Why do women Nag (Page 6)

Date: 10-05-2010 10:12 am (15 years ago) | Author: Onche
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- ebony_cutie at 11-05-2010 03:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 03:51 PM
hahahahahahhaha............ i no been hold her oh!..... shey i been tell u sey na home service she called me for last week.... but I'll be expecting another home service by weekend.... grin grin grin

 Grin Grin yeye dey worry u
Posted: at 11-05-2010 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Festyman at 11-05-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago)
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i aint got time. ask me next time u see.
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 11-05-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sweetrae on 11-05-2010 03:52 PM
i dont nag..i stomp my feet, slam doors nd threaten to hold my breath until i turn blue...Tongue Tongue *jokin'*
for real tho, there r others ways to get ur point across to ur man beside naggin'
women need to wise up!!

Smart! Wink
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 11-05-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 11-05-2010 03:56 PM
Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 03:51 PM
hahahahahahhaha............ i no been hold her oh!..... shey i been tell u sey na home service she called me for last week.... but I'll be expecting another home service by weekend.... grin grin grin

 Grin Grin yeye dey worry u

dis one no be yeye matter....... i must have another home session during the weekend
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 11-05-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 04:40 PM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 11-05-2010 03:56 PM
Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 03:51 PM
hahahahahahhaha............ i no been hold her oh!..... shey i been tell u sey na home service she called me for last week.... but I'll be expecting another home service by weekend.... grin grin grin

 Grin Grin yeye dey worry u

dis one no be yeye matter....... i must have another home session during the weekend



hahahah, no way... we don move house Grin Grin
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 11-05-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago)
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so are u directly refusing ur therapist prescription?
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Miss_precious at 11-05-2010 04:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 03:16 PM
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 10:25 AM
they would always nag.... thats why they are women

me no dey nag you naw Grin Grin
eh i trust u for dat one.......... but no be when i never give u money to buy new weavon or attachment

ehn???no ways..only nag when yu dey always tire for night

Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 11-05-2010 04:59 PM (14 years ago)
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chai!!!!!!!....... but since i don dey use viagra u no dey complain again na
Posted: at 11-05-2010 04:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- j-rules at 11-05-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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interesting topic they know its offensive and you dont like it they do it just to get back at you for something you did or forgot to do. remembering very little of how on so many occasions you make their world spin
Posted: at 11-05-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- erikaakpan at 11-05-2010 06:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 11-05-2010 09:12 AM
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Quote from: onchedu on 10-05-2010 10:12 AM
Now I'm not saying all women do nag, but most I've observed do and it's not just their husbands. They start to nag their kids too at some point and it's like everything they love they struggle to frustrate and push away from themselves.

Nagging is not the same as a corrective observation, it's critical and non-objective. It often comes of as cruel and inconsiderate.

I don't know if there's some biological, psychological or even emotional logic to why a woman would complain about everything and sometimes just not see good things to say nice things about. Is it the pressures of being a wife and a mother and strains from that that finally get to some of them and drive them to perpetual nagging? Is it a hormonal breakdown?

I'd like for those that have answers to share and those that can hypothesize are welcome to do so. I think if we knew we'd be more tolerant an accommodating of the women in our lives or those that will be in our lives. Reasons may vary but I believe we can arrive at a logical summary.

So, what makes women nag?

i really dont know. maybe because we are more sensitive than men and seek for emotional dependence.

Hmmm... that's a strong possibility; But from my observation it does more of alienating those women seek emotional dependence with than granting them what they seek. ever so often it's easier to come across unhappy old women people would prefer to avoid than to draw near too for obvious reasons...

