and down. I didn’t know he was stabbing her until I saw blood. I ran to the balcony and screamed." Christal revealed that Thomas stabbed Stella from her head to her toes, missing not an inch of her body.

Thomas, who said life was not worth living if Stella jilted him, told Daily Sun that he had also attempted to commit suicide at the hospital where he is receiving treatment.
He had taken off all the covering on his wounds and watched himself bleed. He revealed that his aim was to bleed to death.

While insisting that he loved Stella more than life itself, Thomas recollected that he had spent everything, including his life savings on the girl.
According to him, he dropped out of school for the late Stella, abandoned traveling overseas with his uncle for her, failed series of exams because of her and had once stolen his poor farmer father’s N350,000 just to make her happy.

After two pregnancies, with one being aborted by Stella and the second lost through a miscarriage, Thomas felt he and Stella had come a long way.
He said: "I am not afraid of what would happen to me today. Let them execute me today and stop being judgmental of me. I am ready!"
The lovers both went to University of Ilorin for a preliminary course programme, which they both failed. But rather than go back home, they stayed back in Ilorin, with their parents believing their children were in school.

Thomas dismissed questions that he could be insane or under drug influence, explaining that he neither smokes nor drinks and was clear minded of what he wanted to do that day when he arrived Stella’s home with the knife and a pack of her pictures in his pocket.

Posted: at 16-09-2007 05:51 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- odehg at 19-09-2007 08:48 AM (16 years ago)
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Strange world...strange people...strange things...weird love!! Grin
Posted: at 19-09-2007 08:48 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kutey at 20-09-2007 01:03 AM (16 years ago)
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wow. people are just plain crazy and strange.
Posted: at 20-09-2007 01:03 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Vixenx at 21-09-2007 01:52 AM (16 years ago)
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yeah I guess when a relationship is going downhill..and the other partner is finding it hard to let go..The best advice is wait til they're gone..pack your belongings and relocate to another location..change your identity..work..school..surroundings..and appearrance...my goodness..all these just to spare your life!!!..it's crazy.
Posted: at 21-09-2007 01:52 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- freda at 9-02-2008 11:16 PM (16 years ago)
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bad guy, he should go to jail and rot for all i care.
Posted: at 9-02-2008 11:16 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 11:26 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 21-09-2007 01:52 AM
yeah I guess when a relationship is going downhill..and the other partner is finding it hard to let go..The best advice is wait til they're gone..pack your belongings and relocate to another location..change your identity..work..school..surroundings..and appearrance...my goodness..all these just to spare your life!!!..it's crazy.

very crazy, and the problem is that we expect too much from a relationship while we give less

Posted: at 9-02-2008 11:26 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- damien2 at 10-02-2008 12:25 AM (16 years ago)
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well this is terrible................ but what about a guy who went on rampage and killed to patrolling soldiers because his girlfriend whom he had being dating for ten years left him.... what does  two young soldiers who probably dont know if the man exists or give a damn if he did ..got to do with his relationship??
Posted: at 10-02-2008 12:25 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Thonia at 10-02-2008 05:04 PM (16 years ago)
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thats too bad. see as the girl life just waste like that. when would people learn never ever take an oath especially when it comes to relationships.
Posted: at 10-02-2008 05:04 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 11-02-2008 05:22 AM (16 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad
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- myragonza at 12-02-2008 01:46 PM (16 years ago)
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 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided

Posted: at 12-02-2008 01:46 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 12-02-2008 04:05 PM (16 years ago)
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 :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Posted: at 12-02-2008 04:05 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- JUMPER at 30-07-2008 12:41 AM (15 years ago)
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The height of madness......... Sad Sad Sad Sad
Posted: at 30-07-2008 12:41 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 30-07-2008 12:58 AM (15 years ago)
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yup..and it is still going on today...
Posted: at 30-07-2008 12:58 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- darkocean002 at 30-07-2008 01:47 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: herre on 16-09-2007 05:51 PM
The jilted lover boy, who stabbed his girlfriend to death on Monday after she walked out on him, has revealed his reason for killing the love of his life.

