21 phrases to use to help you FIGHT RIGHT with your sweetheart (Page 2)

Quote from: yukicares4u on  3-03-2011 05:49 PM

Quote from: divineproject on  3-03-2011 05:47 PM

Lovequito in da house.......weldone......

hehehe @DP...its love bug +lovequito chaii...lol..oya which one thrills u most jo?
hehehe @DK...dis address waoo..emma get lost ooo? hehehe

hehehehe, I never digest the thigs wella......I will do that morrow.....

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Posted: at 3-03-2011 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Found this on yahoo news, I tink it will b of help to many of us having problem in our relationships

Almost all couples fight; the secret is to fight right.

I’ve posted before about what NOT to say during a fight. Here are some phrases that will actually help.

When the Big Man and I are arguing, I find that the single best technique to apply is HUMOR. If one of us can laugh and joke around, the crabby mood lifts instantly. But during an argument, it can be hard to see the funny side of things.

Failing that, here are twenty-one phrases that help turn down the heat of anger:

Please try to understand my point of view.
Wait, can I take that back?
You don’t have to solve this—it helps me just to talk to you.
This is important to me. Please listen.
I overreacted, I’m sorry.
I see you’re in a tough position.
I can see my part in this.
I hadn’t thought of it that way before.
I could be wrong.
Let’s agree to disagree on that.
This isn’t just your problem, it’s our problem.
I’m feeling unappreciated.
We’re getting off the subject.
You’ve convinced me.
Please keep talking to me.
I realize it's not your fault.
That came out all wrong.
I see how I contributed to the problem.
What are we really fighting about?
How can I make things better?
I’m sorry.
I love you.

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/21-phrases-to-use-to-help-you-fight-right-with-your-sweetheart-2455249/

Posted: at 3-03-2011 06:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

  waiting...till 2moro

Posted: at 3-03-2011 07:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

OK 

Posted: at 4-03-2011 12:19 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmmmm

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Posted: at 4-03-2011 06:24 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

that came out all wrong

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Posted: at 4-03-2011 07:05 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:20 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@ poster, nice one

Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:32 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

NICE TIPS THOUGH.BUT ITS A PITY THAT ONLY A HANDFUL MAKE USE OF THESE TERMS DURING A COURTSHIPIAL CONFLICT.SHOULD I SAY PRIDE AND ARROGANCE IS THE CAUSATIVE AGENT WHY PEOPLE DONT MAKE USE OF THESE TERMS.PERHAPS OR BETTER STILL MAYBE THERE IS MORE.

Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 4-03-2011 12:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac