DOES IT REALY MATTER HOW YOU FEEL NOW?

Date: 21-12-2010 12:49 am (14 years ago) | Author: Saviour Ibanga
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- at 21-12-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago)
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It is known that life is full of ups and downs. That is, there is no stress free or problem free life.

We feel bad when we meet disapointment in our relationship and may be force to back out due to what we feel despite promises and commitment.

My friend is about to dump what they have laboured to build due to what they feel about themselves. She is hurt and a bit disapointed. In her words " He does not respect me as a woman even when i share in taking responsibiliy\ies"

The guy in question is not yet made but has potentials of becoming a cream of the society and so does not bow for her.

Does it really matter how you feel now in a relationship?

Does your feelings now in a relatioshion has a way of affecting your future if you evntually get married to d same person?

Please your opinion.


Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- onyin at 21-12-2010 01:00 AM (14 years ago)
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As a woman,how you feel matters alot.why?.cos you can neva change a man.so if you dont tell it to his face now,when you get married to him ,he might or might not change.the chances of him changing is very very very thin.but for a woman,its easy to change us.mostly if we truly love the man and really want things to work out
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:00 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 21-12-2010 01:16 AM (14 years ago)
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woman matter...count me out

Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:16 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 21-12-2010 01:22 AM (14 years ago)
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hmmm no comment.com brb

Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:22 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 21-12-2010 08:48 AM (14 years ago)
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Come on!
What kind of question is that, if it matters how u feel in a relationship?  Roll Eyes
Of course that it's very important!
If it's fine,great, if not,out!

Posted: at 21-12-2010 08:48 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 21-12-2010 08:51 AM (14 years ago)
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i feel ma r/ship b4 i marry

Posted: at 21-12-2010 08:51 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 21-12-2010 09:36 AM (14 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 21-12-2010 09:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 21-12-2010 09:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 21-12-2010 01:22 AM
hmmm no comment.com brb


Me too
Posted: at 21-12-2010 09:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 21-12-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 21-12-2010 08:48 AM
Come on!
What kind of question is that, if it matters how u feel in a relationship?  Roll Eyes
Of course that it's very important!
If it's fine,great, if not,out!


Hmmmmmmmmm.
Posted: at 21-12-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 21-12-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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i'm out

Posted: at 21-12-2010 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 21-12-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago)
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if he doesnt respect her now he would also not respect her when they r married so it matters cos dos r signs to look out for but if she can live with such person for the rest of her life den its ok but if not she should do what makes her happy cos our happiness is very important
Posted: at 21-12-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 21-12-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 21-12-2010 08:51 AM
i feel ma r/ship b4 i marry

 Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 21-12-2010 05:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 21-12-2010 06:11 PM (14 years ago)
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OKIES
Posted: at 21-12-2010 06:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 21-12-2010 06:12 PM (14 years ago)
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AWWWWWWWWWWWWHH

Posted: at 21-12-2010 06:12 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FIRSTONFIRSTON2 at 21-12-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago)
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 the simple logic of  emotional affires is that feeling is every thing. reasons, understanding even interest. All worship  at the feet of passion. who judges their sins until they are purified into affectionate desire.
Posted: at 21-12-2010 07:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 21-12-2010 08:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Of course it matters how u feel! Like Onyin already said u cant change a man

so if u feel it is not working out for u, u shud talk abt it wit him... If he is not ready to make the relationship work

the same way u want, then there is no other solution then to quit! Dont stay with the hope it will get better

after marriage, cos in most cases it will get worse!
Posted: at 21-12-2010 08:20 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Savelife4real at 21-12-2010 11:04 PM (14 years ago)
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All noted with tanx

Posted: at 21-12-2010 11:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 22-12-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 21-12-2010 08:20 PM
Of course it matters how u feel! Like Onyin already said u cant change a man

so if u feel it is not working out for u, u shud talk abt it wit him... If he is not ready to make the relationship work

the same way u want, then there is no other solution then to quit! Dont stay with the hope it will get better

after marriage, cos in most cases it will get worse!


Correct!

Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 22-12-2010 08:44 AM (14 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 22-12-2010 08:50 AM (14 years ago)
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pass

Posted: at 22-12-2010 08:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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