How Do I Know If He Is Starting to Like Me Less? One of the most difficult things that you could ever have to face in a relationship, is wondering if your boyfriend or the guy you are dating has lost interest in you. The easiest way in which you can figure this out is to ask him outright, however it can be very difficult. Heed the following points when asking a guy this serious question, so you can avoid potential pain.
Check Your Emotions At The Door If you are too emotional, it can cause you to do and say things that will hinder the overall success of your mission and make you look like a raging lunatic. Try to keep yourself calm, cool, and collected in order to convey the right message without seeming insane are accusative.
Be Strong Even if you are intimidated by his manly awesomeness, you need to make sure he feels that you are not, and that you think you are both on level ground. If you are able to convince him you have authority, he will be more likely to answer you honestly and respect you for asking.
Keep Your Cool Be calm. If you ask him and it starts to get out of control, you may end up with a large problem where it did not exist before. Try to maintain a clam state, and keep your game face on.
Dress To Impress Try to dress as sexy and hot as you can before you ask him, not only will he be tripped up in his words, but he will be more likely to regain interest if he already has, and therefore you can keep him around a whole lot longer. Do Not Be Afraid To Apologize Now if he says that he has lost interest for something, regardless of whether or not you think it is your fault, you need to make sure that you are willing to take the blame and make up for it. If you want to keep your relationship together, you will do this to mend broken ties.
Avoid Pointing Any Fingers Sure, he is cold and withdrawing himself from your relationship slightly, but that does not mean that you can blame him for all of your problems. You need to make sure that he knows he can confide in you and that you will forgive him.
Do Not Pull the "If You Really Loved Me" Card, EVER Trying to force him back into your arms is the worst move you could ever make. It will only drive him away faster, and he will instantly think you are a control freak.
Posted: at 12-10-2010 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 12-10-2010 02:50 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: qunodinga on 12-10-2010 02:33 PM
How Do I Know If He Is Starting to Like Me Less? One of the most difficult things that you could ever have to face in a relationship, is wondering if your boyfriend or the guy you are dating has lost interest in you. The easiest way in which you can figure this out is to ask him outright, however it can be very difficult. Heed the following points when asking a guy this serious question, so you can avoid potential pain.
Check Your Emotions At The Door If you are too emotional, it can cause you to do and say things that will hinder the overall success of your mission and make you look like a raging lunatic. Try to keep yourself calm, cool, and collected in order to convey the right message without seeming insane are accusative.
Be Strong Even if you are intimidated by his manly awesomeness, you need to make sure he feels that you are not, and that you think you are both on level ground. If you are able to convince him you have authority, he will be more likely to answer you honestly and respect you for asking.
Keep Your Cool Be calm. If you ask him and it starts to get out of control, you may end up with a large problem where it did not exist before. Try to maintain a clam state, and keep your game face on.
Dress To Impress Try to dress as sexy and hot as you can before you ask him, not only will he be tripped up in his words, but he will be more likely to regain interest if he already has, and therefore you can keep him around a whole lot longer.
Do Not Be Afraid To Apologize Now if he says that he has lost interest for something, regardless of whether or not you think it is your fault, you need to make sure that you are willing to take the blame and make up for it. If you want to keep your relationship together, you will do this to mend broken ties.
Avoid Pointing Any Fingers Sure, he is cold and withdrawing himself from your relationship slightly, but that does not mean that you can blame him for all of your problems. You need to make sure that he knows he can confide in you and that you will forgive him.
Do Not Pull the "If You Really Loved Me" Card, EVER Trying to force him back into your arms is the worst move you could ever make. It will only drive him away faster, and he will instantly think you are a control freak.
How long do you expect someone to keep taking the wrong blame?.....all becos he/she wants to make up?........wont he/she take advantage of that?..........If the relationship goes wry, we both have our blames and should own up to it........I dont advise people to take unnecessary blame simply becos they want to make up, becos I see the other party capitalising on that singular action and thereby thinking you are desperate to hang on.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 12-10-2010 02:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Erm, if U are dressed to impress, chances are he will lie if it's true that he has started loosing interest in U. Me thinks, no one want's to let go of something that looks appealing, whether or not they like it. Dress to impress "after" U have found out. meanwyl, we all loose some interest sometime and getting it back to some extent depends on us as it does on the person we loose the interest in.
Posted: at 12-10-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
PreetyInstinct at 12-10-2010 03:55 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Wateva jor, i don't want any1 2 like me sef.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 12-10-2010 03:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
onchedu
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