Edafe Thomas, 25, who also stabbed himself and is on admission in hospital in Lagos, told Daily Sun that he was only living up to the oath he and the late Stella Bob Manuel, 21, took.
He said: "We exchanged rings. We promised each other that we would never part. We agreed that if we parted, we would die together."

Trouble started when Stella changed her mind about the relationship. Thomas had tried to make her retrace her steps but to no avail. He decided to kill her and kill himself.
He said: "I tried to remind her about our promise to each other but she wouldn’t listen. Her mother hates me and made her to change her mind. I came with the knife. I stabbed her and stabbed myself. I stabbed myself three times. I wanted the two of us to die like we agreed. If she leaves me, what am I living for?"

Police revealed that Thomas threatened Stella for three days before he killed her on Monday afternoon.
Thomas recalled how he had warned Stella not to hurt him the first time she walked out on him.
"We dated for two years. The first time she left and came back, I warned her to leave me and not hurt me. She promised not to hurt me again, but went against her words," he said.

Christal Bob-Manuel, who witnessed the munder of her sister, Stella, recounted the incident: "We were about to eat. He was standing near the dining table. I left them and went to the kitchen. I heard a sound like something had fallen. I rushed out. I saw him on Stella. She was not screaming but was struggling. I saw his hand going up and down. I didn’t know he was stabbing her until I saw blood. I ran to the balcony and screamed." Christal revealed that Thomas stabbed Stella from her head to her toes, missing not an inch of her body.

Thomas, who said life was not worth living if Stella jilted him, told Daily Sun that he had also attempted to commit suicide at the hospital where he is receiving treatment.
He had taken off all the covering on his wounds and watched himself bleed. He revealed that his aim was to bleed to death.

While insisting that he loved Stella more than life itself, Thomas recollected that he had spent everything, including his life savings on the girl.
According to him, he dropped out of school for the late Stella, abandoned traveling overseas with his uncle for her, failed series of exams because of her and had once stolen his poor farmer father’s N350,000 just to make her happy.

After two pregnancies, with one being aborted by Stella and the second lost through a miscarriage, Thomas felt he and Stella had come a long way.
He said: "I am not afraid of what would happen to me today. Let them execute me today and stop being judgmental of me. I am ready!"
The lovers both went to University of Ilorin for a preliminary course programme, which they both failed. But rather than go back home, they stayed back in Ilorin, with their parents believing their children were in school.

Thomas dismissed questions that he could be insane or under drug influence, explaining that he neither smokes nor drinks and was clear minded of what he wanted to do that day when he arrived Stella’s home with the knife and a pack of her pictures in his pocket.


He shld Rot in the most secured prison............. even still chain is bones after death
Posted: at 30-07-2008 01:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chakamaroon at 9-06-2011 04:16 PM (12 years ago)
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At instances like this most people would want to think that the lover stabber (thomas edafe) or whatever he is called
 was so in love with the deseased.Or maybe he was acting under oath..I don't believe either of this...
What i know considering the information in the post is that the lover killer may have felt used,
jilted, decieved 'n' possibly at the verge of being dumped b/4 the only human ingredient left in him,
which is (pride) propelled him into the silly action he has taken.This should serve as a lesson to others
who think that the only way out in a relationship is oath taking or even verbal professions of becoming
one body 'n' soul no matter the situations they find themselves,,, lets take note too that ,BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT IMPLY BEING GLUED 2GETHER,
NOR DOES EVERY RELATIONSHIP HAVE TO END IN MARRIAGE..........am off... my aunty just called me.
Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 9-06-2011 04:17 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm

Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:17 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 9-06-2011 04:23 PM (12 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:23 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- deboalabi262 at 9-06-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Crazy Love ehhh

Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 9-06-2011 04:29 PM (12 years ago)
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passing n' jilting Cool

Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 123Sonia at 9-06-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago)
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A THING OF THE HEART IS MEANT FOR TWO MATURED MINDS AND NOT FOR BOYS AND GIRLS. AGE DOES NOT MATTER
Posted: at 9-06-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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