We've heard it said many times by the girls how no means no yet more oftentimes some of us guys keep pursuit because the No doesn't strike us as a real no or at least we can see clearly or hazily that from mixed messages that the words aren't strong enuf. This thread is open to all to shed light on what makes a No a "NO" (Waco no be Bosom issue we dey yarn o so no misread the No No as NONO :p)
Everyone know's guys are terrible at multitasking and that doesn't exclude our personal relationship(s). More often when some of us guys see a girl we like, as logical as we are, we like going for her and getting clearly spelt out feedback otherwise we might move to hanging on and moving on to the next girl we like simultaneously and so on and so forth. What that leads to is having many pseudo girlfriends that later turn to accuse us of being players, when in reality none of them said yes and none of them said the Solid no.
Guys please tell the girls when a No is unmistakably a NO.
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 2-08-2010 11:09 AM (14 years ago) (f)
where are the guys?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:09 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:15 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.
A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.
A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:17 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 2-08-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 2-08-2010 11:17 AM
For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.
A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.
A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.
This is interesting.
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:34 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.
A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.
A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.
This is interesting.
Thanks. Hope we get to see more interesting stuff than this.
Posted: at 2-08-2010 11:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 2-08-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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