What does she want me to do (Page 2)

Date: 20-06-2010 9:30 am (14 years ago) | Author: Elachi Elachi
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- esonu at 20-06-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago)
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hisssssss

Posted: at 20-06-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 20-06-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago)
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ok come pick me now !
Posted: at 20-06-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 21-06-2010 01:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 20-06-2010 02:21 PM
Quote from: esonu on 20-06-2010 02:11 PM
ohhhh na u be this? u know it has been long.. since u divorced me i have not been seeing u
How ur new wife dey? U don run from the adult board?


u sure like the adult board...... don't u?.....  Roll Eyes Wink
Posted: at 21-06-2010 01:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- akjasper at 21-06-2010 01:08 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eoelachi on 20-06-2010 09:30 AM
I was in a relationship with this girl some years back when we were both undergraduates. we were both christains but from different part of the county, while she is from the south south, i was from the middle belt but we loved each other very much. We have been through it all, but still sticked to each others like glue.There was this pressure from both her parents and friens that i might not get married to her since am not from south south.She has confronted me time without number but i assured her that i loved her, and only love is my determining factor for marriage but she seems not to believed me. She graduated before me since i was in engineering. After graduation she called me that she needed to get married and that if i was interested i should do it now. I tried explaining to her that she should allow me graduate but she will rather not listen. She started misbehaving some how. I think during her service year she got her self a guy whom i was told they got married when i was in final year. I graduated,served and now working. Now she no longer allow me rest. she always come crying that i made her married some one she never liked, some one who is not supprting her career, some one who made her a permanent house wife, and that i killed her dreams. Sometime she came to my office and cried on me, i have to give a standing order at the security post not to allow her see me again.This young lady is already married with two kids, How have i killed her dreams and what exactly did she still want from me?



Watever !
Posted: at 21-06-2010 01:08 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 21-06-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 03:04 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 20-06-2010 02:56 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 20-06-2010 01:27 PM
U're already doin what u should do
her impatience cost her alot of things
thats typical of Nigerian girls
Always rushing to get married
nothing else matters...they throw
away their dreams all for the quest
of matrimony.

To y'all ladies: Marriage is not the primary
thing in life,what abt goals, what bout ultimate wishes,
what about ur dreams and desires, what abt ur careers?
The more u thinkabt marriage, the less u care abt these
things.
you are right but a girl can still got marriage and still make her wishes and goals to be reality.that is when she got married to the right person,a guy that will ave her back.what i would advise ladies,is they should be wish when they want to decise who they want to spend the rest of their live with..be wish and be patient.....and dont be too seletive.




to poster,tell not to blame you but herself...

U're right but dnt forget that most men
could be very understanding and caring
at the first stage of the marriage
what if he changes?

Does it hurt to discover first Urself?
i mean, who U truely are b4 walkin
down that aisle?
some things are better considered first
that is where the woman have to use her skill on him.

Posted: at 21-06-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eagleseyez at 21-06-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago)
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@ Hopea
what kind of skill would u use?
Posted: at 21-06-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 21-06-2010 03:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 21-06-2010 03:13 PM
@ Hopea
what kind of skill would u use?
force to get my life from him....



anyway,back to your question.....[what if he changes?]
if he changed like in...he stoped supporting me...this question is kinda complicated sha
meanwhile,the best thing i can do is to be nice .

Posted: at 21-06-2010 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 21-06-2010 03:43 PM (14 years ago)
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She regrets her action......she is looking for someone to share some of the blame with.......are you ready for that??.....You are not to blame, do not allow anyone make u feel bad where you shouldnt!

Posted: at 21-06-2010 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Bennygoodman at 21-06-2010 03:46 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmm....   advice her to concentrate on her marriage and find a way of working things out with her spouse, she had made her choice...
Posted: at 21-06-2010 03:46 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 21-06-2010 05:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 21-06-2010 03:43 PM
She regrets her action......she is looking for someone to share some of the blame with.......are you ready for that??.....You are not to blame, do not allow anyone make u feel bad where you shouldnt!

true talk !
Posted: at 21-06-2010 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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