I feel if women could seek an alternative to nagging as a tool for securing the emotional nurturing they crave, we'd live with better ease and harmony.

 u rite onche. i tend not to ask those kinds of question that start wit why cuz there isnt a straight forward answers

Ur right. There isnt a straight forward answer. I'm a lil surprised that u being a woman would ant a straight forward answer in anything. I assumed women generally like passing thru, bushes and jungles, deserts, mountains and valley before they get to the destination. U like window shoppin thru the whole mall before going to get the shoes U came in for in the first place don't U? Or foreplay before sex, or details of what happened in ur loved one's day e.t.c Abi are U a different kind?

lol. nah onche i guess im a different kind cuz i dnt like going to the shopping mall really. only if i already kno wat im gonna get (its definitely not for shoes). and i dnt drive unless i really have somewhere to go...

men are the same way to. everyone has there own way of nagging. men only nag when they are fed of with their wife's behavior(thats only an example)

Posted: at 11-05-2010 06:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 11-05-2010 06:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-05-2010 04:59 PM
chai!!!!!!!....... but since i don dey use viagra u no dey complain again na

so na viagra yu dey use...no wonder yu dey always outshine me

Posted: at 11-05-2010 06:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 11-05-2010 06:22 PM (14 years ago)
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Erika, Yeah some men nag, but not as habitually and not very common to come across them I think...

Good for u if U are not so into window shopping. Proves we're not all the same, guys and guys and girls and girls.
Posted: at 11-05-2010 06:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 11-05-2010 06:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Men differs, just as women differs.. everyone got his/her way of understanding things.. what some Nag abt is what some really love to have... while what some love turns into Nag, fight to others.. is all about Understanding, communication level and how a man lay his relationship foundations.

But to cap it... all women has it in them at least 30% Nag... Pray Guys u dont trigger it to start. Once they start, no going back.. it will turn into daily routine, if u dont control it on time.

Posted: at 11-05-2010 06:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 11-05-2010 07:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-05-2010 06:35 PM
Men differs, just as women differs.. everyone got his/her way of understanding things.. what some Nag abt is what some really love to have... while what some love turns into Nag, fight to others.. is all about Understanding, communication level and how a man lay his relationship foundations.

But to cap it... all women has it in them at least 30% Nag... Pray Guys u dont trigger it to start. Once they start, no going back.. it will turn into daily routine, if u dont control it on time.

Point to ponder.  Undecided
Posted: at 11-05-2010 07:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Bazemaster at 11-05-2010 10:50 PM (14 years ago)
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My girl dey nag now............

Posted: at 11-05-2010 10:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bazemaster at 11-05-2010 10:51 PM (14 years ago)
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My girl dey nag now............

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- ejibond at 12-05-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago)
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out of women uncountable wahala and headeck,na nagging u see pick abi?? u neva start yet cos nagging na just d least of dere wahalas
Posted: at 12-05-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 12-05-2010 03:06 AM (14 years ago)
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For women, nagging is a common way of saying things they could not express or say due to one raeson or the other, it gives them the room to voice out those surpressed anger and actions they felt bad of towards their kids, husbands and boy friends .

Posted: at 12-05-2010 03:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 12-05-2010 03:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Maybe lack of respect,home-training,etiquette,patience...bad influences...hmmm

Posted: at 12-05-2010 03:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- misshelly at 12-05-2010 07:15 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 11-05-2010 02:48 PM
First of all, sleeping around is not a thing to be proud of whether or not U are a man or a woman. it never brought anyman good in the long term. Most times when girls ask this question, what I wonder is "is t that U would like to have the liberty to sleep around and what do u intend to gain from it?

If Nagging is another way of showing people U love them and that Ur love is still there and doing so makes it evident she is thinking about me and the relationship, does she evaluate the responses she gets from me when she nags? Does she check to see how effective her methods are and what feelings the stir in me?

If it is, does it mean some women deliberately nag?
yes, she  do evaluate the responds( a good experiment:when a woman is nagging and u responds to her request positively, watch how greatful she will be to you)

I can't actually give u a rightfull answer to if women nag deliberately, but i can say is a means of get our point accross

Posted: at 12-05-2010 07:15 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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