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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-08-2010 01:40 PM
Ok gud but wat if he insists? 
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.Ok, today na your turn to put me on the hot seat abi?............I didnt know you have turned to Frank Edoho....
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-08-2010 01:40 PM Ok gud but wat if he insists? .Ok, today na your turn to put me on the hot seat abi?............I didnt know you have turned to Frank Edoho.... A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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yes so make u answer  I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! 
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That a man said his wife should not work does not mean that the woman should just fold her arms and do nothing, if am told by husband not to work that will be an opportunity for me establish a business that will in future be a worthy investment. I cant imagine myself living a life of begging a man for money all the time..........ce n'est pas possible. Reply
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:42 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:17 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:11 PM Hmmmm... the way some of U girls sound like U think marriage is a war front with husband and wife fighting on opposite sides trying to out smart the other person makes me wonder where U grew up. Why marry a man that U know loves U and not trust him to take the lead out of love and expect U to follow? Come on,Onche! Not you, too! I'm really tired hearing all that crap about man leading the woman!   Do U believe in Love? Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:30 PM Guys abuse God's words and twist them in their advantage! Disappointing! Are U accusing me of doing that? Do U know that the bands of marriage are tighter on the man more than they are on the woman? Do u know that we are not called to just love but also to not bitter against them? All U are called to do is submit. I've talked on thsi issue before and how marriage is first a service to god than it is for our pleasure U take a man/woman, U both agree to go before God to agre to "His term" for the institution He instituted. It's not a Husbands do this if Ur wives do that or wives do this if Ur husband do that affair. It is a God I will do this becuase U say I shoul institution As long as U have agreed to be married before God, U should live the life of a wife or husband as unto God, turning a blind eye to what the other person is doing. This is a long story. Pls check through my posts and see if U can get more insight on previous posts on similar topics or just really take time out to study the bible. No body holy pass and the tasks before each and everyone of us may not be easy but God gives us grace to go through and come out victorious. Yes,I still believe in love,but that doesn't mean to be under a man's command in the name of love! I wasn't referring at u,but at guys, in general! This is 2010(in case u've forgot) ! I just believe in a different kind of marriage, not as it was 4 000 years ago,and I really believe in God, but I'll never obey any dude on this earth! Period. Live and let live!
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-08-2010 01:39 PM Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-08-2010 01:08 PM Divine project can u obey dat order and not work after marriage? My daddy taught me to fend for myself right from when I was little.........He could afford to look after me, but he made me understand that I dont have to depend on anyone for anything.........The man I must marry You are best marrying Ur daddy then and don't forget he said that as a daddy not a husband. there's a difference. Divorce Ur daddy before U marry otherwise there will be problems. Nothing is a must. That attitude will get U in trouble in marriage, man or woman; especially woman. Of course U can just opt to have the regular modern marriage that is more superficial than real if U intend to keep that paradigm.
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And 4 those that r talking about temptation/cheatin outside u need 2 check urself! ReplyCause i don't know y u get marred 2 some1 in d first place if u don't trust em.....just because he is providing 4 me & d family doesn't mean he may not be cheating outside men r more exposed 2 dat than women nobody is immune from the disease cheatin! Don't u think cause she ain't @ in a work enviroment she can't go out & cheat or will u tie how down in d house?she no go waka outside shiorr! I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-08-2010 01:38 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:30 PM Guys abuse God's words and twist them in their advantage! Disappointing! Submission is not call me mad and i stay quiet! we all have voices so we should be heard nobody should stand on any1's head in d name of submission? Right! Really absurd expectations! Live and let live!
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The truth is we can't speak for all men neither can the girls speak for all girls; because each man is to each woman a husband by character (internal) and inspiration(external). What he is to one woman myt be different entirely or the same totally to the husband he is to another and another and another. That's how it is normally. ReplyThe noise some girls are making here is nothing but noise really cos when a a woman "feel's" in love nothing wey she no go do. If man say chop shit sef she go chop, especially when he is a successful man. Talk talk talk na him we dey do here.
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She will do somefin! Reply Even Kings & Queen Do! I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
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Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:49 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:42 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:17 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:11 PM Hmmmm... the way some of U girls sound like U think marriage is a war front with husband and wife fighting on opposite sides trying to out smart the other person makes me wonder where U grew up. Why marry a man that U know loves U and not trust him to take the lead out of love and expect U to follow? Come on,Onche! Not you, too! I'm really tired hearing all that crap about man leading the woman! Do U believe in Love? Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:30 PM Guys abuse God's words and twist them in their advantage! Disappointing! Are U accusing me of doing that? Do U know that the bands of marriage are tighter on the man more than they are on the woman? Do u know that we are not called to just love but also to not bitter against them? All U are called to do is submit. I've talked on thsi issue before and how marriage is first a service to god than it is for our pleasure U take a man/woman, U both agree to go before God to agre to "His term" for the institution He instituted. It's not a Husbands do this if Ur wives do that or wives do this if Ur husband do that affair. It is a God I will do this becuase U say I shoul institution As long as U have agreed to be married before God, U should live the life of a wife or husband as unto God, turning a blind eye to what the other person is doing. This is a long story. Pls check through my posts and see if U can get more insight on previous posts on similar topics or just really take time out to study the bible. No body holy pass and the tasks before each and everyone of us may not be easy but God gives us grace to go through and come out victorious. Yes,I still believe in love,but that doesn't mean to be under a man's command in the name of love! I wasn't referring at u,but at guys, in general! This is 2010(in case u've forgot) ! I just believe in a different kind of marriage, not as it was 4 000 years ago,and I really believe in God, but I'll never obey any dude on this earth! Period. 2010. Same God, Same Commandments, Same rewards for obedience, Same man, same woman, same planet, Same God.
