I was in a relationship with this girl some years back when we were both undergraduates. we were both christains but from different part of the county, while she is from the south south, i was from the middle belt but we loved each other very much. We have been through it all, but still sticked to each others like glue.There was this pressure from both her parents and friens that i might not get married to her since am not from south south.She has confronted me time without number but i assured her that i loved her, and only love is my determining factor for marriage but she seems not to believed me. She graduated before me since i was in engineering. After graduation she called me that she needed to get married and that if i was interested i should do it now. I tried explaining to her that she should allow me graduate but she will rather not listen. She started misbehaving some how. I think during her service year she got her self a guy whom i was told they got married when i was in final year. I graduated,served and now working. Now she no longer allow me rest. she always come crying that i made her married some one she never liked, some one who is not supprting her career, some one who made her a permanent house wife, and that i killed her dreams. Sometime she came to my office and cried on me, i have to give a standing order at the security post not to allow her see me again.This young lady is already married with two kids, How have i killed her dreams and what exactly did she still want from me?
Posted: at 20-06-2010 09:30 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
eagleseyez at 20-06-2010 01:27 PM (14 years ago) (m)
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
Posted: at 20-06-2010 01:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 20-06-2010 01:36 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
u r right, that we shuldnt only think abt marriage, so many other things u can b proud of
Posted: at 20-06-2010 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
eagleseyez at 20-06-2010 01:57 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-06-2010 01:36 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
u r right, that we shuldnt only think abt marriage, so many other things u can b proud of
Exactly baby Every girl has got something in them why not bring it out show the world what u got and every other things will fall in place... Men will only take u serious if he finds smthg unique in U and not when u see him as ur last resort and stick like glue
Fly mamacita, if u got no wings, imma lend u mine
Posted: at 20-06-2010 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 20-06-2010 02:17 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:57 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-06-2010 01:36 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
u r right, that we shuldnt only think abt marriage, so many other things u can b proud of
Exactly baby Every girl has got something in them why not bring it out show the world what u got and every other things will fall in place... Men will only take u serious if he finds smthg unique in U and not when u see him as ur last resort and stick like glue
Fly mamacita, if u got no wings, imma lend u mine
for that u are very right ! No man want a woman to stick on him like a glue, looks like ur her last hope in life.. Also means nothing can be learned from that person, where are ur conversations gonna lead to ? U r very wise
Ok give me ur wings, but dont expect them back
Posted: at 20-06-2010 02:17 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
you are right but a girl can still got marriage and still make her wishes and goals to be reality.that is when she got married to the right person,a guy that will ave her back.what i would advise ladies,is they should be wish when they want to decise who they want to spend the rest of their live with..be wish and be patient.....and dont be too seletive.
to poster,tell not to blame you but herself...
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 20-06-2010 02:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
eagleseyez at 20-06-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 20-06-2010 02:56 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
you are right but a girl can still got marriage and still make her wishes and goals to be reality.that is when she got married to the right person,a guy that will ave her back.what i would advise ladies,is they should be wish when they want to decise who they want to spend the rest of their live with..be wish and be patient.....and dont be too seletive.
to poster,tell not to blame you but herself...
U're right but dnt forget that most men could be very understanding and caring at the first stage of the marriage what if he changes?
Does it hurt to discover first Urself? i mean, who U truely are b4 walkin down that aisle? some things are better considered first
Posted: at 20-06-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
eagleseyez at 20-06-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-06-2010 02:17 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:57 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-06-2010 01:36 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do her impatience cost her alot of things thats typical of Nigerian girls Always rushing to get married nothing else matters...they throw away their dreams all for the quest of matrimony.
To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes, what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers? The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these things.
u r right, that we shuldnt only think abt marriage, so many other things u can b proud of
Exactly baby Every girl has got something in them why not bring it out show the world what u got and every other things will fall in place... Men will only take u serious if he finds smthg unique in U and not when u see him as ur last resort and stick like glue
Fly mamacita, if u got no wings, imma lend u mine
for that u are very right ! No man want a woman to stick on him like a glue, looks like ur her last hope in life.. Also means nothing can be learned from that person, where are ur conversations gonna lead to ? U r very wise
Ok give me ur wings, but dont expect them back
splendid... u got wits
but my wings can only be loaned haba!...u want make i remain for dis wicked earth? U need to come wth me make u visit pluto, where everything is plutorised U go forget earth
Posted: at 20-06-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 20-06-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
for that i agree with u eagle cuz its already a big job for u to reach out for ur dreams if u get married u have to support ur hubby also in everything he does... it can b hard for some women
Posted: at 20-06-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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