BS, r u suggesting all women shud stay unmarried ??  Because I said that they shouldn't take that risk?
Neeeh!Not at all!
Just to not get involved with those kind of guys,remaining with them
with the hope that they will change, because they are just deceiving themselves!
Well, I have come to realise that we have more of such men around here.........unless God intervenes, one is bound to come in contact with them here.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Or shud i say, accept d truth
Hmmm!
Why?Because sometimes,women drunk themselves with cold water?
That shouldn't happen if we keep our feet on the ground!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 01:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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No, dear i mean, i said dat we can not always see the truth
then i correct myself, tht we can not always accept d truth... | Posted: at 15-12-2010 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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BS, r u suggesting all women shud stay unmarried ?? Because I said that they shouldn't take that risk?
Neeeh!Not at all!
Just to not get involved with those kind of guys,remaining with them
with the hope that they will change, because they are just deceiving themselves! Well, I have come to realise that we have more of such men around here.........unless God intervenes, one is bound to come in contact with them here.......
They are really rare,but...they still are!
But if one can't find one of those guys,then....yes,better she remains alone,because life with a cheater will bring her
too much suffering, and it's not worth it!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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No, dear i mean, i said dat we can not always see the truth
then i correct myself, tht we can not always accept d truth...
That's why I said to keep our feet on the ground!
Some things are pretty obvious, u know?
That we don't want to accept them as true, that's another story!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "justceetah") justceetah at 15-12-2010 02:02 PM (14 years ago)  (m) Maybe he is trying to collect as much as he can before he finally gets himself tied down to the lady forever..............
u may be right
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "nellygold") nellygold at 15-12-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) WHEN A YOUNG MAN claim to be in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/ENGAGED A LADY, yet He still keeps other girls and takes them to his house on different occassion.
I want to know if he is serious wif d engage bride-to-be or just tieing her down while he is busy wif other girls
pls let hear ya opinion on dis
That's anything but serious relationship!
That kind of guy doesn't even know what "serious relationship/engagement " means!
Total mess,my dear!
And I doubt he'll stop after they get married! Exactly, exchange Ring at the ALTAR might not change such fellow | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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BS, r u suggesting all women shud stay unmarried ?? Because I said that they shouldn't take that risk?
Neeeh!Not at all!
Just to not get involved with those kind of guys,remaining with them
with the hope that they will change, because they are just deceiving themselves! Well, I have come to realise that we have more of such men around here.........unless God intervenes, one is bound to come in contact with them here.......
They are really rare,but...they still are!
But if one can't find one of those guys,then....yes,better she remains alone,because life with a cheater will bring her
too much suffering, and it's not worth it! Over there where you are, it is no big staying single, no one raises eyebrow..........but here where we are, if a lady didnt get married, she is looked down upon...........how does one reconcile these?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 15-12-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) YES BS, for dat i agree.... But it is not always easy to see d real truth
IS TRUE | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 15-12-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago) (f) ok
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-12-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) (m) WHEN A YOUNG MAN claim to be in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/ENGAGED A LADY, yet He still keeps other girls and takes them to his house on different occassion.
I want to know if he is serious wif d engage bride-to-be or just tieing her down while he is busy wif other girls
pls let hear ya opinion on dis
Honestly one thing with most men is this, They never trust ladies that easily nowadays even when they pronounce Love from Mt Everest to Mt Kilimanjaro to them, deep down some of this guys they're still looking around in-case if the one they engage start misbehaving, girls are bound to do that often, So i think this is the most reasons why most guys do that until they finally tie the knot with the lady. there are many experience and reasons why men do that, and the cause of this is still from you ladies, not all but some.
Girls are bound to misbehave? 
Tell me that you're joking! Well thats the simple truth my dear, I don't mean all girls/ladies, we can only say of ourselves and be sure of who we are, But honestly, Out there things are happening that one need to see from both angles. is really happening from both sides but we're sharing here the reason why men act like that. Here is one of the raw truth behind it. Many will not tell you about it.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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WHEN A YOUNG MAN claim to be in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/ENGAGED A LADY, yet He still keeps other girls and takes them to his house on different occassion.
I want to know if he is serious wif d engage bride-to-be or just tieing her down while he is busy wif other girls
pls let hear ya opinion on dis
That's anything but serious relationship!
That kind of guy doesn't even know what "serious relationship/engagement " means!
Total mess,my dear!
And I doubt he'll stop after they get married! Exactly, exchange Ring at the ALTAR might not change such fellow  
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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BS, r u suggesting all women shud stay unmarried ?? Because I said that they shouldn't take that risk?
Neeeh!Not at all!
Just to not get involved with those kind of guys,remaining with them
with the hope that they will change, because they are just deceiving themselves! Well, I have come to realise that we have more of such men around here.........unless God intervenes, one is bound to come in contact with them here.......
They are really rare,but...they still are!
But if one can't find one of those guys,then....yes,better she remains alone,because life with a cheater will bring her
too much suffering, and it's not worth it! Over there where you are, it is no big staying single, no one raises eyebrow..........but here where we are, if a lady didnt get married, she is looked down upon...........how does one reconcile these?
Difficult situation!
Maybe some things will change with time,because just because something is tradition doesn't make it right,
especially if ppl will suffer.
Pretty difficult for now I guess! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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WHEN A YOUNG MAN claim to be in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP/ENGAGED A LADY, yet He still keeps other girls and takes them to his house on different occassion.
I want to know if he is serious wif d engage bride-to-be or just tieing her down while he is busy wif other girls
pls let hear ya opinion on dis
Honestly one thing with most men is this, They never trust ladies that easily nowadays even when they pronounce Love from Mt Everest to Mt Kilimanjaro to them, deep down some of this guys they're still looking around in-case if the one they engage start misbehaving, girls are bound to do that often, So i think this is the most reasons why most guys do that until they finally tie the knot with the lady. there are many experience and reasons why men do that, and the cause of this is still from you ladies, not all but some.
Girls are bound to misbehave?
Tell me that you're joking! Well thats the simple truth my dear, I don't mean all girls/ladies, we can only say of ourselves and be sure of who we are, But honestly, Out there things are happening that one need to see from both angles. is really happening from both sides but we're sharing here the reason why men act like that. Here is one of the raw truth behind it. Many will not tell you about it.
It's cool now!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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BS, even to end a relationship is not always easy!
Some people can even close their eyes for the bad things, because they
enjoy the good things too much! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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BS, even to end a relationship is not always easy!
Some people can even close their eyes for the bad things, because they
enjoy the good things too much!
It doesn't exist such thing as a perfect relationship, because don't exist perfect ppl,but there must be a limit!
If the balance weights more in the bad side,I don't think it's worth!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-12-2010 02:22 PM (14 years ago) (m) @BS THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP MY DEAR | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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BS, even to end a relationship is not always easy!
Some people can even close their eyes for the bad things, because they
enjoy the good things too much!
It doesn't exist such thing as a perfect relationship, because don't exist perfect ppl,but there must be a limit!
If the balance weights more in the bad side,I don't think it's worth!
to even suffer instead of going to look for an other man! I have a friend (Nigerian) and she live here for almost
10 years now, she is dating a Nigerian guy, but he is not good at all to her! She refuse to leave him because
of the bad comment and reputation she will get back home! To me it sounds so crazy to remain unhappy
for the rest of your life for the case of your family/friends/neighbours...but i do get her point. | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 15-12-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago) (f) @BS THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP MY DEAR
Who said so?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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@BS THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP MY DEAR
It's what I said too!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-12-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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