tell me what to do

Date: 06-11-2008 12:50 pm (16 years ago) | Author: zita david
- at 6-11-2008 12:50 PM (16 years ago)
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my pals, i want to you all to advice on this issue, i have this guy whom we have been together for long, now the problem is that he has made money and all his relations is trying to kill him as in they too ask him for money so he is now asking me to be pregnant for him so that  we will get  marry and they will give him chance. please what am i to do now but really i don't want to be pregnant for any man until he marries me but this issue is on neck. what do i do. good advice no insult pls. i love him oooooooo i don't want to lose him ooo

Posted: at 6-11-2008 12:50 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- macgreat at 6-11-2008 12:58 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: davidzita on  6-11-2008 12:50 PM
my pals, i want to you all to advice on this issue, i have this guy whom we have been together for long, now the problem is that he has made money and all his relations is trying to kill him as in they too ask him for money so he is now asking me to be pregnant for him so that  we will get  marry and they will give him chance. please what am i to do now but really i don't want to be pregnant for any man until he marries me but this issue is on neck. what do i do. good advice no insult pls. I LOVE HIM oooooooo i don't want to lose him ooo

You sure?.. abi na money your own eye dey too

Posted: at 6-11-2008 12:58 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- mmemshima at 6-11-2008 01:07 PM (16 years ago)
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dearie its not wise for u to get pregnant for him cuz it might make the situation worse,the right thing is for u to marry u legally b4 u think of making babies...the truth is his family will not stop demanding until he starts making serious decisions on his own,he should have the guts to say no when their demands are not convenient for him and u as his babe u should boost his morale without being domineering and please dont stop him from giving to his family instead encourage him he should just apply wisdom...lol
Posted: at 6-11-2008 01:07 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Vixenx at 6-11-2008 01:17 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on  6-11-2008 12:58 PM
Quote from: davidzita on  6-11-2008 12:50 PM
my pals, i want to you all to advice on this issue, i have this guy whom we have been together for long, now the problem is that he has made money and all his relations is trying to kill him as in they too ask him for money so he is now asking me to be pregnant for him so that  we will get  marry and they will give him chance. please what am i to do now but really i don't want to be pregnant for any man until he marries me but this issue is on neck. what do i do. good advice no insult pls. I LOVE HIM oooooooo i don't want to lose him ooo

You sure?.. abi na money your own eye dey too

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy, lol

@topic, its obvious he's trying to use you and doesn't really want a baby. I think u should just stay out of his way and let him deal with the issues on his own. After all that's his money and he needs to learn how to tell his family that he doesn't like how they hunt him for money all the time. And as for you, getting involved isn't really helping the situation, because then they will start to think that you are the reason he's acting that way.
Posted: at 6-11-2008 01:17 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 6-11-2008 04:39 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: davidzita on  6-11-2008 12:50 PM
my pals, i want to you all to advice on this issue, i have this guy whom we have been together for long, now the problem is that he has made money and all his relations is trying to kill him as in they too ask him for money so he is now asking me to be pregnant for him so that  we will get  marry and they will give him chance. please what am i to do now but really i don't want to be pregnant for any man until he marries me but this issue is on neck. what do i do. good advice no insult pls. i love him oooooooo i don't want to lose him ooo
which one r u in love wit?
his money or d guy?
if u love him..why not tell him how u fill abt it.
Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:39 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 6-11-2008 04:43 PM (16 years ago)
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If Ur Heart Doesn't agree with Something, don't do it, cos u'll Always regret it

Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:43 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 6-11-2008 04:44 PM (16 years ago)
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whose heart doesn't agree wit money?..lol
Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:44 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 6-11-2008 04:48 PM (16 years ago)
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She's just in lov with money Grin Grin

Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:48 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 6-11-2008 04:50 PM (16 years ago)
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chikena!
Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:50 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 6-11-2008 04:58 PM (16 years ago)
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Shooo!!! How una take Know, Una be her Cousins??

Posted: at 6-11-2008 04:58 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 6-11-2008 05:05 PM (16 years ago)
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It is written all over her face.

Posted: at 6-11-2008 05:05 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 6-11-2008 05:20 PM (16 years ago)
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Na lie!!! l know her, she be Good Pikin

Posted: at 6-11-2008 05:20 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olame4 at 6-11-2008 05:27 PM (16 years ago)
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say the true na marry dey ur eyes,,,,,, woman don com wen the guy no get money she talk now way the money don dey u wont marry him n she no won the parent to enjoy him (ologu kokoro)
Posted: at 6-11-2008 05:27 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- osituga at 8-11-2008 06:53 AM (16 years ago)
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@ Poster... if you love him go ahead and give him twins or tripplet...No go lose the guy oooo as you talk am he be like say him get baaa wella
Posted: at 8-11-2008 06:53 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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