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A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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qunodinga at 23-08-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) Look i can not even start considering such because i will know 2 choose wisely b4 i enter anything.
Ooop!... you better start immediately! I don't kinow how 2 consider it....there must be gud reasons?him be obama?You prefer OBAMA..?? I can see Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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No he is 2 dodgy 4 my liking.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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solojaro at 23-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) I am running to my locker. Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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tyabo at 23-08-2010 05:27 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Topic Hmm sounds like slavery i resemble ekatte?
And @ wat age r we talking about?when she is still young & got a life ahead?doesn't she have dreams anymore?just because she is married let's not be selfish here!
If there is noffin wrong wif her she should be aloud 2 work!if he doesn't want her working under some1 den he can help her build her own business but don't turn her into a house-maid....women have a lot more 2 offer dan catering 4 there husbands & looking after children. den d door out of d marriage is wide open 4 u..
Yu know wat i think?i think only a old,proud,uneducated and self-centered man would think dat way. dats nt true..it iz wot sum women do @ dere places of work dat discourage sum men frm allowin dere women 2 work..coz sum of dem do get out of dere way and bcom a disgustin flirt..4 me allowin my wife 2 work is nt a bad idea bt its gonna depend on where she wanna work,olso i don't need r money 2 run my family she can make use of it 4 her own personal use bt definately nt 4 me 2 run my family...perioddddd It is OUR Family Not YOUR Family......u can't be d head of me sorry
If u don't trust ur wife den y did u marry her? like i said if u don't feel comfortable wif her working under some1 HELP HER WIF GETTING HER OWN BUSINESS! Posted: at 23-08-2010 05:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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esonu at 23-08-2010 06:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) ??
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS Posted: at 23-08-2010 06:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I am running to my locker.
Shed some light o jor.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Kennee at 23-08-2010 10:29 PM (13 years ago) (m) What is it with some men who have vowed never to allow their women work?
My late uncle never let his wife work, now she is finding it hard to cope after his death (especially as the old generation bank where her husband banked all his money before his death, has made it difficult for her to withdraw money from that account which she is the 'next of kin').........When he was alife, he would vehemently refuse the wife doing anything. 'What are you lacking?', he would ask. 'I can provide for my family', he would said. Today, she wish she was doing something before he died.
I see this same thing playing out in some families today. Some men are scared of letting their women out of their home. Alright, you dont want her to work for somebody else, why not open up something for her to manage? The time when women sat at home all day, watching Africa Magic, eating and getting fat is fast over.
I ask the men, why would you stop your woman from bringing in fund into the house? What are the men afraid of?
Ladies, would you agree to stay at home all day doing nothing and depending on a man to cater for all your needs? If he refuses to let you do anything, how would you convince him otherwise without being termed 'STUBBORN'?
Most Men dat don't want their wives 2 work just believe that the wife doesn't need 2 go thru the Stress involved in Working Then after all dat Stress, still try 2 keep family chores going It's just their way of Showing Care and Love for the Woman While Some just want d Woman 2 be available everytime they need Her
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Kennee at 23-08-2010 10:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) Husband & Wife na partnership so we shuld both work 2 gether 2 support d family. Unfortunately, most Nigerian Women believe dat it's the Man's Sole Responsibility 2 Support the Family
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:37 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I am not Amongst!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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pkingx at 23-08-2010 10:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) The world has long gone past the era when women were made 24hrs house wives...i personally beliv a woman shuld get busy and make some xtra bucks for family support and also for herself.
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! -----> Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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pkingx at 23-08-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) Husband & Wife na partnership so we shuld both work 2 gether 2 support d family. Unfortunately, most Nigerian Women believe dat it's the Man's Sole Responsibility 2 Support the Family Those ones are ''point and kill'' house wives
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! -----> Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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mazi at 23-08-2010 10:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) simply very backward Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ucynice at 24-08-2010 01:00 AM (13 years ago) (m) IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY THEY IS NO NEED FOR YOUR WIFE TO WORK AGAIN, LET HER STAY AT HOME AND TAKE CARE OF THE WONDERFUL KIDS. TO MUCH MONEY DEY. Posted: at 24-08-2010 01:00 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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solojaro at 24-08-2010 08:10 AM (13 years ago) (m) IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY THEY IS NO NEED FOR YOUR WIFE TO WORK AGAIN, LET HER STAY AT HOME AND TAKE CARE OF THE WONDERFUL KIDS. TO MUCH MONEY DEY.
Mbanu, y qkanu. She must do some thing. Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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austineok at 24-08-2010 08:14 AM (13 years ago) (m) It's better 4 her to run private bussiness at least dis can create chances 4 other activities like catering 4 me and our kids.Period Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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esonu at 24-08-2010 08:16 AM (13 years ago) (m) peeped
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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princedafe at 24-08-2010 08:53 AM (13 years ago) (m) IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY THEY IS NO NEED FOR YOUR WIFE TO WORK AGAIN, LET HER STAY AT HOME AND TAKE CARE OF THE WONDERFUL KIDS. TO MUCH MONEY DEY.
well said Posted: at 24-08-2010 08:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 24-08-2010 09:14 AM (13 years ago) (f) What is it with some men who have vowed never to allow their women work?
My late uncle never let his wife work, now she is finding it hard to cope after his death (especially as the old generation bank where her husband banked all his money before his death, has made it difficult for her to withdraw money from that account which she is the 'next of kin').........When he was alife, he would vehemently refuse the wife doing anything. 'What are you lacking?', he would ask. 'I can provide for my family', he would said. Today, she wish she was doing something before he died.
I see this same thing playing out in some families today. Some men are scared of letting their women out of their home. Alright, you dont want her to work for somebody else, why not open up something for her to manage? The time when women sat at home all day, watching Africa Magic, eating and getting fat is fast over.
I ask the men, why would you stop your woman from bringing in fund into the house? What are the men afraid of?
Ladies, would you agree to stay at home all day doing nothing and depending on a man to cater for all your needs? If he refuses to let you do anything, how would you convince him otherwise without being termed 'STUBBORN'?
Most Men dat don't want their wives 2 work just believe that the wife doesn't need 2 go thru the Stress involved in Working Then after all dat Stress, still try 2 keep family chores going It's just their way of Showing Care and Love for the Woman While Some just want d Woman 2 be available everytime they need Her Allow her to work , then if she can't cope with family chores , nobody will tell her to stop working. But dont insist she should not work when she has the ability to do so
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 24-08-2010 09:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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