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:00 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:49 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:42 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:17 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:11 PM Hmmmm... the way some of U girls sound like U think marriage is a war front with husband and wife fighting on opposite sides trying to out smart the other person makes me wonder where U grew up. Why marry a man that U know loves U and not trust him to take the lead out of love and expect U to follow? Come on,Onche! Not you, too! I'm really tired hearing all that crap about man leading the woman! Do U believe in Love? Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 01:30 PM Guys abuse God's words and twist them in their advantage! Disappointing! Are U accusing me of doing that? Do U know that the bands of marriage are tighter on the man more than they are on the woman? Do u know that we are not called to just love but also to not bitter against them? All U are called to do is submit. I've talked on thsi issue before and how marriage is first a service to god than it is for our pleasure U take a man/woman, U both agree to go before God to agre to "His term" for the institution He instituted. It's not a Husbands do this if Ur wives do that or wives do this if Ur husband do that affair. It is a God I will do this becuase U say I shoul institution As long as U have agreed to be married before God, U should live the life of a wife or husband as unto God, turning a blind eye to what the other person is doing. This is a long story. Pls check through my posts and see if U can get more insight on previous posts on similar topics or just really take time out to study the bible. No body holy pass and the tasks before each and everyone of us may not be easy but God gives us grace to go through and come out victorious. Yes,I still believe in love,but that doesn't mean to be under a man's command in the name of love! I wasn't referring at u,but at guys, in general! This is 2010(in case u've forgot) ! I just believe in a different kind of marriage, not as it was 4 000 years ago,and I really believe in God, but I'll never obey any dude on this earth! Period. 2010. Same God, Same Commandments, Same rewards for obedience, Same man, same woman, same planet, Same God. Same God,different world,different way of thinking! You have said that here is nothing but talking and that in real life, a woman would do anything for love, and she would obey him blindly! Let me disagree totally! Exactly right now, I'm going through such a situation, and be sure I'll not continue a long term relationship which it was about to get in marriage, if he doesn't give up at those absurd expectations, and trust me, I really love him,but I never can't live that way! Live and let live!
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 01:51 PM Quote from: divineproject on 24-08-2010 01:39 PM Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 24-08-2010 01:08 PM Divine project can u obey dat order and not work after marriage? My daddy taught me to fend for myself right from when I was little.........He could afford to look after me, but he made me understand that I dont have to depend on anyone for anything.........The man I must marry You are best marrying Ur daddy then and don't forget he said that as a daddy not a husband. there's a difference. Divorce Ur daddy before U marry otherwise there will be problems. Nothing is a must. That attitude will get U in trouble in marriage, man or woman; especially woman. Of course U can just opt to have the regular modern marriage that is more superficial than real if U intend to keep that paradigm. hehehehe, dont get me wrong oo...........I know my husband is responsible for me........But I will never like to become a burden, I can not always beg him for money for everything.......you dont learn how to use your left hand at old age.........He provides the basics and I do the rest.........I know my hubby will appreciate that, so dont just tell me to learn to be a south-paw now.....ce n'est pas possible A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. ReplyI don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete.
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! Live and let live!
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. I will ask him about that............. A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
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Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 02:27 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems!
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Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 02:27 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! When U are married, nothing is so personal in Ur world anymore that wont affect Ur spouse directly or indirectly.
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Quote from: solojaro on 24-08-2010 02:47 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 02:27 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! Yes,my friend, I know what u're talking about, and thx for your intention, but...... me,playing the "Humble girl",really not possible! I am how I am,and that can't be changed! But yes,I communicate very well, but when it's something that concerns me,without affecting him, the decision is mine to take! Live and let live!
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:50 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 24-08-2010 02:27 PM Quote from: onchedu on 24-08-2010 02:16 PM Who send woman love. That's what U gals seem to not understand. Man does not have the capacity to appreciate a woman's love as he does to appreciate the ease with which she allows herself see reason with him. Ur love is nothing to go by. It's here today and not tomorrow in it's corporeal state. I don't know Ur guy and I cannot speak for him. Does he fear God in anyway? Does he know the divine responsibilities associated with being Ur husband? Are U just being stubborn? There is nothing new under the sun. What was will be and what is, was. The only limits to both ends of reality is God and His word is complete. Oh,yes,he's a God fearing man,just that we see these things differently, and we were both shocked when we found out! Yes,I admit,I'm stubborn, but I can always reason with him if he's reasonable! I just want to be free to choose for my life, without expecting the approval from somebody! When a situation occurs, and if that situation affects only me,personally, I'll communicate u my decision about it, not expecting your approval! But when it's something which concerns us both, it's normal to decide together, and if u have a better idea for a way out, be sure I'll go on that one, without problems! When U are married, nothing is so personal in Ur world anymore that wont affect Ur spouse directly or indirectly. Not be so sure about it! Live and let live!
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Bittersweet, I'm not trying to change U. U feel I am? It wasn't my intention. ReplyYou are right. It's your life and your choice to make how you relate with your spouse. What you are comfortable with might just work well for you, whether it is right or wrong... at least temporarily if it ends up wrong.
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