am dating a gurl dat told me about her past life.she told me she use to b a player bt stopped. bt nw am getting more confused cuz sum story she told me wen we started dating does nt corroborate wit d 1's she is telln me now. cuz d 1st time we started d relationship she told me she stopped being a player immediately she got her admission in2 school nd now she is telln me she stopped it immediately we started dating. den she told me sumfin suprisin she said her frendz saw my pics on her system nd dey asked her "AM I ONE OF DEM" ?. dz gurl am talkin abt we met on a social network nd started dating olmost 3months back bt we've nt met. distance is keepin us apart cuz she stays in 9ja.
Pals wot r u advice on dz ?
Posted: at 4-11-2010 09:37 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-11-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Try to find out more things about her!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-11-2010 09:45 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 4-11-2010 10:02 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 09:56 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 09:45 AM
Try to find out more things about her!
BS lyk wot nd wot cuz we r nt close to each oda.
Everything u can! Catch the moment, and pop up different questions! Even things u asked her at beginning, compare the responses! Even if she may avoid talking about herself, u can lead the conversation to where u want to! And, especially, be careful at details! Study her! If you use cam,it's even easier! Body language says a lot!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:02 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Everything u can! Catch the moment, and pop up different questions! Even things u asked her at beginning, compare the responses! Even if she may avoid talking about herself, u can lead the conversation to where u want to! And, especially, be careful at details! Study her! If you use cam,it's even easier! Body language says a lot!
10x BS. bt dere r sumfins she told me wen we started bt r nt dsame wid d tune she is singing to now.
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:13 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-11-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 10:13 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 10:02 AM
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 09:56 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 09:45 AM
Try to find out more things about her!
BS lyk wot nd wot cuz we r nt close to each oda.
Everything u can! Catch the moment, and pop up different questions! Even things u asked her at beginning, compare the responses! Even if she may avoid talking about herself, u can lead the conversation to where u want to! And, especially, be careful at details! Study her! If you use cam,it's even easier! Body language says a lot!
10x BS. bt dere r sumfins she told me wen we started bt r nt dsame wid d tune she is singing to now.
Hmmm That's not good!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Everything u can! Catch the moment, and pop up different questions! Even things u asked her at beginning, compare the responses! Even if she may avoid talking about herself, u can lead the conversation to where u want to! And, especially, be careful at details! Study her! If you use cam,it's even easier! Body language says a lot!
10x BS. bt dere r sumfins she told me wen we started bt r nt dsame wid d tune she is singing to now.
Hmmm That's not good!
yeah dats y am confused. i don't like flirting and cheating cuz if i do want dere 101 babes outta dere 2 hang out wid bt i jst wanna kip 2 ma words.
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:21 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-11-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 10:21 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 10:18 AM
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 10:13 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 10:02 AM
Quote from: tyabo on 4-11-2010 09:56 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-11-2010 09:45 AM
Try to find out more things about her!
BS lyk wot nd wot cuz we r nt close to each oda.
Everything u can! Catch the moment, and pop up different questions! Even things u asked her at beginning, compare the responses! Even if she may avoid talking about herself, u can lead the conversation to where u want to! And, especially, be careful at details! Study her! If you use cam,it's even easier! Body language says a lot!
10x BS. bt dere r sumfins she told me wen we started bt r nt dsame wid d tune she is singing to now.
Hmmm That's not good!
yeah dats y am confused. i don't like flirting and cheating cuz if i do want dere 101 babes outta dere 2 hang out wid bt i jst wanna kip 2 ma words.
I understand u,but it should be reciprocal! Just be meticulous! Eyes wide open! I advise u to try to hold on your feelings for now,till u'll figure out what and what!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Well from all indications, it seems you are a 'good guy' but if anything - meeting on social network, stories that does not corroborate, ex-player e.t.c is surely not a good signal
So just trend with care - meaning stay in a way that you wont get hurt if something goes wrong
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 4-11-2010 10:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My guy you have to be a player to survive with her, don't believe her stories and don't take her serous, she just added you to her list you either come in or gout now
Posted: at 4-11-2010 11:42 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
1stly, lng distance relationship is a bad idea cos u guys won't get to knw each other perfectly. i won't advice u work away bt i wud rather ask u to try all ur best in spending time wit each other cos ths will def expose her bad act. if tht is nt possible, let her knw tht her story has changed and try to figure out her excuse. a lair will alws be a cheat no matter hw hard u try to change the person. if its so clear tht she lies alot, thn u might av to start a fresh relationship with som1 else.
Posted: at 4-11-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
1stly, lng distance relationship is a bad idea cos u guys won't get to knw each other perfectly. i won't advice u work away bt i wud rather ask u to try all ur best in spending time wit each other cos ths will def expose her bad act. if tht is nt possible, let her knw tht her story has changed and try to figure out her excuse. a lair will alws be a cheat no matter hw hard u try to change the person. if its so clear tht she lies alot, thn u might av to start a fresh relationship with som1 else.
10x a milli.wot a splendid advice.
Posted: at 4-11-2010 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
goingwithyou at 4-11-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Na wa ooo .. Dis is wht disturb u ... Dat is why u have some one like me in here ... My company is about security ... So u can give me lil data abt her if she in Lagos i can help u track her down .. As a detective ... Am serious ...
Posted: at 4-11-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Na wa ooo .. Dis is wht disturb u ... Dat is why u have some one like me in here ... My company is about security ... So u can give me lil data abt her if she in Lagos i can help u track her down .. As a detective ... Am serious ...
make i pretend say i no c dz 1..
Posted: at 5-11-2010 08:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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