confused

Date: 03-11-2007 1:57 pm (17 years ago) | Author: Adebola Adesokan
- at 3-11-2007 01:57 PM (17 years ago)
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I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?

Posted: at 3-11-2007 01:57 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
- Vixenx at 3-11-2007 03:09 PM (17 years ago)
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I feel you girl...but you gotta dis to the confession...

@DGUY---do dat than dat u do with this..and forward it to tha confessions...
Posted: at 3-11-2007 03:09 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- daryl at 10-04-2008 10:32 PM (17 years ago)
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yep, definitely confused...
Posted: at 10-04-2008 10:32 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lucabracci at 10-04-2008 11:18 PM (17 years ago)
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women(shakes head sadly)u r nice to them and they dont wana  know,yet if you go throu most of the posts on here and everywhere its all about the guy this and that na wa o...just remember that good guys are hard to come by and u shouldnt string the poor guy along,if u r not gettn married to him let him know so he ll look for someone else abeg
Posted: at 10-04-2008 11:18 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ugodaniels at 11-04-2008 08:00 AM (17 years ago)
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story story...story Roll Eyes
Posted: at 11-04-2008 08:00 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 11-04-2008 09:53 AM (17 years ago)
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Quote from: debby165 on  3-11-2007 01:57 PM
I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?

u know what...concentrate on ur studies rather than stressing urself for something that is of less importance...u know good education can lead u anywhere....but love with the wrong person will just hurt u....love will come when its the right time to love...........
Posted: at 11-04-2008 09:53 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Vixenx at 12-04-2008 06:40 PM (17 years ago)
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still tryna find a way to forward this to the confessions.. Undecided
Posted: at 12-04-2008 06:40 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Recoverd at 18-06-2009 07:18 AM (15 years ago)
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Try addin 1 mor guy 2ur list.
Posted: at 18-06-2009 07:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 18-06-2009 11:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: debby165 on  3-11-2007 01:57 PM
I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?

Forget them and concentrate on ur studies. As u said "am not even ready to settle down with any guy". so why bothering  ur head?
Posted: at 18-06-2009 11:52 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mushabc at 18-06-2009 04:45 PM (15 years ago)
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wit wat
Posted: at 18-06-2009 04:45 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 18-06-2009 06:49 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: debby165 on  3-11-2007 01:57 PM
I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?
hehheheh,law indeed...lawyer nor feet solve her problem......some people always do shit like your..both male and female,he or she always fall in love with the person tht dont ave tht feeling..for he/she.

i advice you to learn to love the first dude you bein datin since 2003....
Posted: at 18-06-2009 06:49 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Toks-E at 18-06-2009 09:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: debby165 on  3-11-2007 01:57 PM
I have 2 guys, started dating the first one in 2003, loves me so much, but i don't really love him. I met the second guy in 2005 and i realised that i love him so much even though he doesn't show me much love and care like the first guy. I'm kind of confused because the second guy is older than me with 10 years and of recent time he's been talking of marriage though he hasn't come out straight to propose to me. The point is that I'm not ready to marry not to talk of settling down with a guy. And my greatest fear is that of a broken marriage, I've seen marriage work fine and those that are frustrating, i don't want to end up with a guy that won't show me much love and care, i love to be pampered by my guy. The first guy is just rounding up is ND in the polytechnic and I'm in my final year studying law in the university. Don't know what to do?

Women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...........mcceeewwwww

*smh*
Posted: at 18-06-2009 09:14 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kzee9ja at 18-06-2009 09:39 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ugodaniels on 11-04-2008 08:00 AM
story story...story Roll Eyes

stories teller
Posted: at 18-06-2009 09:39 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 19-06-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago)
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damn...this old story.....year 2007...?
Posted: at 19-06-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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