My wife is having beef with my mum (Page 3)

@ Poster, this is the result of when babies try to make babies. You are mentally not matured seriously. Dont mean to be rude ok. You should have had a private talk with your wife instead of bringing it to the open, with you full names, picture and even phone number? Wake up boy! If you are man enough to get her pregnant, you should be man enough too to handle the situation.
You could as well had done it discreetly without showing your identity.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u just talk my mind finish

Posted: at 9-02-2011 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Mumu you cant get any advice from me becos i dont support evil. How can you be going out with a girl when she was 14 yrs old. Child abuse dem go jail you for europe nonsense. I pity people dat will give you advice. Mama pls live the girl alone let her be

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Has your mum done things to offend/upset her? You know we women and our nature! Considering her pregnant status, she might get too irritated/annoyed easily. Nonetheless, she's got no right to disrespect your mother...and u, yes u're still a baby as far as marriage is concerned but since u chose to do what elders do, u automatically become an elder and should bear the consequences! Be a man, talk to her as a man should, insist that your mum should be respected and work on living separately from your mum (if possible). And please, be advised to soft pedal after the delivery of this child, it was a good thing u did not resort to abortion but please, give plenty space so that u & ur woman can upgrade ur lives/standard of living by doing something meaningful with ur lives and so that the baby would not bear the brunt of your recklessness......

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

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Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

i support ur idea  but then from experiece ,this gul need chance, need space
the situations she is in is unacceptable to her so she is doing to call attention  may be she need some of her family around her
so she can feel more at home,i would have adviced this guy to look for a house but though to his inability to afford that so, thats the out come

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

no mind the boy in won do the one in papa do remain nw in don hang troth

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

BECAUSE THE TWO OF YOU ARE IMMATURE TO BE NAMED HUSBAND AND WIFE.

@POSTER, WHAT WHERE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN AT THE AGE OF 16 THAT U NOW GOT HER PREGNANT AT 20?  IS IT THAT YOU HAVE FINISH AND NOW HAVE YOUR PHD OR THAT YOU HAVE ACHIEVE WHAT YOU ARE SUSPOSE TO

I.E HAVE A HOUSE OF YOUR OWN

A GOOD JOB ABLE TO KEEP YOU AND YOUR WIFE GOING WITHOUT EATING YOUR MOTHERS FOOD.

AND IF I MAY ASK, YOU ARE SENDING THE ATTACHED PICTURE TO NOOLY WOOD TO USE IT FOR ONE OF THE MOVIE.

I THINK YOU NEED A PROPER BEATING SO THAT YOUR SENSES WITH BECOME COMPLETE.  HOW WILL YOUR GIRLFRIEND NOT RAISE SHOULDER WITH YOU MUM, WHEN YOU REFUSE TO DO THE RIGHT THING.

u dey vex ooooooo..............d young guy 2 wan eat watin mature mind dey eat now.....and he don dey face d aftermath of d thing.... anyway Oh boy just dey focus as u must av alot ahead to cover don't let dis ur premature marriage weigh u down ur mum might not be there 4 u when d baby come and needed to be cater 4.....So just take d challenge ahead of u and know that u must force d irresponsibility out of u by planning hard to cater 4 u teen wife and d innocent baby coming.......see u @ d top of d situation

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

this is out come of irresponsibility and less concern over sex education.
u 2 re too young to tamper with fire, why dont both remebered that at ur age, u could
 have used condom to have sex since u re not ready to form family
u should have asked urself these questions before taken her to bed
ur mother may be acting in ur face that she  admitted the pregnancy but really
she is not nd may be doing something to upset the gul
Tell ur mum to give her chance,she must let her be,take her like her own duaghter
again, u as a man , give her some money to buy and prepare food if she can.
dont blaim her for anything nad forget about saying THIS PREGNANT OF A THING COS I DONT CARE TO KNOW

Posted: at 9-02-2011 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I actually don't understand your cry now huh   how can you found yourself in a situation where you were 16 & banging a girl of 14.don't you know it was child abuse?

The way you analyse your condition tells me you're passing a hell of a life..why did you start what is obvious you can't finish huh? boy i pity you so much.everything we do in life got it consequence,now you have to face the consequence of your action.look for something doing and tell your mum to give that little girl space b4 things turn ugly...

she's pregnant and needs to be pampered,not to be provoke...one more thing, you said you legally married her,how? if you can afford to marry her then you should understand you get to rent a room of your own ok..all you need now is some matured mind to direct you in real world.and i hope you don't smoke hard drugs..coz your eyes on that picture are not pure.

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Posted: at 9-02-2011 06:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero