Bittersweet, I'm not trying to change U. U feel I am? It wasn't my intention.
You are right. It's your life and your choice to make how you relate with your spouse. What you are comfortable with might just work well for you, whether it is right or wrong... at least temporarily if it ends up wrong.
Thx for understanding!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 02:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 24-08-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago)  (m) Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state.
I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband?
Are U just being stubborn?
There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete.
Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! When U are married, nothing is so personal in Ur world anymore that wont affect Ur spouse directly or indirectly. Not be so sure about it! Ur not so sure bout it or I shouldn't be so sure about it. Babe even those we are not married to our lives affect indirectly even though remotely. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 24-08-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago) (m) Bittersweet, I'm not trying to change U. U feel I am? It wasn't my intention.
You are right. It's your life and your choice to make how you relate with your spouse. What you are comfortable with might just work well for you, whether it is right or wrong... at least temporarily if it ends up wrong.
Thx for understanding! You're welcome. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "solojaro") solojaro at 24-08-2010 03:15 PM (14 years ago) (m) Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state.
I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband?
Are U just being stubborn?
There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete.
Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes, I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody!
When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! Try not to be stubborn and be humble to him, communicate with him before any decision is taking. you will see things will be alright. Yes,my friend, I know what u're talking about, and thx for your intention, but...... me,playing the "Humble girl",really not possible! I am how I am,and that can't be changed! But yes,I communicate very well, but when it's something that concerns me,without affecting him, the decision is mine to take! Quit understood, I think you are a very principied person, and I believe that the choice is yours. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state.
I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband?
Are U just being stubborn?
There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete.
Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! I agree!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Divine Madam u don dodge d question o!
Personality of d year don't be a hypcrite o! 
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!  | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mykelly") mykelly at 24-08-2010 03:25 PM (14 years ago) (m) O di Okay! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state.
I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband?
Are U just being stubborn?
There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete.
Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! When U are married, nothing is so personal in Ur world anymore that wont affect Ur spouse directly or indirectly. Not be so sure about it! Ur not so sure bout it or I shouldn't be so sure about it. Babe even those we are not married to our lives affect indirectly even though remotely. No,You, should not be so sure about it, bcz I know there can be situations where it's only my own person involved!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 24-08-2010 03:46 PM (14 years ago) (m) And u are married? Ha! Bitter "Hyde" Sweet on the loose.  | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Divine Madam u don dodge d question o!
Personality of d year don't be a hypcrite o! I have answered your question madam, as best I could...........I dont have to say what you want me to say..... Besides yesterday you kept mum completely when I asked you that same question...............so who is being hypocritical here huh?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I did lemme go help u get ur googles.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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And u are married? Ha! Bitter "Hyde" Sweet on the loose. Come on! That's not so! If u would look better, u would see more Jekyll!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 24-08-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) (m) Nah... Jekyll seems to have gone on vacation today. Seriously. :p | Posted: at 24-08-2010 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Neeeh! He's there, just that u don't see it,bcz u're wearing some blurring shades! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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I did lemme go help u get ur googles. hahahahaha, I no need your own, e fit blind me............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 24-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) Neeeh! He's there, just that u don't see it,bcz u're wearing some blurring shades! Oh so it's my fault I'm seeing Hyde? Hmmm... Ok! | Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Dee4evr") Dee4evr at 24-08-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) Every man and even the women ought to have learnt some lessons by now. Not allowing one's wife to work for whatever reason is a very bad idea because it will aways backfire especially on the woman because the man may decide to leave the woman or death may come calling. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Ify4life") Ify4life at 24-08-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok
ify lovly girl is her. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 04:44 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Those men who doesn't allow their wife to work, they are flirt and believe their wife will do same, a killer does not allow a sword to pass through his head. wheather you allow ur wife to work or not if she want to flirt around she will do it. but i want men to know that not all women are flirt, men are more worse in this department than women.if bothof you are working & know what you are doing it will be easy to always move to another level in no time. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 06:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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8)Those men who doesn't allow their wife to work, they are flirt and believe their wife will do same, a killer does not allow a sword to pass through his head. wheather you allow ur wife to work or not if she want to flirt around she will do it. but i want men to know that not all women are flirt, men are more worse in this department than women.if bothof you are working & know what you are doing it will be easy to always move to another level in no time. | Posted: at 24-08-2010 06:36 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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