In our everyday relationship, we come face to face with different type of people.....I was just wondering, would you prefer an 'OK, I WILL SEE WHAT I CAN DO' type of person who wouldnt do anything or a 'NO, I CANT HELP YOU' kind of person?
Put rather differently, do you prefer a diplomatic type of person or a blunt person?.......Why do prefer such a person?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
qunodinga at 6-07-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) (f)
'diplomatic ' 'blunt'...huh..depends
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Well, I think I prefer the 2nd one! The reasons could vary,but I think it's better to tell me directly that you can't do it than to waste my time, and drunken me with cold water!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
I prefer the blunt one, "NO, I CAN'T HELP YOU" please feel free to be honest with me so i won't bother wasting both our time, but if you say "OK, I WILL SEE WHAT I CAN DO" i expect something from you and at the end of the day if u don't deliver ammo hate u for it. Being diplomatic is overrated, it simply means lying because u don't wanna look bad.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 6-07-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) (m)
I prefer the latter Its fine wth me when U decline, then i'll know what to do next, the former (diplomatic person) i call killing me softly person Gives U hope and make U stop hoping and in the end u get disappointment. Shit hurts, u knw
Posted: at 6-07-2010 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 6-07-2010 12:07 PM (14 years ago) (f)
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
That is the major problem here on earth because poeple find it very difficult to be sincere
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 6-07-2010 12:17 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 6-07-2010 12:07 PM
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
thats becos the blunt ones tell some bitter truth and the diplomatic ones please U wth their words and in the long run, u get disappointment
who wants to hear some truth? we're living in a world full of lies e.g...it is a common knowledge that sex before marriage is illegal and immoral, but in our world today, U just have to tell that to the birds
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
The whole thing really depends on the situation honestly bcoz thinking abt it now, i av on numerous occasions delibrately acted dumb, kept my opinion to myself or just been polite to simply keep the peace, that is also diplomacy. People do like half truths, if u are 100% honest with everyone, you will have no one around you.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 6-07-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: temi07 on 6-07-2010 12:17 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 6-07-2010 12:07 PM
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
The whole thing really depends on the situation honestly bcoz thinking abt it now, i av on numerous occasions delibrately acted dumb, kept my opinion to myself or just been polite to simply keep the peace, that is also diplomacy. People do like half truths, if u are 100% honest with everyone, you will have no one around you.
hmmmmmmmmmmmm...........isnt that so sad?.......that would discourage anyone who wants to be honest.....the world is really turning into something else......isnt there a way this trend can be reversed?.........the world really need 100% honest people!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
By the time we have 100% honnest poeple here , that means we are already in heaven
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 6-07-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 6-07-2010 12:17 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 6-07-2010 12:07 PM
But you see, we have more 'diplomatic' people on earth than 'blunt' people........and the world seems to like them 'diplomatic' people more than 'blunt' people.......does it mean that people like 'half lies and half truths'...?(yea, dats how I see diplomacy).....
thats becos the blunt ones tell some bitter truth and the diplomatic ones please U wth their words and in the long run, u get disappointment
who wants to hear some truth? we're living in a world full of lies e.g...it is a common knowledge that sex before marriage is illegal and immoral, but in our world today, U just have to tell that to the birds
I prefer that bitter truth...........it saves me a lot of time and emotion........why raise somebody's hope only to come and dash it out of the blues?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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